I've definitely considered it. Its still part of that OCD though where I'm fearful I might do something harmful. My first therapy session is in 82 days. I plan to stay as clean as I can from my bad habit and go into it with as clear a mind as possible. November 06, 2023 at 11:04PM

If the thought of you yourself being involved in the sexual act is what turns you off, that sounds more like aegosexual (in my point of view at least). Aegosexual's main characteristic is that there's a disconnect between one's self and what is arousing to them; sexual content may turn them on, but the idea of actually being a participant in it isn't to their liking. There's definitely a case to be made for both labels, but remember that labels are just that: labels. Labels for helping folks figure themselves out. If you prefer going by either of those labels, great! Wanna alternate between them? Also great! Whatever you decide, it'll be great. November 06, 2023 at 11:03PM

Are you me? 😉 I'm 42 f and I know I'm most likely the "little" part of little to no attraction in the definition of asexuality/aromanticism.Technically, I'm a straight GREY aroace. BUT neither sex nor romance plays any part in my life, I'm indifferent to both. My ideal relationship is (queer)platonic with no sex.The attractions that I experience strongly are emotional/alterous attraction and aesthetic attraction and they overshadow any weak romantic/sexual attraction I might still possess. Like you, I always feel a bit lost in grey spaces. I have to admit, I more or less dropped the grey part and just call myself aroace. If someone in aroace spaces asked me directly about labels I would use grey to clarify but outside of these spaces I don't really see any need... November 06, 2023 at 10:59PM

Nidoqueen? the Pokedex talks often about them tending to their offspring so they are capable to reproduce but no matter who you leave in the daycare with Nidoqueen nothing will happen. November 06, 2023 at 10:58PM