I don't even know her age, but I know there is a big difference. Background: I am just a high school senior who decided to take an internship to decide on his career. I already know that I will study biomedical engineering at a rather good college in my country. I am at a hospital helping *engineer A –*who is the first line of response when medical equipment from a specific company is broken. She is a recent college graduate who is taking an internship at the same place with *engineer b –*an engineer from another company also installing and fixing equipment (I think). ​ The first day in my internship... Both of our groups greeted each other in a hallway and engineer b mentioned that she should be with us the next few days to "learn something new" and "meet ;) new people". She looked quite young and I was excited to meet someone new. Next thing I know, we are working on a CT machine maintenance and she's there. We were left alone for a small while and...

So I’m a single 26 year old male and I’ve dabbled in a few different sites with some success. I recently decided to try again on some of these apps, not tinder but like plenty of fish type stuff. Honestly they’re terrible. I made a new profile and and went through and added pictures and after like 20 mins of jumping through hoops I’m inundated with fake messages instantly from girls that are supposedly like 600 miles away. Anyone else have these issues or have any solutions? I remember being frustrated on eharmony because even if you pay it doesn’t mean the person you’re interested in is and so they can’t message you back. They all seem to have old outdated profiles of people who haven’t logged in for over a year. Some of these women haven’t been on in so long they could’ve made and birthed an entire human being. They could’ve finished college or have gotten married! Yet they still show up in my suggested matches! It’s insane! Submitted January 09, 2020 at 12:19AM So I’m a singl...

I (21F) have been talking to this guy (24M) for the past two or three months. It was strictly platonic but things are changing. We’re developing feelings for each other. The thing is, we live in different states. I’m going down to his state next month and he’s willing to drive the distance (6 hours +) just so we can meet up and see if we have chemistry in person, because so far all we’ve done is text and talk on the phone. The thing is, I don’t know if I’m wasting my time here. I’d like to think that I’m not but at the same time, there’s doubts. If we don’t hit it off in person, then that most likely will be the end of things on the romantic side. But... there’s also the distance and I’m not sure if he’s willing to do a distance relationship. Should I not get my hopes up or go with it and prepare for the worst? Should I see where his head is at in regards to what would happen if we do decide to go the romantic route? Sorry if this is a mess, my mind is all over the place about this l...

Ive been texting a girl for around a month with pretty much no interaction in real life and whenever I hint at meeting eachother she brushes it off with a one word reply. She initiates conversations half the time but generally her replies are short and she rarely expands on the conversation herself. I want to stop talking if its just a waste of time but I don't want to if there is a chance we can get together. Is this normal or am I being led on? When i have asked directly i got a non commital answer but she does have fairly strict parents. Submitted January 09, 2020 at 12:24AM Ive been texting a girl for around a month with pretty much no interaction in real life and whenever I hint at meeting eachother she brushes it off with a one word reply. She initiates conversations half the time but generally her replies are short and she rarely expands on the conversation herself.I want to stop talking if its just a waste of time but I don't want to if there is a chance we can...

Met this guy on dating apps a few days ago and started chatting. I was instantly into it, he’s so funny and texts back fast and I was getting excited. Long story short, he ended up telling me (sorta by necessity, long story) that he had just started talking to another girl and I know who it is. We aren’t friends but I know her. Obviously this is completely fine- we’ve only texted and it’s sort of assumed that people from apps are dating around. Im doing the same but no one that I like nearly as much. He said it isn’t serious with them but it honestly killed my buzz. I think he’s so cool and don’t want to ruin this for myself but I keep thinking about it and haven’t been replying to him with the same enthusiasm anymore. I don’t want to get too invested and get hurt. I don’t know how I would navigate asking how their relationship is progressing. All of that. I hate the idea of competing for a guy and that’s what it feels like. And then I have the added feeling of guilt that I know the...

So I haven’t work with this guy for 4 years. Haven’t spoken to him either. He randomly messages and says that we should have coffee and catch up. I said sure that sounds great and he then says we should go for a walk too. I said I have plans later that day so I don’t really have time but coffee sounds good. And then he says “ok that’s great, sounds like a date” I’m in a relationship but it’s not public yet...how should I reply to that message. I don’t want to be assumptive if he meant it innocently and make it awkward but I also don’t want him going into it thinking it’s a date Submitted January 09, 2020 at 12:27AM So I haven’t work with this guy for 4 years. Haven’t spoken to him either. He randomly messages and says that we should have coffee and catch up. I said sure that sounds great and he then says we should go for a walk too. I said I have plans later that day so I don’t really have time but coffee sounds good. And then he says “ok that’s great, sounds like a date”I’m in...

I’m (26/f) going to vent, please let me! Dating in Orange County, Ca is not the easiest. Especially if you are late 20’s and up, have a full time job that takes up time and don’t want to go to a bar every weekend. I know this from first hand experiences and from plenty of friends/acquaintances who express the same frustrations. If I do find a man I click with, it always turns into the same thing! They say they hate what California is turning into and they are moving away ASAP to start their life somewhere else where their money goes farther, no homeless epidemic, etc, etc, etc.. Honestly I can’t blame them but as someone who is stuck here due to family obligations and can’t just leave and start a new life somewhere else, it is sooo frustrating to hear! Everything between us clicks & is perfect except for the fact they can’t see themselves staying in California long term or even splitting their time here. I’m so tired of feeling this disappointment!! Submitted January 09, 2020 ...

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So, I matched with an unbelievably attractive girl on tinder. We are both looking for some intimate casual fun together. Our conversations have progressed to messaging on telegram and we have begun sexting. Problem is , she is VERY demanding and something about how she types just seems....off. English is not her first language so maybe its just that. To be honest, a part of me is seriously considering the possibility that she is either a bot/a catfish/or someone just fucking with me. For example, she keeps specifically asking to see my face and say her name while jerking off...Should I be suspicious? I am smart enough to have used an alias but I am a little worried that the images might be being used for illicit reasons.... Am I crazy?? Submitted January 08, 2020 at 11:18PM So, I matched with an unbelievably attractive girl on tinder. We are both looking for some intimate casual fun together.Our conversations have progressed to messaging on telegram and we have begun sexting. ...

Edit this is for both men and women, so note your gender pls Submitted January 08, 2020 at 11:25PM Edit this is for both men and women, so note your gender pls

Stupid question, I know. There's this guy that I really want to sleep with. So much so, it's part of the reason I broke it off with someone else I was seeing (we were dating a month, not an established relationship). Another reason I broke it off is because I realized I'm in no place to be in a relationship for maybe a long time, I need to sort some things out. I want to sleep with him no strings attached, but admit before I came to the realization I needed to stay single, I imagined seriously dating him. But that's always how it goes. I just want to sleep with someone, but trap myself into relationships because something, something, personal. I've had no strings and caught feelings only to come out the other side and realize I'd messed up something nice by thinking things had to go further. Another time, I saw someone with the intention of dating eventually, caught feelings too fast when he wasn't ready, but in the end after pretty devastating heartbrea...

Hey looking for a bit of advice about toys. Sex for me has always been painful (doesn't matter how much foreplay or build up and my doctor couldn't really find a reason for it 🙄) so I'm wondering if anyone has had similar situations and what toys have been helpful, I've tried a vibrator and that didn't do much so I'm looking for other options. Thanks 😊 Submitted January 08, 2020 at 11:29PM Hey looking for a bit of advice about toys. Sex for me has always been painful (doesn't matter how much foreplay or build up and my doctor couldn't really find a reason for it 🙄) so I'm wondering if anyone has had similar situations and what toys have been helpful, I've tried a vibrator and that didn't do much so I'm looking for other options. Thanks 😊

Throwaway account since I wanted some decent advice and thought getting quite detailed might help. Basically the title explains it but I am a virgin and have never done any kind of sexual acts with another person-I’ve not even kissed anyone before. I masturbate fairly regularly, once every couple of weeks on average probably. But I have never brought myself to orgasm. Or I don’t believe so anyway. I read the faq and learned about how you can just be content after masturbating rather than how orgasms are generally presented in porn or movies. However I do feel like maybe I could push myself further and I’m just not. I don’t really have a reason for stopping masturbating when I do. I just do. I’m wondering if maybe there’s something I can do or if I’m just not ready yet. Just to include other potentially relevant information to paint a picture of myself and my lifestyle: I have had depression and anxiety issues for several years and have recently started on venlafaxine however, not o...

I sound so much like I'm 15 here that I'm not sure this is the right sub but wasn't sure where else to ask... I'm 23 I swear. I never really put much thought into this but when my boyfriend and I kiss it always makes a 'kissy noise' when we let go. He's the only person I've kissed so that's all I know. Sometimes he doesn't make the noise on purpose so I guess it's something he is doing consciously but it feels really off when he doesn't and when I try to make the noise myself I feel really awkward. Has he been doing something weird all this time? Am I weird for not doing this? Am I overthinking, probably right? Submitted January 08, 2020 at 11:30PM I sound so much like I'm 15 here that I'm not sure this is the right sub but wasn't sure where else to ask... I'm 23 I swear.I never really put much thought into this but when my boyfriend and I kiss it always makes a 'kissy noise' when we let go. He's the on...

Hi, So I got circ'd two years ago for medical reasons (tried stretching, etc), I'm ok with it, masturbation is good, etc. What bugs me is the fact that even if sex is still good why should the human body have a condition that alters (note: not necessarily makes worse) the most natural thing in the world (i.e. the mechanics, gliding action, etc etc). So this got me thinking, do that men seem to have a worse sex life, or more prone to issues, then women. For example, being circumcised and the effect it can have on sexual pleasure in some cases, erectile dysfunction (I have some degree of this), etc. Women have to give birth (if they want kids), periods, menopause, some sexual conditions, but there isn't anything that can permenantly alter or reduce pleasure? Even vaginismus is treatable? Do women have any equivalent issues? Submitted January 08, 2020 at 11:32PM Hi, So I got circ'd two years ago for medical reasons (tried stretching, etc), I'm ok with it, mas...

Ok so like over the weekend I was about to have sex but I had trouble getting all the way hard probably just cause of nerves. But I haven’t jacked off in while and now I like can’t get my dick hard and I’m not horny. On Saturday that shit was rock hard and I could get it hard easy. How the fuck do I fix this so I can have sex this weekend? I’m fucking 17 wtf Submitted January 08, 2020 at 11:35PM Ok so like over the weekend I was about to have sex but I had trouble getting all the way hard probably just cause of nerves. But I haven’t jacked off in while and now I like can’t get my dick hard and I’m not horny. On Saturday that shit was rock hard and I could get it hard easy. How the fuck do I fix this so I can have sex this weekend? I’m fucking 17 wtf

One day my close friend had called me late night when he had gotten out of jail recently for us to smoke since we haven’t seen each other in awhile we wanted to catch up. I’m only 17 so I can’t just really leave my house in short notice in the middle of the night so I decided to use my dog as an excuse to my mom acting like she was about to throw up and I needed to take her outside ASAP to which I just went in my friends car with my dog since he’s always wanted to meet her. Now my dog already had anxiety and separation anxiety. Everything was going good we were smoking with my dog chilling in my lap kind of nervous the entire time. We had already fucked once before and I was horny then so I asked him to fuck me like fuck it why not we’re already there. So of course we went to the backseat and I left her in the front seat. The whole entire time she was crying and freaking out and trying to get to the backseat. After that we started making sex a regular thing so I’d sneak him in and of ...

Throwaway account sorry. I am kinda ashamed and embarrassed of my kink (Female by the way) wondering if any one else is like this. I have always been into asses and everything to do with ass play. My bf and I do ass play a lot. However, I have more specific kinks I am embarrassed about, specifically enemas, urethras, anal stretching, and anything “doctor” like anal inspections. This is what I look up when I go to pornhub. I told my bf drunkenly one night but I don’t remember him saying anything. Idk even know if this is something normal. Also idk how to bring up that I might want to do some of this. I am pretty positive my bf would not be receptive. Am I just a freak and should live with it? Submitted January 08, 2020 at 11:45PM Throwaway account sorry. I am kinda ashamed and embarrassed of my kink (Female by the way) wondering if any one else is like this. I have always been into asses and everything to do with ass play. My bf and I do ass play a lot. However, I have more speci...

Condom question Hello, I have a question about a condom I use that maybe someone can help me out with. I’ve been using Trojan ultra thins, and a while back my dad had given me some Trojan ultra thins, and the condoms themselves were in a small gray packaging that said made in Korea. Now if go buy a box of Trojan ultra thins from a store the condoms seem to be different and come in a blue packaging and don’t say made in Korea. I’m a little confused and I’m thinking that the gray made in Korea ones could have been some kind of lower grade condom. The gray made in Korea ones actually felt better but I don’t know if I can trust them and don’t know where my dad happened to get them from since the ones I’m buying are different. Has anyone else noticed this too? Submitted January 08, 2020 at 11:50PM Condom questionHello, I have a question about a condom I use that maybe someone can help me out with. I’ve been using Trojan ultra thins, and a while back my dad had given me some Trojan u...

Where I live the motels have a small window box inside the rooms where you pay for 8-12 hours a stay. Me and my boyfriend (due to long distance) stay in them twice a week after going out for dinner and such. Every time we walk in I'm immediately slammed against the wall near the box, arms pinned back and skirt/dress lift up for his cock to slide raw in my pussy. For the first solid 2 minutes he'll be pounding me hard until we'll hear a knock on the window, then he'll open it and slide in his card while thrusting in me at a slower pace and playing with my clit so I'll break silence and moan loudly. Let's just say it's become my favorite thing and I keep having fantasies of people watching us fuck. We always make sure to be real loud so the people in the next room can hear. I don't know why but it turns me on like crazy and I've encouraged having sex in public areas. Which we have but haven't gotten caught just yet, but I'd be lying if I said ...

i know this sounds like common sense but hear me out. i spent a lot of years faking orgasms or lying about if things feel good or not just to please the other person. needless to say, it made for a pretty mediocre sex life. i do enjoy sex even if i don't cum, but being honest and vocalizing me likes and dislikes has completely changed my sex life. if it's more than a one time thing, i'm always open with talking about sex. i'm a pretty tough orgasm and usually it takes double the amount of time for me to cum than my partner, i also can't cum unless i help myself. now that i talk to my partners about this it allows me to be more relaxed and therefore more likely to cum. i've never had someone tell get annoyed with this as i thought i would and if i don't feel like i'm going to cum i always just tell them and have never had a bad reaction. so if you're someone who fakes a lot, chances are no one is going to be upset and you'll both be happier!!! ...

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andrés, OK, so I know that we only started off as friends, then to soon best friends, and I just wanted to apologize for all of this confusion. You see, I haven’t really had feelings for someone to such an extent. I don’t know, maybe I like you, maybe I’m just so overwhelmed when talking to you. I think I’m just scared to admit my feelings for you because I’m deeply afraid to get hurt. I’m tired of being let down, you know? Tou could give your all to one person, and then they could leave you unknowingly. I’m sorry, it’s just you’re too adorable when you’re shy and you get all flattered when I compliment you. You’re the only person that can make me unable to breathe.. you make me all anxious and I feel so happy when I’m around you. You’re too cute, aHhhh. I don’t know why you make me feel like this. You’re amazing and I’d anything to make you happy. I adore your company and it’s crazy how much I appreciate you. You’re perfect to me.. and don’t be sad, But when you are, remember that I...