TL;DR at the bottom of post My ex gf and I dated for 5 years. The relationship was very good and happy, we cared deeply for one another and had made many future plans together that we agreed on such as where to live, pets, children, house decor, whatever. However she broke up with me 5 months ago. Since then a lot has gone down between us. At first I begged and pleaded and did all the bad stuff and I did it for a long time. She would always ask me for space and I would fail to give it. At the most I gave her 3 weeks of no contact, prior to that it was always me texting her and it was not good contact. When I gave her 3 weeks of space we actually had a good conversation, I was asking her for advice on something, she admitted she felt sad and fragile lately and no longer knew if she wanted the breakup. However the next day she got mad and blocked me so idk what to make of that. About three weeks later was Thanksgiving. She had some things to return to me and actually said she wanted...

TL;DR: My Boyfriend of 9 year's personality has changed so drastically to the point i feel i have to leave him. He is refusing to see this, and refusing to look into help that i believe we both could use to save the relationship. ​ I have been with my fiance for close to 9 years, but as of late things have changed. ​ ​ In the past year, he has become more and more judgmental to the things that make me happy. I have started to feel like he does not care the way he used to. He is just angry all the time, nothing i can see explains it ​ ​ I can pin point the moment it started too. I am a fanfiction writer and very reserved about who i tell this. No one i know in real life has read my work online and i like to keep it that way. He always knew i did, but never asked about it. It was the one thing i wished to keep private and he understood this. He has always understood our privacy line, i give him his and he mine, we trust one another. Well I finally felt okay showing him one o...

My partner and I heard about this place and kinda want to try it out. Does anybody have some details or personal stories about what to expect at a "Social Club" Yes, we have a pretty good idea and yes, we've read reviews and all that, but it's mostly PG and surprisingly vague. We're fun and social but feel like having a better idea going in would make for a better experience lol. p.s. sorry for any mistakes. I typed this fast and am using my phone. Thanks! Submitted January 09, 2020 at 11:32PM My partner and I heard about this place and kinda want to try it out. Does anybody have some details or personal stories about what to expect at a "Social Club" Yes, we have a pretty good idea and yes, we've read reviews and all that, but it's mostly PG and surprisingly vague. We're fun and social but feel like having a better idea going in would make for a better experience lol.p.s. sorry for any mistakes. I typed this fast and am using my phon...

I recently lost my virginity and didn't know what to do so he was doing almost everything. I gave him head but I completely failed when I tried to ride... it was so embarrassing. but I'm about to have sex again and this time I actually want to do more. but he doesn't seem the submissive type and truth be told I am not dominant. but I want to try for a little. and generally do more than give head and keep my back arched/lay in missionary. can I get some tips and advice on taking control? Submitted January 09, 2020 at 11:33PM I recently lost my virginity and didn't know what to do so he was doing almost everything. I gave him head but I completely failed when I tried to ride... it was so embarrassing. but I'm about to have sex again and this time I actually want to do more. but he doesn't seem the submissive type and truth be told I am not dominant. but I want to try for a little. and generally do more than give head and keep my back arched/lay in missionar...

So I met this guy in a bar and after talking for a while we added each other on Snapchat and he seemed cool. I wanted to have sex with him but I didn’t want to rush it because it’s a lot more hot when I hold myself back for the first couple times we hang out. So the third time we hung out I made my move and it was so hot when we had sex and we had sex a few times that night. I didn’t come but it was very passionate. He made breakfast the next day then left. Fast forward to a few days later he comes over and we hang out for a little bit then we go to my room and we have sex and after we had sex we were cuddling and he was telling me “crazy” things he has done in the bedroom with his ex. he would add a lot of unnecessary details (even tho I didn’t ask) but he mentioned his ex so much and that just really turned me off. I noticed that he talks about his ex a lot, but doing it right after sex was a big mood killer. I thought we would go another round and I was hoping to have a lot more se...

What do you guys prefer? I’m a girl with pretty small boobs and perky nipples and I am not so attracted to the big nipples that take up like half a boob. But it doesn’t matter what I like- what do you guys like? Submitted January 09, 2020 at 11:36PM What do you guys prefer? I’m a girl with pretty small boobs and perky nipples and I am not so attracted to the big nipples that take up like half a boob. But it doesn’t matter what I like- what do you guys like?

What are your personal thoughts on continued stimulation after an orgasm? For example, apple polishing is stimulating the head of the penis after an orgasm to produce a second orgasm, squirting, or just pleasure. It can be very uncomfortable for some. Do you enjoy it? Alternatively, have any of your partners seemed to enjoy it? Submitted January 09, 2020 at 11:38PM What are your personal thoughts on continued stimulation after an orgasm?For example, apple polishing is stimulating the head of the penis after an orgasm to produce a second orgasm, squirting, or just pleasure. It can be very uncomfortable for some.Do you enjoy it? Alternatively, have any of your partners seemed to enjoy it?

I’m a 24 year old female and haven’t found a condom that my partner and I like. We’ve tried many but it takes away so much sensation for both of us, So sexperts what condoms have you found to work well for you? Submitted January 09, 2020 at 11:39PM I’m a 24 year old female and haven’t found a condom that my partner and I like. We’ve tried many but it takes away so much sensation for both of us, So sexperts what condoms have you found to work well for you?

I am hoping to get intimate with a woman who has had molloscum for several months. We are very attracted to each other and would like to get physical in some way. I think PIV is off the table as the bumps are near her vagina. I know molloscum isn’t the end of the world but I reeaaallllly don’t want to catch that shit. We have toys and are willing to try other things but I would love some tips on ways we can have fun while staying safe and clean. Thanks. Submitted January 09, 2020 at 11:40PM I am hoping to get intimate with a woman who has had molloscum for several months. We are very attracted to each other and would like to get physical in some way. I think PIV is off the table as the bumps are near her vagina. I know molloscum isn’t the end of the world but I reeaaallllly don’t want to catch that shit. We have toys and are willing to try other things but I would love some tips on ways we can have fun while staying safe and clean. Thanks.

I’m female, bisexual, generally have sex in relationships but occasionally hookup. I consider myself sex positive, like I believe that as long as sex is consensual and safe, people should be able to do whatever they want and not feel guilty. I see sex as a fun and positive thing. I’ve been seeing someone and my brain feels really split. I like dominant people because I’m very submissive, but a few times she’s been pushy to be point I feel like I’m being ignored. The other day she did something that I thought I said no to before, and I felt kind of shitty after. Like guilty, like i don’t respect myself or like I’m getting taken advantage of, and kind of nauseous. But I’d still probably sleep with her again. So I’m wondering if I’m the only person who does this, since most people I know seem so in control of their sexuality. Am I weak? Masochistic? An insecure slut? Am I a bad person for this? Am I scarring myself for life by taking these risks? I feel like consent is impossible to un...

Posted in r/BDSMadvice as well but, I feel maybe this community might relate to what happened or also have some some input. Sorry for the longer post but more information provides for a better answer. I had the most intense orgasm of my life last night. I can cum easily, by both myself (F24) and my SO (M22). To the female orgasm I feel there are layers, at least for me. A light getting off feeling, I call cumming, and then a "big one" where I'll shake, my whole body will, and my legs will tremble for a while and my arms and face feel tingly/numb and I feel overall amazing. The "big ones" vary in intensity but last night was something new and very unexpected. It was similar but incredibly and overwhelmingly intense. We have started carefully experimenting with BDSM recently, specifically dynamics, and we didn't do anything intense with anything but power exchange dynamic D/s. The thing that gets me going the most is dirty talk/edging and that was all we ...

I know I'm in my "prime" and honestly I'm loving it. But should I live it up because will my sex drive die down. I've always loved sex, but the last 5+ years I would have it all day if it was possible. I look forward to masterbating during the day. I tell my hubby and then it's on later that night with us. Submitted January 09, 2020 at 11:47PM I know I'm in my "prime" and honestly I'm loving it. But should I live it up because will my sex drive die down. I've always loved sex, but the last 5+ years I would have it all day if it was possible. I look forward to masterbating during the day. I tell my hubby and then it's on later that night with us.

First of all these problems are very difficult to talk about for me, but whaterver. So when I masturbate I end very quick, sometimes even in few seconds (really) and I'm not feeling anything during it, no pleasure at all. So my question is, when I'll finally have sex with a girl it will be the same or even worse? Is there a chance that these problems will not encounter during real sex? Any comments are appreciated, jokes as well. Submitted January 09, 2020 at 11:51PM First of all these problems are very difficult to talk about for me, but whaterver.So when I masturbate I end very quick, sometimes even in few seconds (really) and I'm not feeling anything during it, no pleasure at all.So my question is, when I'll finally have sex with a girl it will be the same or even worse?Is there a chance that these problems will not encounter during real sex?Any comments are appreciated, jokes as well.

So I have a bit of a thing for girls in stiletto heel shoes and have always found it a huge turn-on. My gf doesn’t wear them much nowadays but I told her about it and she said she’s happy to do it. Unlike sexy underwear which makes her feel hot, she doesn’t really understand what’s hot about heels, but is aware men like them and doesn’t find it weird. She did tell me she wore them for sex once before on request, back when she was younger and wore heels out to nightclubs all the time. Knowing this makes me want to do it with her even more, even a bit jealous, but she just seems very neutral to it all, as if it’s no big deal but she’ll do it if she has to. Do I just have to accept her lack of enthusiasm on this and come to terms with her not finding it as hot as I do? Submitted January 09, 2020 at 11:52PM So I have a bit of a thing for girls in stiletto heel shoes and have always found it a huge turn-on.My gf doesn’t wear them much nowadays but I told her about it and she said ...

So I (25F) have been really wanting to show my husband (27M) how much I desire him. We have very different priorities when it comes to sex. He often asks for me to send pictures randomly but I rarely think of it, but I want to do better with this since he enjoys it so much. The problem is, I am not very creative/I feel like once you’ve seen one dirty picture, you’ve seen them all. But I would love to hear what poses/angles people like most so that I can maybe add them into the mix :) Submitted January 09, 2020 at 11:52PM So I (25F) have been really wanting to show my husband (27M) how much I desire him. We have very different priorities when it comes to sex. He often asks for me to send pictures randomly but I rarely think of it, but I want to do better with this since he enjoys it so much. The problem is, I am not very creative/I feel like once you’ve seen one dirty picture, you’ve seen them all. But I would love to hear what poses/angles people like most so that I can maybe ad...

If I what I’m doing, I guess. I got a late start with dating and sex and I’m having trouble with kissing as awkward as that sounds. Since last weekend I’ve tried kissing>making out with 4 women and I always find myself out of my depth. One girl did these pretty aggressive pecks and then suddenly started using her tongue. We just never got on the same page. Another girl and I...it’s hard to explain. Imagine you try dancing with someone but you keep stepping on each other’s feet, but a kiss. Another one was awkward because I just stopped. We kissed and the kid itself was okay. A slower one with no tongue (I wanna cut my skin off for typing this). I thought it was like a sweet moment so I stopped for literally like a second and then we had this awkward seesaw of should we kiss again or shouldn’t we. Then the last one was weird because she bit my lip and I liked that so then I thought I’d bite hers and I did it but it was just weird after that. I have a feeling like I shouldn’t hav...

Title. If I don't kiss someone because I have a cold, but I do go down on them, can I give them my cold that way? Submitted January 09, 2020 at 11:54PM Title. If I don't kiss someone because I have a cold, but I do go down on them, can I give them my cold that way?

How do you guys feel about your girls kissing your neck? Submitted January 09, 2020 at 11:57PM How do you guys feel about your girls kissing your neck?

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and whenever I give him a handjob or blowjob, he dry orgasms. He also dry orgasms when masturbating but there are times he doesn't dry orgasm when masturbating. But he's never not dry orgasmed with me. Why and how is he dry orgasming? Submitted January 10, 2020 at 12:01AM I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and whenever I give him a handjob or blowjob, he dry orgasms. He also dry orgasms when masturbating but there are times he doesn't dry orgasm when masturbating. But he's never not dry orgasmed with me. Why and how is he dry orgasming?

I'm 30 and my wife is 32. We've been married 5 years. She was my first and as far as I know, I was hers. So to put things in perspective, we didn't have much prior experience. I've always known I'm a high libido person and would mention it whenever we talked sex while dating. She'd joke about it in a sexy/positive manner (?) Right after marriage things started going down hill. Initially it was maybe twice a week. Then once. By the third year it was down once or twice a month. Now in our fifth year, it is maybe twice a month if it happens. I've had multiple conversations, multiple discussions that we should work on this. Later, things would be better for a week and then go back to the same situation. In the last 4-5 months, I've just been feeling down in the pits. She's never really been the one to initiate ever. There's zero effort from and it is as vanilla as it happens. She refuses when i offer to go down on her. In five years, she's...

Since I became sexually active a couple months ago, my menstrual cycle changed drastically. I didn't get my period for a whole month, finally got it. I adjusted my cycle length in my cycle calculator/calendar by making it longer (it went up to 38 days) and I'm still late. I usually have a consistent period that shows up on the day it's due if not early at times. No it was not and is not pregnancy. Submitted January 10, 2020 at 12:08AM Since I became sexually active a couple months ago, my menstrual cycle changed drastically. I didn't get my period for a whole month, finally got it. I adjusted my cycle length in my cycle calculator/calendar by making it longer (it went up to 38 days) and I'm still late. I usually have a consistent period that shows up on the day it's due if not early at times.No it was not and is not pregnancy.

Some background, I'm a woman in a relationship with a man. We've been together for 5 years and are in our early 20s. I've always struggled around the confusion of orgasms and how to achieve them. Before I was old enough to purchase sex toys the only way I could achieve one was from humping a pillow, and for most of that time I didn't even know it was a orgasm because from that method they aren't extremely powerful (still pretty good!) though infinitely repeatable and only take about two minutes for the first one, and then about 30s for any I decide to have afterwards. I've always kept this very hush hush and had no clue other women did this also until I finally looked it up. Once I was 18 I bought a vibrator, and with it I can have a very powerful orgasm, this tool is where I learned I can cum pretty hard, I can squirt, the soles of my feet get hot and fuzzy and I can have a blissful full body orgasm. I don't know why, but most the time my clit is too sen...

I never thought love existed, or how to define it. Then I met her, lost her, met her again, lost her again, met her again, then lost her for what I can only assume is the end for real. 19 years in the making, and I finally thought this was it, from childhood awkwardness, to adults fully on there own two feet, years in-between without talking, and always finding each other in the end. Soss was the love of my life. I finally found out what it was, someone who wants you to be the best you, but also someone who can bring out your worst. I was mean when I got hurt, said things could never take back. Does love exist? Absolutely. It's the most painful thing you could ever feel. Submitted January 09, 2020 at 11:59PM I never thought love existed, or how to define it. Then I met her, lost her, met her again, lost her again, met her again, then lost her for what I can only assume is the end for real. 19 years in the making, and I finally thought this was it, from childhood awkwardness,...