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/u/ExtensionMinute9826 on I'm a slut for compliments.

What does queer mean? Just asking May 18, 2021 at 12:03AM

/u/-Solidwater on Am I asexual? Why, yes I am.

Probably asexual multiromantic. May 17, 2021 at 11:56PM

/u/Suspicious-War-2047 on he posted a photo of fat girl by comparing her with celebrity to prove that celebrity is beautiful and I said you should not compare someone and he said this.i am crying now :(

It's a Indian subreddit everyone on that subreddit including me is indian.so its a crititsium not racism. May 17, 2021 at 11:56PM

/u/kuroikururo on I'm a slut for compliments.

Sometimes I just say hi and people around me thinks is a marriage proposal (Despite my intentions) May 17, 2021 at 11:56PM

/u/ThePinkTeenager on What are some things that, looking back, should have made you realise you were ace much sooner?

Thanks! May 17, 2021 at 11:53PM

/u/Suspicious-War-2047 on he posted a photo of fat girl by comparing her with celebrity to prove that celebrity is beautiful and I said you should not compare someone and he said this.i am crying now :(

Thank you :( May 17, 2021 at 11:50PM

/u/DavidExplorer on he posted a photo of fat girl by comparing her with celebrity to prove that celebrity is beautiful and I said you should not compare someone and he said this.i am crying now :(

Oh sweetie.. I’m so sorry you had to deal with that person. You have a life and it’s absolutely wonderful. May 17, 2021 at 11:48PM

/u/tired-chemist on I made a mistake.

If someone decides there will be a "next time" for sex despite you telling them in no uncertain terms that there won't be one, RUN. If he doesn't respect your sexuality and expects that he'll be able to coerce you again, that's a huge red flag and you should ditch him entirely. I know it's hard and scary, but if he's making you uncomfortable and you're scared to be drunk around him, he's not your friend, he's a predator. Friends respect boundaries. Friends respect you saying no. Friends don't try and convince you to do sexual acts that make you uncomfortable and scared to be alone with them. It's hard to make friends as an adult, sure, but that doesn't mean you have to settle for someone who sees you as an opportunity to get what he wants You, meanwhile, didn't do anything wrong. You were drunk, and someone took advantage of the fact that you couldn't say no in that state. That doesn't mean you've fucked up. Th...

/u/estherrrose on I'm a slut for compliments.

wait can compliments be taken as flirting??? May 17, 2021 at 11:45PM

/u/Suspicious-War-2047 on I hate indians. It was post comparing two girls where this guy was was roasting a fat girl by comparing her with some celebrity I said you can't prove someone beautiful by comparing her with someone else and he said this i am dead inside now

Am sorry I should just hide that part but I am also a Indian so I was not being racist or something.i said I hate indians not indians sucks or something.try living with in india society is full of aphonic people May 17, 2021 at 11:45PM

/u/Rathama on Got my shirt for Pride

Is there a dragon or Werewolf version of this? I need to know. May 17, 2021 at 11:41PM

/u/Suspicious-War-2047 on he posted a photo of fat girl by comparing her with celebrity to prove that celebrity is beautiful and I said you should not compare someone and he said this.i am crying now :(

Bcz as a Indian I know how much Indians are actually try to understand the perspective of other person than reply like idiots May 17, 2021 at 11:40PM

/u/Bread_Avenger on Still questioning

I mean as a woman I wouldn’t know, but May 17, 2021 at 11:39PM

/u/Suspicious-War-2047 on he posted a photo of fat girl by comparing her with celebrity to prove that celebrity is beautiful and I said you should not compare someone and he said this.i am crying now :(

I am indian too I know how I have to deal and act every day to survive in this society criticizing own people is not racism May 17, 2021 at 11:38PM

/u/ErectusImperfectus on Still questioning

Ah, so the random boners are just a fact of life then. May 17, 2021 at 11:35PM

/u/ErectusImperfectus on Still questioning

I have no idea what that means, please explain May 17, 2021 at 11:35PM

/u/RelentlessSnacker on gynecologist experience

Not even just for the sake of aces, that’s fucked up for any medical professional to talk down to a patient like that. If someone did that at my hospital they’d get chewed out so fast. May 17, 2021 at 11:32PM

/u/Thebombuknow on G O D S

What does that make me? May 17, 2021 at 11:31PM

/u/Lost_My-Name on When you get this test but you are asexual:

Did this test as a cis aro-ace woman and somehow got 45% lover Also, it assumes you're straight? May 17, 2021 at 11:28PM

/u/MarDanvers on Posted on r/ace but this seems more active. Non ace crushing on ace friend

Yep I think you should try to talk about what you two look in a relationship (assuming they're ok with the idea of being in a relationship), boundaries and all of that to understand each other better and make your decision May 17, 2021 at 11:26PM

/u/potentialsmbc2023 on Do you think consensual sex could end up being traumatic for a sex-repulsed person?

It sounds like you could have been a victim of sexual coercion? It's under the umbrella of sexual assault. Basically it sort of sounds like your ex used the threat of losing them as a way to make you have sex when you weren't comfortable with it. May 17, 2021 at 11:24PM

/u/all-the-happy-yellow on Anyone else feel a bit frustrated about the lack of asexuality with IDAHOBIT?

Yes! I felt guilty for wanting to say anything about aphobia specifically because I don’t want to look like I’m taking attention away from the others. May 17, 2021 at 11:24PM

/u/TheBestUrsaMajor on G O D S

they sex tho. May 17, 2021 at 11:21PM