Should we put the club on the other side? April 03, 2022 at 12:45AM

Hello everyone i'm a [20 m] studying in college. 2 months ago, i met a nice girl during an internship i started talking to her little by little and i found out that we are in the same college, she is older than me ( 1 year ) and she is very calm. I really wanted to make the relationship deeper so i start to date her but i neved had the chance to do It. After the one month of the internship, 1 week before we are back to start a new semester, our conversation stopped for a while and i was always the one to start the conversation, She used to text me back quickly but now where the confusing sitiation begins. A couple of days ago, we back to college, i text her and she reply as always with direct answers i could not imagine getting better replies because we dont know each other good yet. The following day, i saw her in college and it was the weirdest eye contact i've ever experienced in my life she saw me and turn her head quickly and she speed up a little bit while walking with...

Howdy, 24f here. I've been friends with a girl for over 10 years. We went to a party, she was sitting close to me and said "insert my name you're so pretty" One time she held my hand when we were walking out of a crowded place. One time we were dancing and when we were dancing, she spun me and I spun her she was holding both my hands to bring me to another side of the room. I'm a girl in my twenties, I was wondering if maybe my friend might like me? I caught myself checking her out once, even tho I consider myself straight. I think I might like her. Also, I couldn't be with a women long term, I could be intimate with a women, if I really like her, like I like my friend. But, a man can only fully satisfy me physically. I need advice on this your thoughts? Submitted April 03, 2022 at 02:03AM Howdy, 24f here. I've been friends with a girl for over 10 years. We went to a party, she was sitting close to me and said "insert my name you're so pre...

Hello, you can check my post history if you want more specifics on my scenario, but basically I'm going to be visiting my female friend that I know from an online gamer group with my buddies from school. Ostensibly the trip is so I can visit family, and while that's not technically a lie, my actual goal is to hang out with her for a few hours and basically become a real person in her life with a physical form rather than a voice on discord. I told her I would be visiting this month and I asked if she would be comfortable spending a few hours together, she said as long as it doesn't overlap with a family trip she has planned then she would be okay with that. To be clear, I didnt phrase this invitation romantically, I'm not trying to trick her into a date or anything (although that might as well be what I'm doing in hindsight /- -/_) but I would like to make it subtly understood that I desire her without saying it outright, so that when I do confess my feelings it d...

I think in the last week alone I’ve encountered four people saying, “I’m not sure if I’m ace because while I’m not attracted to anybody, I still have fantasies, I’m not sure where I belong!” So I’ve suggested they look into aegosexuality, and all of them have been grateful to learn that they do belong here, and they’re not alone in their feelings. And since some ace people don’t have that experience, it’s good to have separate terms, as so much of the angst in the aro/ace communities is the division between those who want and those who don’t want sexual or romantic connections, you can’t really lump everyone under the same umbrella without any further differentiation, because that’s where confusion and miscommunication and gatekeeping happen. It’s just letting people easily describe their personal feelings with a simple vocabulary. I’m pretty sure aspec people have all these micro labels because we’re the community that spends the most time dissecting our feelings because our orientat...

One of my friends loves reptiles and works for a reptile sanctuary, and I could see him doing this. April 02, 2022 at 11:10PM