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/u/Conscious-Ad-6112 on Looking for a friend who can talk with me about anything except anything to do with sex :)

Also, the clone wars is somewhat out of order. Look up, "every clone wars episode in chronological order" May 31, 2022 at 12:38AM

Advice on a girl I met online.

Hey a girl liked and viewed me on POF. I matched her and we chatted, I suggested we should get a coffee and she agreed. Without asking she sent me her number, she likes voice notes so we've been sending them on WhatsApp everything seems to be great but I asked her when she was free and she didn't respond to that just responded to the other stuff I mentioned in the chat. Then I subtly mentioned meeting again and she never responded about that but chatted about other stuff. She seems self conscious a bit and maybe she thinks I won't be in to her but I've no idea. We are still chatting but now I feel like I can't ask her out again. The whole point of her sending me the number was to meet up any opinions appreciated. Submitted May 30, 2022 at 11:56PM Hey a girl liked and viewed me on POF. I matched her and we chatted, I suggested we should get a coffee and she agreed. Without asking she sent me her number, she likes voice notes so we've been sending them on W...

How do you actually choose between “options” you have?

I (23M) have found myself in a place I never expected myself to be. I’ve usually only ever pursued and then dated 1 person at a time. I spent the past year improving myself and building a business before I decided I’d date again. But now I find myself with 3 girls interested in me beyond hooking up. And I can see myself with all 3 of them in a long-term relationship. I’ve always avoided this sort of situation if possible because I don’t want to break the hearts of a person whose heart doesn’t deserve breaking. Here I am though with 3 absolutely amazing people. How do you even navigate this kind of situation? Is heartbreak inevitable or am I overthinking this? Submitted May 31, 2022 at 12:02AM I (23M) have found myself in a place I never expected myself to be. I’ve usually only ever pursued and then dated 1 person at a time. I spent the past year improving myself and building a business before I decided I’d date again. But now I find myself with 3 girls interested in me beyond ...

Sneaky Link type situation

So i my sis has a friend that is supposedly going on vacation with the family and my sis told me she has told her multiple times that she wants to sleep with me this& that, i aint tryn wait until the lil vacay so how should I approach her we are friends on fb and we hung out a couple of times but never had a convo only hi and bye type i aint tryn come off a weirdo so should i chill out? Shes 30+ yo and im 25 Submitted May 31, 2022 at 12:04AM So i my sis has a friend that is supposedly going on vacation with the family and my sis told me she has told her multiple times that she wants to sleep with me this& that, i aint tryn wait until the lil vacay so how should I approach her we are friends on fb and we hung out a couple of times but never had a convo only hi and bye type i aint tryn come off a weirdo so should i chill out? Shes 30+ yo and im 25

Should I try again?

I (25F) want to subtly show someone (25M) I am interested in them again and wish to do so by interacting with their Instagram story. I hadn't viewed any of their content since we stopped talking because the last few things they posted really triggered me. They have consistently watched me and recently interacted with a post (which I can't lie, I was waiting for). Our very brief exchange left a window open for me to ask how they were doing, but they could’ve done the same if they wanted. Still, I have purposefully muted all of their content because I don't want to spiral if viewing it is a trap, but I also don't want them to think I don't care about them anymore. I see motivational pages that encourage people to reach out instead of hiding their feelings, but at the same time, I want to protect myself because I know I am sensitive. Between a potential trigger and them saying “You’ll be back” when I mentioned cutting them off in the past, I can’t decide if I want ...

Was unadding her the wrong move?

I saw this girl for a few months that I met thru a group project in a finance class. It was going pretty well, at least I thought. She told all her friends how much she liked me, how nice I was, and how much she enjoyed spending time with me. She would tell me the same and would say how much she cared about my opinion of her. Long story short, she started becoming distant for a few weeks. She would never say anything was up, or that she wasn't interested anymore. Even when she would flake (which was because she was busy), sometimes she'd offer another day. Even if she didn't, she'd reiterate that she wasn't trying to be difficult, and that it was just a rough point in the semester. I figured with it being finals season and her being legit the most involved person on campus with work/student gov/faculty senate/sorority/extra-curriculars on top of exams. We were still friendly and had a class together. She would text sometimes, reference when we would hang out, and ...

How to accept (indirect) rejection

I (26F) had a massive crush on my brother’s friend (28F). He might have noticed but I never told him directly. I know for sure he doesn’t like me since there were multiple opportunities for him to try to get closer to me but he never did. His opinions about me, for which he shared to my brother, are not the greatest, and when he comes over, he barely talks to me. How can I get over this indirect rejection? Especially since I have a history of not being able to attract the guys I want (like him). For context, I sometimes get unwanted attention from guys I don’t find attractive and I’ve only had 2 guys irl tell me they like me. On dating apps, lots of guys ghost me and only one ever wanted something serious with me. Unsurprisingly, I am insecure about this. I’m sick and tired of having crushes on guys who don’t want me and I don’t like the few ones who express initial interest (but disappear eventually lol). Advice on how to get over him, especially since I see him almost daily. Sub...