hi guys, girls This question goes to anybody who has gone trough any similar experience, or think that may have an advice on the matter. 3 years ago I started talking to a girl on instagram. She was incredibly receptive to my messages and we got along very well. Turns out she had a boyfriend. When I found out, I kind of thought that was a lost cause, and just writed something like "if you feel like missing me just talk to me on whatsapp". A day later or so I got a new message; it was from her. From that point on we started talking a lot, and the "only reason" we didn't see each other was because of her boyfriend; who she doesn't want to betray. Anyway, in that time we did some sexting and nude sending (????) but we never got to see each other. She wanted to stop talking to me because she wanted to stop doing things "wrong" but she couldn't and neither did I. So we keep talking for a few months. One day she made up her mind and we stop talking....

Me (30/F) is currently dating 40/M. We met through an app, couple months ago. We had sex on our second date, and it's been three months since that happened. Right now i meet him regularly and we texting everyday. He told me that he couldn't have a serious relationship (marriage) because he just divorced and also he needs to take care of his businesses. I want a relationship that lasts, but it doesn't have to be a marriage. How to make him understand that? And also ever since he said it, it makes me hold my feelings (i couldn't be carefree with him although I really happy to be with him -i couldn't even ask for a pic together) But he's really a gentleman, he always hold my hand whenever we're together, he doesn't shy to hug and kiss me in public. Does it means that he really care of me or it's just a usual things to do even though only for a casual date (but i don't want a casual date, i want an exclusive relationship)? I'm an Asian and he...

I finally asked out a girl I’ve liked for 2 years probably now. While I asked out other girls before. I told her and she basically said no right after talking. There’s nothing wrong with that she said no it’s her choice I’m not forcing her into anything she doesn’t want. I did learn and want to tell all of you never focus on something for a long time not even just dating for anything. If you want something just go for it now and maybe fall, it’s a leap of faith. Submitted December 06, 2019 at 11:50PM I finally asked out a girl I’ve liked for 2 years probably now. While I asked out other girls before. I told her and she basically said no right after talking. There’s nothing wrong with that she said no it’s her choice I’m not forcing her into anything she doesn’t want. I did learn and want to tell all of you never focus on something for a long time not even just dating for anything. If you want something just go for it now and maybe fall, it’s a leap of faith.

Im 17 m. ive been homeschooled most of my life. I just moved to a new town and work as a baker so i have extremely early hours and tend to sleep around 6 to 7 pm. How can i meet people at this weird age where i want a serious relationship, but dating apps wont accept me yet? Submitted December 06, 2019 at 11:51PM Im 17 m. ive been homeschooled most of my life. I just moved to a new town and work as a baker so i have extremely early hours and tend to sleep around 6 to 7 pm. How can i meet people at this weird age where i want a serious relationship, but dating apps wont accept me yet?

*** THIS IS A NO JUDGMENT ZONE *** The aim in asking this question is to: 1) To give females a safe space to be honest about why they ghost guys they’ve gone on dates with (assuming they had AT LEAST a decently good time). 2) To give the millions of guys out there who have experienced this type of ghosting some clarity and feedback 3) To create a space where girls can be honest, and, do so in a way that isn’t so scary or unpleasant to face - since having to tell a guy directly why you don’t wanna continue communicating is hard because you don’t want them to feel bad, for example. Submitted December 07, 2019 at 12:01AM *** THIS IS A NO JUDGMENT ZONE ***The aim in asking this question is to:1) To give females a safe space to be honest about why they ghost guys they’ve gone on dates with (assuming they had AT LEAST a decently good time).2) To give the millions of guys out there who have experienced this type of ghosting some clarity and feedback3) To create a space where girls ...

What would you do if you went on a date with a guy who told you he was a heroin addict for about a year. He went to rehab and he has been clean for a year and swears he will never touch drugs again because he will never forget how bad withdrawing was and he knows his life has more purpose than drugs. I'm interested in this guy, and who knows what will happen down the road. But I guess I've just never experienced this in my life so I don't know how to react. Submitted December 07, 2019 at 12:01AM What would you do if you went on a date with a guy who told you he was a heroin addict for about a year. He went to rehab and he has been clean for a year and swears he will never touch drugs again because he will never forget how bad withdrawing was and he knows his life has more purpose than drugs. I'm interested in this guy, and who knows what will happen down the road. But I guess I've just never experienced this in my life so I don't know how to react.

Hey! I’m in need of some advice on how to possibly start talking to a guy I’m interested in? I just graduated from a graphic design program last spring in which he was the year behind me. We really haven’t said much to one another, other than some compliments. (I also took his photos for a competition poster I was in charge of and also on). I actually believe he might be a few years older than I am. I believe he’s single, but I can’t confirm (I won’t pursue if he isn’t). But I think he’s attractive and extremely talented in our field. I... just don’t know how to start having convos with him... In the few in person interactions we’ve had together I feel like I’ve caught him looking at me more than what would be typical, so maybe an indicator? I dunno. I don’t have his number but we have each other on a few socials. I’ve commented on his posts before and he always responds... Never actually been the first to try and go for a guy before. Any advice would be superb! Submitted Dece...

Read Receipts are a tool of the needy person. Don't use them. Nobody likes someone who wants or sends read receipts. We're all busy and we all have pressure in our lives, and there's no need to add more pressure to it. I don't need to know if you've read my message. Once you stop getting the read receipts, you'll find yourself thinking less and less about whether the other person has read your message. Just assume that if they haven't texted you back, then they are busy and will get back to you later. That's the smart thing to do anyway if you don't want to appear needy. Submitted December 07, 2019 at 12:06AM Read Receipts are a tool of the needy person. Don't use them. Nobody likes someone who wants or sends read receipts. We're all busy and we all have pressure in our lives, and there's no need to add more pressure to it. I don't need to know if you've read my message. Once you stop getting the read receipts, you'll f...

Played games in terms of acting hot and cold, being flaky etc. I wonder if anybody ever got through this phase and started being more serious? Submitted December 07, 2019 at 12:11AM Played games in terms of acting hot and cold, being flaky etc. I wonder if anybody ever got through this phase and started being more serious?

So there is a girl in my group in university. We clicked and things happened. She is bisexual and her Ex is a girl. They are not in touch, they are not contacting each other. They broke up on the 2nd of October. On 22nd November i asked her if she wants to be in a relationship with me, she agreed. We go out twice a week(we see each other at uni) she texts me 24/7, we make out a lot and she comes in my apartment. I'm not blind i can see that she likes me, her mother knows about me, things seem good. We were in my bed talking and she told me she feels great when im around she isn't thinking about her ex, but when I ain't around since her friends are lesbians it reminds her of her ex and she can't move yet. She told me that she feels better with me and she won't go back to her ex, but when i asked "what if she wants you back" she replied with "Idk how i would react". And that really bothers me, because it makes me think that she still has feelings ...

19F, sophomore at a university in NYC. my school is also small so i’m afraid of disaster and rumors if a relationship goes wrong. for that reason i’ve been thinking that maybe i should just follow the trend and get on a dating app? i’ve had 3 bfs and one gf before, all ended amicably except one so i’d say i’m somewhat experienced and confident. i’m a chatterbox so i don’t mind dates and the like. disclaimer, i’m not really into hookups. i’m super scared of STIs and weirdos lol. do you guys find that apps can help you find genuine relationships and good experiences? i’ve heard some.... distasteful details from girls i know who use tinder etc so i’m wondering if anyone would have any hopefully positive insight or advice! Submitted December 07, 2019 at 12:23AM 19F, sophomore at a university in NYC. my school is also small so i’m afraid of disaster and rumors if a relationship goes wrong. for that reason i’ve been thinking that maybe i should just follow the trend and get on a dati...

as an older single dude(55) and on the dating scene i wonder why i always seem to attract younger women?. not that there is anything wrong with that .. but it seems to happen way more than i thought it would ..and by the way . im talking about date sites....as i have also found out there are many scammers as far as women go .. and im sure women will say the same thing ...however sometimes just connecting with a woman who is ... honest no drama and totally cool happens then the are on the other side of the world .lol but im sure my day will come ..so i will stay the course!! but has anybody had any luck with this online dating?.. i would love to hear from you ... and ...GO Submitted December 07, 2019 at 12:27AM as an older single dude(55) and on the dating scene i wonder why i always seem to attract younger women?. not that there is anything wrong with that .. but it seems to happen way more than i thought it would ..and by the way . im talking about date sites....as i have also ...

I guess it could be a different story if you are in a relationship already and your partner is about to move to another country- But what I’m asking here is when you just started dating, or maybe you’ve been dating her/him for a month or two, and he/she said they have to move to another country where you don’t live, but you like her/him very much- would you still continue? Or move on? Submitted December 07, 2019 at 12:35AM I guess it could be a different story if you are in a relationship already and your partner is about to move to another country-But what I’m asking here is when you just started dating, or maybe you’ve been dating her/him for a month or two, and he/she said they have to move to another country where you don’t live, but you like her/him very much- would you still continue? Or move on?

Was it during dinner? During sex? Was it just a nonchalant tiny thing? Was it a gesture? Be specific and detailed as much as you like! Thanks for sharing. Hopeless romantic here lol Submitted December 06, 2019 at 11:48PM Was it during dinner? During sex? Was it just a nonchalant tiny thing? Was it a gesture? Be specific and detailed as much as you like! Thanks for sharing. Hopeless romantic here lol

Ok so, I turned 30 in october and recently I've been feeling lonely. I have always wanted to date but I steered clear because I thought/still think there are a few things I need to have in order before even looking for someone. I'm not in a great situation financially, and im still working toward losing weight, but I don't want that to hold me back from getting on a dating app or something. My main question is, should I wait until I'm making more money/lost weight to start looking? Submitted December 06, 2019 at 11:46PM Ok so, I turned 30 in october and recently I've been feeling lonely. I have always wanted to date but I steered clear because I thought/still think there are a few things I need to have in order before even looking for someone. I'm not in a great situation financially, and im still working toward losing weight, but I don't want that to hold me back from getting on a dating app or something. My main question is, should I wait until I...

I cant believe the situation I am in. This is so bizarre... I posted asking if anyone thought my FWB was being manipulative yesterday. Holy hell was she ever.. but not the way I thought. So I finally broke down and talked to her freind again last night.. she reiterated that nothing has changed.. her and her husband are together according to the world.. in her mind its over.. but she still lives with him, and still interacts with his family. They are a couple to everyone but her (depending who shes talking too) I was cheated on and my wife left me.. and this is why I am now single. I knew she was married, and so was I. I had to know I wasn't going to be the other man.. I couldn't be a home wrecker. That goes completely against my character. She explained to me they are seperated, and he lives at his parents house or sleeps on the couch if he stays around to be with the kids. I asked her if he seen us out in public.. how would he react.. she said he would be fine with it. Wel...

I’ve dated an Eeyore and a Spongebob. And a Drax from Guardians of the Galaxy. ;-) Submitted December 07, 2019 at 12:04AM I’ve dated an Eeyore and a Spongebob. And a Drax from Guardians of the Galaxy. ;-)

Sorry you went through that my friend /: At least you now know. December 07, 2019 at 12:20AM

I only realized that myself a few weeks ago. I actually once invited someone to Netflix and Chill... though I think that I wrote that we'd be watching children's cartoons made it obvious that there wasn't going to be any funny business. I'll never know because he didn't have time that day, though maybe he was just weirded out. December 07, 2019 at 12:09AM

Let's talk about cake. We can probably all agree that there are many delicious kinds of cakes out there. At first you might think that everyone wants to eat cake, but there are actually some who don't. Some people will still eat cake even if they aren't hungry for that because they like the sweet taste, others may eat it to be nice to the one who made it. If someone doesn't like cake, there is nothing wrong with them. They might eat biscuits instead or just nothing sweet at all. Cake = Sex in all its forms Hungry for cake = sexual attraction Eating for sweetness = like the feeling of sex Eating for someone else = doing it for your partner Biscuits = satisfying needs on your own It might sound silly, but it's the best way I can describe it. December 07, 2019 at 12:00AM

I gotcha fam!! Thanks for sharing! I think it’s easy to forget about those who have realized they’re not ace after a while. So it’s good to see it!! December 07, 2019 at 12:00AM

I love doing shenanigans in the lower region, can't tell how many times just a muscle reflex has almost broken my nose. Thighs are much stronger than arms and just a laughter reflex might be enough to shake the teeth up. Stay low everyone and stay safe. Submitted December 07, 2019 at 12:03AM I love doing shenanigans in the lower region, can't tell how many times just a muscle reflex has almost broken my nose. Thighs are much stronger than arms and just a laughter reflex might be enough to shake the teeth up.Stay low everyone and stay safe.

So I've been reading other post about this and idk... hoping someone can help or offer advice But recently I have completely lost interest in sex and its impacting my relationship with my girlfriend(24). I think it started about a month ago and it's not getting any better. I can still get hard if I touch myself but I cant stay hard and I'm terrified that if I initiate with my SO, I'll go soft and make her fell bad (has happened a few times already). I used to wake up with morning wood but I dont anymore, I used to get angry/antsy if I didn't release at least once a week, but I havnt masterbaited for like 3 weeks now. I'm not overweight, I'm about 150 and 5'10''. In fact I've been losing weight during the past month. I'm not really depressed, but this issue has given me extreme anxiety and I've cried a few times about it. I went and got a testosterone test and it came back normal. I havnt looked at porn in a while, I dont really dr...