I have a huge crush on this guy who’s like 6 years older than me (20F). He’s a friend of a friend but he’s super cute and we just get along really well. I don’t want to absolutely humiliate myself but I can’t stop think about him. The age difference doesn’t really bother me but I’m worried he will think I’m too young. Wtf do I do?? Submitted January 31, 2020 at 12:24AM I have a huge crush on this guy who’s like 6 years older than me (20F). He’s a friend of a friend but he’s super cute and we just get along really well. I don’t want to absolutely humiliate myself but I can’t stop think about him. The age difference doesn’t really bother me but I’m worried he will think I’m too young. Wtf do I do??

So I attend college and in between classes I have a huge gap. I decided during that gap that I wanted to buy some AirPods at the nearest Apple store. A girl my age helps me out with the transaction, all while we have some very light and mildly flirty conversation. I was planning on trying to get some form of communication as the transaction finished, but she gave me what I came for and said enjoy. I left and grabbed a bite and while eating I thought about going back to try and grab a number. Since I didn’t purchase AppleCare for the headphones, my plan was to try and return to the store to add the AppleCare to the headphones with her again, and this time I’d (hopefully) be successful. As I walked back to the store, I noticed she was speaking with her manager at a table near the cafe. I assumed it was something about her job, so I waited and waited close to the entrance of the store, since I didn’t want to interrupt something that was potentially important for her. The convo between

Hey! ​ I'm a 30-something girl, and I went out a couple days ago with a guy from Tinder. I went straight to his house, we made dinner (or he did and I helped a tiny bit), we had wine, talked A LOT and had sex. I spent the night, had breakfast with him (which he also made) and left. I texted him the same day in the afternoon, saying that I loved spending time with him, and that I had forgotten something at his house (which was a true accident). He said well, you'll have to come back and get it, and a winky face. That was yesterday. I really want a second date with him, but I don't where to go from know. I know that's really silly, but I'd love some advice on waiting for him to say hi/ask me out or texting him (and what to say). Submitted January 31, 2020 at 12:27AM Hey!​I'm a 30-something girl, and I went out a couple days ago with a guy from Tinder. I went straight to his house, we made dinner (or he did and I helped a tiny bit), we had wine, talked

So I posted about this elsewhere and I'm still lost from the advice. So recently I told a good friend of mine I like her but she politely rejected me. Today she tells me she does have mutual feelings for me but says she cant be in a relationship with me due to her religious promise and beliefs ( Shes christian). I'm Islamic. I honestly like her a lot and want to find a way to make this work or at least find some kind of closure here. Any advice would be appreciated. I'm so confused and lost right now. TL;DR: Confessed to a friend a while ago got rejected, today she tells me she does have feelings for me but cant be more then friends due to her religious promise. Any advice for my situation? Submitted January 30, 2020 at 11:54PM So I posted about this elsewhere and I'm still lost from the advice.So recently I told a good friend of mine I like her but she politely rejected me.Today she tells me she does have mutual feelings for me but says she cant be in a rel

Me and my brother have never necessarily been close. To start, we're half brothers, we share the same dad. He lives in NY and I live in NJ so needless to say, there's a fair bit of distance between us. Whether or not I'd like to admit it, I've always looked up to him and I really care about him. I remember when I was younger, I'd always want to be like him. I wanted to dress like him, listen to his music, even kind of look like him. But even from that age, it kind of seemed to me like he didn't want to know me, like I was just an annoyance. Well, as we got older I started to hang with him when he came down to visit my dad,(my mom and dad are split up) and we kind of bonded, or so I thought. One week, me and my friend went to NY for the weekend. We were alone and wanted to do some fun things. I thought, who better to ask than my brother? He lives in the Bronx and we were Manhattan, a little bit of a husk but nothing insane, so he said that he wanted us to go to

Dunno where exactly to start tbh. Had a LDR for 2 years (F21) (M21), and with long distance, I really mean it. I feel like we really loved each other, we had our problems tho, mainly cultural ones. We still had plans for the future, wanted to meet up badly. At that time I had a minimum wage job, so there was no way I could afford the money for a really long time. He talked with his parents, mainly his dad, and he offered to pay for the entire flight (~800$), plus every other costs that would come with it, so at the end it was probably around 1000$. I thought about it for a long time, but my ex said I should just do it when his dad is okay with it. So, I did meet him, but shit just got worse. Some issues with his parents, apparently they didn't like me at all he told me after it, even when I tried to be really polite, and I'm not known as a natural rude person imo. I guess cultural differences and a language barrier with his mom were the main problems there. Plus, our problems

I find it very easy to describe outgoing/social people. It easy to describe them and say “oh he’s outgoing.. social, talks a lot, very cheeky, a happy person” But how do I describe a person who is the opposite without sounding negative? As he is a great person to!? I find myself saying “Oh he’s quiet, reserved, a good person, seems serious but has a good heart” I don’t know I find it soooo difficult and I don’t want to come across negative. I want to talk about these him highly to! Advice? What characteristics could I talk about? TLDR: how do I describe a person who is quite reserved? What characteristics could I focus on? Submitted January 31, 2020 at 12:08AM I find it very easy to describe outgoing/social people. It easy to describe them and say“oh he’s outgoing.. social, talks a lot, very cheeky, a happy person”But how do I describe a person who is the opposite without sounding negative? As he is a great person to!? I find myself saying“Oh he’s quiet, reserved, a good p

Me and my husband have being together for 13 years, we have being married for 3 years. And the last 3 years have being the hardest of my life, he has always being a drinker but it only became a problem when we got married and he started a new business. At first I thought it would be a phase because of the the new business, but it wasn’t and I started to develop a drinking problem myself. We both enable each other for the first two years, but I realize it was a problem when close friends had a mini intervention for me. For the last year I have stop buying alcohol (but a few times I did) and have being trying to quit on my own, but have fail many times. Almost everyday I get home there’s a bottle on the kitchen counter, there are days I can resist and there are days I can’t. I have being trying to encourage him to get help and always send him links to audio books (books that I heard myself to encourage me to stop drinking) or aa meetings information but he has ignored them. This past h

I have this one friend that is just kind of a ass but I have a crush on him. I've pretty much always liked him a bit since I've met him and I just kept saying jokes like flirting. Me and him are both almost always high and we hung out twice out of school. First time, me and him were just talking and smoking weed and his ass rushed home after. Then the second time, well we sorta made plans for me to let him touch my tits cause it was a deal/bet/flirt we've made so I met to his house after he got high like 30 minutes before. So I was literally in his room sitting down and something happened cause we kissed then made out then stopped and we kept making out while I was there. I had no shirt underneath and I let him take off my bra and left a big ass hickey on my neck. Nothing more than making out. Me and him were talking and still kissing at some points during that time. Oh god when I had to go he lifted me up and continued kissing me cause he was taller than me but he put me

My girlfriend and I started dating in October 2019 and broke up two days ago. Basically, we broke up because our schedules were both busy, hers especially. I am doing some travelling interspersed through January and February. She is a classical musician playing in an orchestra this weekend — which involved early-morning practices through the first three weeks of January and late-night practices this week — and coming up has some auditions for graduate programs, has to record clips to gain entrance to summer music programs, and has to start practicing for her final undergraduate recital, on top of other schoolwork. So, super busy! I understood that she was really busy and tried to be accommodating, but on the other hand, I felt not-very-cared-for because she didn’t seem bothered when we couldn’t spend time together. This also relates to her demeanour; she can be rather impassive about most things. I started to feel like she didn’t care, felt sad, and then felt some resentment developi

How do I show her I'm not being sarcastic and I genuinely think she's very pretty and talented. Sometimes I smile or giggle a bit because I get nervous around her, I'm trying to stop doing that so I look more genuine but she always says in a playful way that I sound sarcastic. She's introverted and deals with anxiety and other things. She's had problems with past relationships ending badly, I'm not sure what I can do to show i'm being sincere. I know it's not your words but your actions that show your emotions but I don't know what actions I could do for her that would show my affection. I'm a rookie at this whole relationship thing. ​ I think she's special and don't wanna mess it up. She's not big on public displays of affection but we mostly see each other at school since we're taking it slow. I really want to show her how much I care for her and how special she is to me but I'm not sure what to do. TL;DR my gf think'

I have been engaged for 4 years. Last year I suffered a serious head injury and was unable to work for a whole year. Finally I got a new job a 5 min drive away. I have been working there for a few months. He is not working but is helping pay Bill (savings) He refuses to drop me off or pick me up at work due to me not depending on him once he gets a job and because he is not a cab or taxi service. The 3 times he had dropped me off I had to beg him. I am accused of using him?Am I being insane for this being a real issue to me. Just everyone else I know goes out and beyond with their loved one on relying on them. He gets so mad/stubborn at me when I ask. Growing Up my family always helped however they could. They would always make sure the other one had an easier life no matter what. Including my sister driving me 45min a day to college. Of course we made sure that the other person did not have plans or anything. We didn't take advantage of each other but we always helped. Of cours

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didnt think i’d be into this, but now i can’t stop thinking about it. last night when we were having sex i started moaning and sometimes if i’m too loud he’ll look me in the eyes and go “shhh, baby” or he’ll put his hand over my mouth. i swear to god it just makes me louder 😂 i can’t help it, i don’t know why but when he does that it just makes my stomach jump and shit. sometimes he’ll even choke me and i LOVE that. so i’m aware i’m fairly submissive but there are some things i feel like are just too... harsh i guess? but anyways, i started moaning and i saw him look at me. i half expected him to go “shhhh” or ya know some variation of that. instead he looks down and goes “shut up you fucking whore” i was shocked. i didn’t know what to say, or do. it’s kind of like when a child falls, then they’re shocked, then they cry. except he called me that, i was shocked to my core, then i tumbled into an orgasm 😂 or at least it felt like it! i was extremely confused for a good couple seco

Hi all. I had raw sex with my boyfriend about 4 days ago. I would love to know what you think my chances are because now I am definitely getting concerned !! Or I’m not too sure if I’m overthinking things. I have a interesting fertility situation so Realistic answers only please ! So Let me break it down for you : -I had raw sex with him 4 days ago. -I was definitely fertile on that day -He did NOT finish in me -He told me that he is unable to ejaculate due to a surgery that he had when he was younger from a testicular cancer scare. ( this condition is also known as retrograde ejaculation ) -I have seen him climax 2 times prior and did not see any cum when he finished . He basically just finishes dry. -men who have retrograde ejaculation usually have to go through IVF to get their partner pregnant . I feel like most of my chances are low but can anyone help shed some light on this situation ? I overthink things a lot and you can never be too sure . Submitted January 30, 2020 at 1

So I watch lesbian porn...a LOT. Been watching it since I was 14 I’m 22 now and all I ever watch is tribbing Lool the thought of rubbing my wet pussy against another wet pussy has me leaking. Tried it in real life once and it was absolutely shit. Couldn’t get the angle at all. Anyways I’ve never had an orgasm without porn and I can ONLY orgasm to tribbing vids and I’m sick and tired of it it’s the bane of my life. How do I re-adjust my brain. Submitted January 30, 2020 at 11:46PM So I watch lesbian porn...a LOT. Been watching it since I was 14 I’m 22 now and all I ever watch is tribbing Lool the thought of rubbing my wet pussy against another wet pussy has me leaking. Tried it in real life once and it was absolutely shit. Couldn’t get the angle at all. Anyways I’ve never had an orgasm without porn and I can ONLY orgasm to tribbing vids and I’m sick and tired of it it’s the bane of my life. How do I re-adjust my brain.

Can be during sex or afterwards Submitted January 30, 2020 at 11:46PM Can be during sex or afterwards

Looks are not more important than personality. I am F21 saying the truth. Submitted January 30, 2020 at 11:46PM Looks are not more important than personality. I am F21 saying the truth.

Or are they all celibate? Submitted January 30, 2020 at 11:51PM Or are they all celibate?

Weird question but what would you rather hear a girl say in casual conversation : let me touch your penis? Let me see your cock? Etc. which word is better to you or you think sounds the best coming out of a girls mouth. Also, when it’s in a non sexual context would you rather her use a more explicit term or just the word penis ? Submitted January 30, 2020 at 11:52PM Weird question but what would you rather hear a girl say in casual conversation : let me touch your penis? Let me see your cock? Etc. which word is better to you or you think sounds the best coming out of a girls mouth. Also, when it’s in a non sexual context would you rather her use a more explicit term or just the word penis ?

I only felt it once In the spooning position, I never feel it in missionary or doggy. Any others? Submitted January 30, 2020 at 11:52PM I only felt it once In the spooning position, I never feel it in missionary or doggy. Any others?