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Dad walked in on us partly nude

He knew we were home but when he came back he thought we had left as all the lights were off. He claims I left the door slightly ajar and no sound was coming from inside my room, so he walked in. I thought I had closed the door but I guess not. I’m not sure if my girlfriend knows the door may have been ajar. I’m fine I just want to know if I should maybe talk to my girlfriend about it? We acted as if nothing happened after and things were still fun, and we still have plans coming up. But I don’t want any weird tension between her and my dad. He would never intentionally do that. We weren’t nude but underwear and shirt that’s it. Basically should I mention anything else about it or forget it? Thank you. Submitted April 01, 2022 at 01:11AM He knew we were home but when he came back he thought we had left as all the lights were off. He claims I left the door slightly ajar and no sound was coming from inside my room, so he walked in. I thought I had closed the door but I guess not....

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Ikr LOL... I love that pic of her <3 April 01, 2022 at 12:14AM

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Thank you for saying this. Im an allo on this sub for fun cause yall are cool. And i was just about to ask if someone could explain this post to me cause i was confused how it was possible but ur comment enlightened me and make it make sense. April 01, 2022 at 12:13AM

He’s cancelled the first date… twice

I (31f) met a dude(25m) online in late February. We hit it off amazingly well, like multiple messages a day for two weeks, big long paragraphs from both of us, compatible in every way we thought to discuss. Both just wanted casual but regular fun, no meeting the parents/friends/etc or expectation of moving in, etc. I don’t want marriage or kids or anything and he’s still at an age where I’m confident he won’t switcheroo on me about it being casual (had that happen before, it sucked). We arranged to meet up on Sunday early March. I was so excited, he seemed into it, got to like 45 minutes before he was supposed to rock up… and then he cancelled. He’d been out with friends the night before, they suggested grabbing lunch, he accepted. I was like “for real?” Bit upset. Very disappointed. He later apologised properly, told me they were very old friends he hadn’t seen in a long time. I was slightly mollified. Then he said he needed a break from the entire site we met on and went radio sile...

Is it bad that I have no hope anymore. I feel like I can’t control it

So i’m getting to know this guy over text and he’s 100% my type, but I can’t help but self sabotage because deep down i feel nothing is ever going to work so I don’t even bother that much. It makes me sad that i’m so awkward over text, and can’t think of things to talk about, even though i do like the guy. I feel like im being lazy in the relationship and again it’s due to that deep rooted belief that nothing ever works and i end up alone. For example i sent him a video of me dancing, and he responded but didn’t compliment me. Asked him what are his plans for the night and he hasn’t text back. I feel like i messed up. I feel like i can be my best self, but i always end up self sabotaging. Guess i just wanted to rant. Just sad. Submitted April 01, 2022 at 12:12AM So i’m getting to know this guy over text and he’s 100% my type, but I can’t help but self sabotage because deep down i feel nothing is ever going to work so I don’t even bother that much. It makes me sad that i’m so a...

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I wanna live in a flower nest now 😭 March 31, 2022 at 11:34PM