I wanted to write this to get some other opinions on my relationship. I’m starting to wonder if my relationship is bordering on abusive but I find it hard to not convince myself that I’m overreacting. My fiancé (male, 21) and I (Female, 19)have been together for a year. We dated for awhile then broke up, I dumped him because he proposed to me then changed his mind and completely checked out of the relationship rather than telling me he didn’t want to get married, he just started acting unkindly towards me. We got back together awhile after that. Things have been good, but I always feel like he doesn’t respect me. Sometimes I try to tell him about my day or about something that happened and he will just give me a sarcastic response basically insinuating that he is uninterested. He says he’s joking right after but I never feel like he is. I never feel like I can have a conversation with him because he usually doesn’t listen. He talks to me like a kid. The other day I came into our bed...

This morning my partner of four years told me that he wanted to split up. That he loves me, but that his gut is telling him that it’s for the best that we no longer be together. We’ve had ongoing problems, and we’re unable to continue therapy at the moment due to COVID. He told me he feels like he’s done too much damage to the relationship. I know the right thing to do is respect that. I’m not going to argue someone’s gut feeling. We just always told each other that we would never leave unless we’d exhausted all other options. Because we loved and appreciated the other person so much that we knew we could get through anything. We’ve had 3 therapy appointments, and they were all centered around one specific problem. I do not feel that every option was exhausted. What I do feel, is given up on. I have put up with and pulled through so many of his lies and… I could go on and on with what I’ve put up with, but I know this isn’t about that... This is about him. This is about him feeling li...

Hi there, first time posting so forgive me if there are any formatting issues. I'll provide backstory so you have context: I (M26)dated a girl(F25) for ~6 months and we recently broke up. We had been seeing each other exclusively (as far as I know) for 12 months prior to us agreeing to date officially so she was a part of my life for a total of ~18 months. We had decided that we still wanted to be in touch and a part of each other's lives post the break up. We had been texting and had hung out a few times since in a non platonic manner. She recently texted me this and I'm trying to wrap my head around if theres any hidden messages I'm missing here. The other thing I'd appreciate any commentary/insight on is if you think she might reach out in due time. "Also I've been giving this some thought lately - I realized I need to take some time for myself right now and focus on me and helping my fam. I know after we talked about going our separate ways we weren...

I made a throwaway to ask. 22f, I’ve had one, MAYBE two yeast infections in my entire life with no other infections ever, and I’ve always washed myself with scented soap. I read about women struggling with infections all the time on reddit and how it’s a HUGE no-no to use soap down there. I don’t go into my actual vagina, but between the vulvar folds and what not... I like to smell really good. Why is this so bad? Are there other women out there who do this and DONT get infections? Also, as a bisexual female, literally every time I’ve gone down on another woman, they’ve smelled dirty to me and don’t seem to care about “freshening” up before sex. Why does it seem so rare for other women to want to be “fresh” and smell nice? Submitted April 05, 2020 at 11:00PM I made a throwaway to ask. 22f, I’ve had one, MAYBE two yeast infections in my entire life with no other infections ever, and I’ve always washed myself with scented soap. I read about women struggling with infections all the...

Me and my fwb have always wanted to try this, especially after she had a bad experience previously with someone else and wanted to erase those memories, since we have so much of a natural connection and understanding with each other and oh my lord, it was the most intense fuck we have ever had! Now, I have fingered/rimmed her before on so many different occasions before so warming her up was no issue, and we started with me going down on her and eventually eating her ass and fingering her and massaging his anal canal, and by the time I slipped in she was super loose and ready for it, and my god it felt sexy just "galloping" in. We started in missionary with her on her back and gradually to the point taking her legs up onto my shoulders and penetrating her like that and then after a while I put both of her legs to the right side of my shoulders alone, with her ankles crossing each other; I don't know why but I found that super hot, I think its because she felt tighter a...

I’m very confused. I want passionate sex from my parter but I don’t know how to get it. Usually I just make sure he gets his a couple times a day bc his sex drive is high. I will want it maybe once a month (probably due to some childhood trauma) I don’t know how to explain to him how I want it to be more passionate. I told him if I ask him to go down on me I don’t want him to ask for a blow job in return. Usually when he does that I just shut down and just let him use me at that point. He can’t go down on me with out staying he needs something in return. I just really don’t like it especially, since I hardly ask. He says I need behavioral therapy bc that’s crazy. I’m just confused on how I could maybe explain it to him differently. Or maybe I do need therapy ? Submitted April 05, 2020 at 11:02PM I’m very confused. I want passionate sex from my parter but I don’t know how to get it. Usually I just make sure he gets his a couple times a day bc his sex drive is high. I will want it...

My wife and I recently have been expanding our boring sex life and trying kinks. We love role play and have talked about cuckholdery, she just has no clue how to ask a guy to do it. I said I don’t need to be right there that she can film it, and she doesn’t have to tell them what it’s for but she doesn’t know how to ask someone, any suggestions? Submitted April 05, 2020 at 11:03PM My wife and I recently have been expanding our boring sex life and trying kinks. We love role play and have talked about cuckholdery, she just has no clue how to ask a guy to do it. I said I don’t need to be right there that she can film it, and she doesn’t have to tell them what it’s for but she doesn’t know how to ask someone, any suggestions?

The majority of the time (I’d say like 75% of the time) I have to initiate any kind of sexual activity with my boyfriend. We are both quite shy people when we are with others but when we are with each other we can just be ourselves. I’ve said to him quite a few times I’d like it if he could initiate more or take control more instead of leaving it to me and he says he will but he will only do it immediately after I’ve said that and then will just leave it to me again. I have to initiate sex and I have to initiate bjs and just doesn’t do anything. We currently haven’t been able to see each other for a few weeks because of self isolating and lock down in the uk. Due to this I’ve tried sending sexy snapchats or video calls but again he leaves it to me. If I send a snapchat of me with my top off but not able to actually see lower than my shoulders he won’t say anything except I’m cute and will it at that no matter how many pictures I send. He won’t ask to see more or to do anything and I’m...

So I do not like condoms at all because sex without them feels much more amazing. My girl got paranoid when she missed her period for almost a week and was bleeding a lot more than usual and for longer. Since she thought it could have been a miscarriage, we agreed to try condoms. I got Trojan Studded Pleasure condoms because I thought the studs would make up for us using a condom, and the length was fine (I am a little over 6 inches little less than 6 and a half) but it seemed very tight on my shaft and tip. After taking it off I noticed a soreness around the base of my dick. I was concerned about desensitization because I have had problems with DGS (death grip syndrome). It was very uncomfortable and I was worried and voiced this with her. Maybe I need to roll the condom out all the way even if my dick doesn't fit? I am worried about losing sensitivity as the condom was already doing that to me. Submitted April 05, 2020 at 11:14PM So I do not like condoms at all because sex...

If I finish quickly during me time is that a reflection of how long I would also last with someone else or have people found there is no correlation between the two? Edit: Lasting Submitted April 05, 2020 at 11:20PM If I finish quickly during me time is that a reflection of how long I would also last with someone else or have people found there is no correlation between the two?Edit: Lasting

A few months ago, my GF was giving me oral sex, she sucked on my right testicle maybe a bit too hard and I had this really big pain. I took paracetamol as an antiflamatory and it was gradually getting better. Just to make sure I went to an urologist. He "felt" it and didn't notice anything and I had an ecography just to make sure. The ecography revealed a benign cyst, about 4mm, I went back to the urologist to show him my results and he said nothing is wrong, that there is nothing to worry about, specially if the pain is going away. He said that if in the future I'd get another "pain phase", I should try the paracetamol again. Thing is it's much better, but depending on where I touch my testicle, I get pain, if my GF does oral sex on that testicle, I get pain (not as much as before of course, but it's uncomfortable). Has anyone had this before? How can I make it better? Submitted April 05, 2020 at 11:23PM A few months ago, my GF was giving...

so, i have a fantasy where im hooking up with someone, but the thing is, shes a virgin, or at least inexperienced. and at the same time, either im also inexperienced, or im extremely experienced. now, the fantasy goes that we foreplay for a while, until eventually she says shes ready. however, when i try to penetrate, she says its not gonna work. and no matter how many times i try, and no matter how many times i say "its ok", i am as patient as they want me to be, and it takes many many foreplays before shes comfortable enough to let me break her seal. in this, i do it as many times as it takes to make sure she wants it completely. this fantasy comes from the fact that, no matter how experienced or IN-eperienced I, or my partner may be, all i want is to give them what they ask for, to give them the fun they deserve, and to show them no shame is allowed for inexperience Submitted April 05, 2020 at 11:24PM so, i have a fantasy where im hooking up with someone, but the th...

I’d really like to fulfill this fantasy in some way, as it’s his biggest fantasy. But I’m just too straight. I’m pretty sexually adventurous, but only with men. I’m in my late twenties and I’ve never so much as kissed another girl. I try and watch lesbian porn to see if I can get even somewhat aroused and just.....nothing. I’m a little disappointed because I know he’d love it. I don’t think I’d be comfortable with a threesome ever for jealousy reasons, but if I was bi or even bi-curious I’d totally let him watch me with a girl! But I’m just.....not. Is there any way I can satisfy this fantasy? Role play or something? He watches mostly threesome porn which I’m totally cool with. Before anyone asks, he does not pressure me or act unkind about this so no one badmouth him. He’s a wonderful partner. We have a great sex life and are both very satisfied, but he’s made it clear how much of a fantasy this is for him, and he’s had several bi girlfriends in the past who have indulged it. Su...

We've been together for about 6 months. Sex with him is fun, no doubt about that. But no matter how much attention I pay to his entire body, he wont get up until I touch his dick, and that even takes a minute. Is this typical, is there something else the matter? We have sex often, so I put in a lot of time just in foreplay. Not exactly a big deal, it's good prep for my mind and body also. I think I'm really just curious. Submitted April 05, 2020 at 11:31PM We've been together for about 6 months. Sex with him is fun, no doubt about that. But no matter how much attention I pay to his entire body, he wont get up until I touch his dick, and that even takes a minute. Is this typical, is there something else the matter? We have sex often, so I put in a lot of time just in foreplay. Not exactly a big deal, it's good prep for my mind and body also. I think I'm really just curious.

i had a gf for 7 momths who wad super kinky. howvwer i could never make her cum..it really ruined my seld esteem.with other girls they always seem to know what makes them.cum.but with her i trieed everything and when i asked her she would just say anything or i dont know. the relationship made me feel inadequate and like i wasnt good enough. do you think it was my fault? she was also very dry even when i first met her always very very dry and tight. maybe she was desensitized as she had slept with many men used her vibrator a lot and watched lots of porn? i also remember she liked having her ass eaten then when i ate her ass she said i didnt do it right? how do u not eat asss right i Lite rally watched every video and jt seemed straight forward. man that relationship destroyed my self esteem Submitted April 05, 2020 at 11:33PM i had a gf for 7 momths who wad super kinky. howvwer i could never make her cum..it really ruined my seld esteem.with other girls they always seem to know...

My girlfriend has her period at least 2/4 weeks a month and sometimes 3. We're on different work schedules so that one week we get a month often ends in her surrounded by the dogs asleep before I get off work. I still go down on her because she doesn't bleed when she has a tampon in but she gives up on going down on me once I get her off once or twice. Sometimes she just stops there and says "sorry my jaw hurts etc" sometimes I get lucky and she let's me stick it in her butt which she gets really into after a few minutes. She's scared if we do it often she's going to end up like... Leaking. Has anyone here done anal multiple times a week, multiple days in a row, etc? Did it make you... Leak or cause damage? I have needs too.. Submitted April 05, 2020 at 11:33PM My girlfriend has her period at least 2/4 weeks a month and sometimes 3. We're on different work schedules so that one week we get a month often ends in her surrounded by the dogs aslee...

We haven't been out of the house in quite sometime. We are having more sex which is great. But, we are doing nothing but watching TV and stuffing our faces all day. We are getting extremely lazy. When our daughter left the house neither us wanted sex. We didn't even get out of bed until after 2pm. We were so tried but we did it anyway and neither of us could finish and we just gave up. We thought we would try again later but we were too tried from doing nothing all day. Anyone? Submitted April 05, 2020 at 11:42PM We haven't been out of the house in quite sometime. We are having more sex which is great. But, we are doing nothing but watching TV and stuffing our faces all day. We are getting extremely lazy. When our daughter left the house neither us wanted sex. We didn't even get out of bed until after 2pm. We were so tried but we did it anyway and neither of us could finish and we just gave up. We thought we would try again later but we were too tried from doing ...

I am also a virgin. Submitted April 05, 2020 at 11:46PM I am also a virgin.

I am 28 as is my boyfriend and we have sex about once a week (except for the week I have my period). We’ve been in a relationship for almost 5 year but it’s always been this way ... wondering if this is normal. Submitted April 05, 2020 at 11:50PM I am 28 as is my boyfriend and we have sex about once a week (except for the week I have my period). We’ve been in a relationship for almost 5 year but it’s always been this way ... wondering if this is normal.

First - this is a throwaway account Long story short: My Girlfriend [24] & I [22] are somewhat kinky. We love to try new things and are obviously open to new thing.. a few days ago she suggested to upload stuff on pornhub but without showing our faces because we don't want to get recognized. I would love to do this with her, but i'm not sure what are the Pros & Cons in doing this.. and i guess she isn't thinking about it either. What would you guys say? What are some pros and cons? Maybe some of you are uploading porn on PH or other sites and can tell me/us what is bad/good about it. Submitted April 05, 2020 at 11:51PM First - this is a throwaway accountLong story short: My Girlfriend [24] & I [22] are somewhat kinky. We love to try new things and are obviously open to new thing.. a few days ago she suggested to upload stuff on pornhub but without showing our faces because we don't want to get recognized.I would love to do this with her, but i'...

I M22 am curious to know, maybe I'm making mistakes and I dont know it. How would you describe good oral and bad oral that you have recieved. Submitted April 05, 2020 at 11:51PM I M22 am curious to know, maybe I'm making mistakes and I dont know it. How would you describe good oral and bad oral that you have recieved.

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Idk why but I haven't been able to orgasm with my bf. Not even when we video chat. I feel bad because I know he wants to see me orgasm and I do to but I can't figure out how to. It just never happens. I could be having the best time with him. Having sex or fooling around. Full of pleasure but I just can't orgasm with him. How do I change this? Submitted April 05, 2020 at 11:57PM Idk why but I haven't been able to orgasm with my bf. Not even when we video chat. I feel bad because I know he wants to see me orgasm and I do to but I can't figure out how to. It just never happens. I could be having the best time with him. Having sex or fooling around. Full of pleasure but I just can't orgasm with him. How do I change this?