I (F24) had the most intense orgasm of my life and it was amazing and terrifying. Has anyone else experienced this?

Posted in r/BDSMadvice as well but, I feel maybe this community might relate to what happened or also have some some input. Sorry for the longer post but more information provides for a better answer.

I had the most intense orgasm of my life last night. I can cum easily, by both myself (F24) and my SO (M22). To the female orgasm I feel there are layers, at least for me. A light getting off feeling, I call cumming, and then a "big one" where I'll shake, my whole body will, and my legs will tremble for a while and my arms and face feel tingly/numb and I feel overall amazing. The "big ones" vary in intensity but last night was something new and very unexpected. It was similar but incredibly and overwhelmingly intense.

We have started carefully experimenting with BDSM recently, specifically dynamics, and we didn't do anything intense with anything but power exchange dynamic D/s. The thing that gets me going the most is dirty talk/edging and that was all we did last night during sex which lasted for about 20-30 minutes. I was then hit so intensely by orgasm I thought I was going to pass out. It just came on like a big sudden wave.

It was scary because it came on so quickly/overwhelmingly after he came the second time (he normally will cum twice in the same sex session, then he stops and if I'm not done he will finish me with fingering/etc). I had came repeatedly during, waiting for the "big one(s)" but they were still mildly intense, which is normal. After it was over, I thought I had reached nirvana and was going to die (not really though I was scared and that thought kept popping up in my mind). It was so intense and happy and I couldn't feel (tingly numb feeling) my arms, legs or face, usual with orgasms but way more intense. And I kept feeling like I was going to pass out.

We talked after and we're both fine, he helped me calm down and I couldn't get up for almost 30 minutes, still coming down from that orgasm wave vibrating through me, constantly overwhelming. I don't know if it will happen again or if it will sneak up on me again. Normally I'm very good at analyzing and working through anything, but this was basically a whole new sexual experience I don't think I'll ever forget and I've never first-hand heard of anything like this.

I guess my question is, is this okay? Has anyone else experienced this? Was there an easy way for you to calm down? I assumed it happened because of chemical releases in the brain from the stimulation of the sex, and from the mental aspect/headspace I go into from the D/s dynamic, but I really don't know.

TLDR; I had the most intense orgasm (F24) of my life and it was amazing and terrifying. Can anyone relate?



Submitted January 09, 2020 at 11:43PM

Posted in r/BDSMadvice as well but, I feel maybe this community might relate to what happened or also have some some input. Sorry for the longer post but more information provides for a better answer.I had the most intense orgasm of my life last night. I can cum easily, by both myself (F24) and my SO (M22). To the female orgasm I feel there are layers, at least for me. A light getting off feeling, I call cumming, and then a "big one" where I'll shake, my whole body will, and my legs will tremble for a while and my arms and face feel tingly/numb and I feel overall amazing. The "big ones" vary in intensity but last night was something new and very unexpected. It was similar but incredibly and overwhelmingly intense.We have started carefully experimenting with BDSM recently, specifically dynamics, and we didn't do anything intense with anything but power exchange dynamic D/s. The thing that gets me going the most is dirty talk/edging and that was all we did last night during sex which lasted for about 20-30 minutes. I was then hit so intensely by orgasm I thought I was going to pass out. It just came on like a big sudden wave.It was scary because it came on so quickly/overwhelmingly after he came the second time (he normally will cum twice in the same sex session, then he stops and if I'm not done he will finish me with fingering/etc). I had came repeatedly during, waiting for the "big one(s)" but they were still mildly intense, which is normal. After it was over, I thought I had reached nirvana and was going to die (not really though I was scared and that thought kept popping up in my mind). It was so intense and happy and I couldn't feel (tingly numb feeling) my arms, legs or face, usual with orgasms but way more intense. And I kept feeling like I was going to pass out.We talked after and we're both fine, he helped me calm down and I couldn't get up for almost 30 minutes, still coming down from that orgasm wave vibrating through me, constantly overwhelming. I don't know if it will happen again or if it will sneak up on me again. Normally I'm very good at analyzing and working through anything, but this was basically a whole new sexual experience I don't think I'll ever forget and I've never first-hand heard of anything like this.I guess my question is, is this okay? Has anyone else experienced this? Was there an easy way for you to calm down? I assumed it happened because of chemical releases in the brain from the stimulation of the sex, and from the mental aspect/headspace I go into from the D/s dynamic, but I really don't know.TLDR; I had the most intense orgasm (F24) of my life and it was amazing and terrifying. Can anyone relate?
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