I like erotic fiction as well, but I also get that dirty, unsettled feeling from reading it. I think for sex repulsed asexuals it's about finding our limits, asking what can we do in the moment as well as how will it make us feel later. Experiments are necessary and we need to be kind to ourselves. February 24, 2022 at 12:27AM

Heyo, 21F here, on 75mg of Zoloft, have been for a while now. I go through periods where I feel like I genuinely feel myself getting aroused and it’s amazing but then I go through periods where nothing turns me on, at least not a lot. Is this normal? I have the best partner who is very understanding but I feel bad because I feel like I’ve taken my frustrations out on him a bit - it has made my communication during sex a little rusty. I don’t want to disappoint him, I want him to be satisfied, and I want to have more sex! I just wish it didn’t take so much for me to get in the mood :( Submitted February 24, 2022 at 12:15AM Heyo, 21F here, on 75mg of Zoloft, have been for a while now. I go through periods where I feel like I genuinely feel myself getting aroused and it’s amazing but then I go through periods where nothing turns me on, at least not a lot. Is this normal? I have the best partner who is very understanding but I feel bad because I feel like I’ve taken my frustrations

That line stung. :( February 23, 2022 at 11:34PM

Whoa. This explains a fair amount about me. But it leaves me with some questions as well. Like, okay, so I definitely am the responsive type, but now what? And can I fix it a little? February 23, 2022 at 11:33PM

I have a plan, it’s illegal for “Ethical reasons” right now, but I’m planning on cloning! February 23, 2022 at 11:32PM

I was surprised that most anime watchers are horny, I am from japan, and everyone seems decent February 23, 2022 at 11:32PM

He could be Demisexual or Greysexual or fully Asexual but occasionally experiencing sexual attraction or maybe what seemed like sexual attraction was another type of attraction like sensual attraction either way only he can say what orientation he identifies as so if he chooses to identify as Ace accept that February 23, 2022 at 11:27PM