My husband is currently rocking our 9 month old son and swaying with him to The Beatles and I'm laying here thinking Damn, I love this man! Submitted August 03, 2019 at 11:39PM My husband is currently rocking our 9 month old son and swaying with him to The Beatles and I'm laying here thinking Damn, I love this man!

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The other woman is Kimberly Knapp (58). Here's my story. He comes home a little later than usual. What's different about him? It's almost imperceptible, but it's definitely there. I doubt anyone else would see it, but I see it. We've been married 33 years. You know when the energy around your spouse changes when you've been together that long. He's a strange kind of happy, almost giddy. He looks 10 years younger. Are his feet touching the ground? It's as though he's walking on air. What's happened? I ask him because I'm sensing something significant happened since he left this morning to attend 2nd day of the 2018 Cannabis Convention in Los Angeles. "None of your business", he responds. I'm uneasy, but there's nothing to do but wait and see. He denies anything is different. As the days and weeks go by I am more convinced my fears are not ill-founded because he becomes increasingly dismissive, impatient and secretive. It...

Today my wife and I got into a huge argument. We decided to try and remodel our bathroom. We are having guests come in 3 weeks, and thought (maybe stupidly) we could get it done by then. Through the weekdays I have removed vanity, toilet, and old tile. Today I started putting in new tile. Now this is my first time ever doing this. My wife starts getting agitated with how long it is taking me. That I am overthinking it. Now I am getting agitated due to the unneeded pressure, and it is escalating the issue. Not long after, I made a mistake and ruined a tile. This was her breaking point. She starts screaming, so I decide to start and leave the house to get some air. She then basically charges me and pushes me a couple times. She finally walks away and locks her self in the room. The physical aspect of this argument has never happened before in our 3 years married (8 years together). Though the screaming indeed has happened. We also have no sex life anymore. She says she is disgusted wi...

My boyfriend and I have been together a little over 3 months, have known each other for 6 months. We got into a huge fight yesterday over him canceling plans at the last minute, which has happened a few times in the past, but that’s beside the point. I said some things that weren’t the kindest and I ultimately made him feel really bad for cancelling. He called me out on my bullshit which i believe made me more angry in the moment. I drove to his house to try to mutually resolve the situation and so we could both hear where the other was coming from. He told me he felt like he was walking on eggshells with me, never knowing when my mood would change. I also have a tendency of giving him the silent treatment. We resolved the problem but i still feel incredibly awful about my actions. My boyfriend is one of the kindest people in the world and I never ever want to hurt him. I was in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship when I was 15 so I know how it feels and I don’t want him...

I’ve never posted before but here I go, my boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year. He’s super supportive, kind, and thoughtful. I care about him very deeply and I express it often. But I’ve made some mistakes. When we first started dating he bought me his favorite book to read and it took me a year to finish it. He once bought me a bus ticket to see him at school and I had a crazy morning and missed the bus (it was my fault but it wasn’t just because I didn’t want to make it, things happened). Most recently, he asked me to come to the gym with him (he loves working out) and I accidentally fell asleep when it was time to see him (something I’ve never done before). He thinks I don’t care about him or his interests. And it’s true, it doesn’t look like it. But I actually do care about him and the things he cares about. But I’m interested in art and writing and I never expect him to like the things I like cause it doesn’t bother me that we have different interests. Like i’d love ...

Hi, first off, thanks for reading the post! It might get lengthy cos’ I want to provide as much context and details as I can. I’ve been with my SO for 7 years. He recently found a new job and we thought all was well. We thought we could finally buy a flat together and we could travel out together. We’ve not travelled out before due to his financial situation. Fast forward to just 2 months into the job, he said that he was unhappy and couldn’t work well with this co-worker. Okay fine, every work place has a shitty co-worker. But the fact that he is getting so uptight with her, bothers me because I’m very worried that he will leave this job again. Which few days ago, he confirmed my fears. He said he’d leave when his probation ends, which is just in another 2 weeks! The past 3 weeks, we’ve been quarrelling non-stop. First incident was just me asking if he was very sure that the colleague was targeting at him. He blew off and basically said he want to break up. Me, being the loser me,...

I had a crush on this guy for about a year now. We are friends what made it hard but 3 months ago I managed to tell him about it. Prior to this we had some hangouts (one on one), some were kinda confusing for me because I wasnt sure if he already knew about my feelings. One day we were at my place, watching a movie and he is not a touchy guy at all, and we were cuddling... so mixed signs all over the place because this guy and I would have amazing chemistry when together but he would also ignore my text (he is not the best texter in the world tho) for a big while. When I told him, he was about to leave town for the summer (we will only see each other in september) and I was ready for a big fat no. To be honest maybe I wanted a big fat no, because it would allow me to move on. But he didnt gave me a yes or a no, it just felt like a giant maybe, in a lets keep on going and see where it goes kinda way. Also he told me he kinda knew about the feelings. I was confused af. I cant see him at...

Last night I went to my friends apartment for a couple drinks. Since being a teenager I always considered the friend (lets call him J) an older brother. I often sought guidance from him, and this relationship continued into our 20s. After a few drinks and a shot of gin each, I suddenly remembered that I promised to email a document to a coworker. I asked to use J's computer while J cooks food and he obliges. While on google drive I notice he is still signed in so I go to sign out but then I get a glimpse of a folder titled "Ranch" , which seemed funny to me because in my drunken state it reminded me of the Eric Andre ranch skit so I opened it. The folder contained a detailed itinerary for a 3 trip to a ranch in Nevada. The itinerary started august 23rd and ended august 25th. There were specific time slots for activities such as Horse riding, shooting practice, couples yoga, lunch, and dinner. The first day had an activity called "Selection", the second day had...

Basically the title. My dad passed away in a car accident about 6 years ago. My parents were divorced and he was a bit abusive. He was a very intelligent man with a drug problem. My mom believes that he faked his death and lately she has been talking about it a lot. She recently found out his brother got a good deal of money when she passed and that has just added more fuel to the fire. I know she has ptsd... we all do, to an extent, as the events that happened around his death were a bit extreme and he was not exactly a normal person. I’ve started having nightmares again in which he is alive and angry at me for not doing certain things and it’s terrible. I haven’t been sleeping or eating. I don’t know what to do. I think part of it is my mom’s constant mentioning of this. I don’t know how to get her to stop saying this and really believing it. At this point I am tempted to get a private investigator to show her he is really dead but beyond that I don’t know what to do. I’ve told ...

Here is my situation: I know this girl since the elementary school, but we were no longer in contact since middle school. Two years ago, in 10th grade we were in the same class and we started chatting again. There was a realy good feeling, we were joking but we also had some serious talks. She told me about some problems with toxic friends that she was keeping really private. I didn’t know if their was something between us, but I was having a good time with her. But none of this happened outside of the school, and in the few messages we exchanged she seems very cold. Then the year ended, and during holydays I was not in a good mood and often though of her. I thought I should have done a move. Last year we weren’t in the same class, and we almost never talk during the year. I was with my friends, and she was with her friends (among wich are some of the toxic ones she told me about...). I often thought about talking with her again, but I didn’t know how to bring that without being invas...

Okay, so! I divorced last year and decided to get on tinder this spring, mostly because I desperately needed to get out and have fun. I had and still have no intention of getting into a serious relationship. This was the first guy I met and we clicked immediately. We have a ton of the same obscure interests, and can talk for hours with little effort. We're a great match, mind and body. He also made it clear from the start that he didn't want anything serious. I don't believe either of us expected to find such a compatible partner on tinder. So, fast forward to today. We see each other once or twice a week. He has started spending the night at my place when we get together. Both of us are having sex with other people frequently. I just feel this connection with him that sets my time with him apart. I never want it to end. He on the other hand, has no problem fucking me and leaving right after. I know he hasn't developed the same emotional attachment I have. I just can...

Hello. I hope this is the right place to ask . So I have a girl I really care about. This might stupid enough, but she tried smoking once and now occasionally smokes, like she won't tell me, the last time was a year ago but I suspect she still does it and doesn't tell me. Anyway, I got a message this night and she told me casually she smoked. I was devastated. I hope it doesn't sound that bad, but because I care so much about her I had a mini panic attack, cried and was standing in bed shaking. I found out she smoked like 5 times the last year. And now I'm sitting here wondering what I should do. I talked with her. We got into an argument about it. And now I come here asking for help with what should I do. TL;DR : I got mad at my girl friend for smoking and now I don't know what to do. Submitted August 04, 2019 at 12:12AM Hello. I hope this is the right place to ask .So I have a girl I really care about. This might stupid enough, but she tried smoking onc...

Hey everyone, A few disclaimers. It's day two of the break and emotions are still a little raw, so please don't hold back the truth but don't try and flame me either. Secondly this is on mobile so please excuse any typos or any poor formatting. Firstly a little background info: •We have been dating for nearly a year and a half me(M18) her(f19) •She went to college during summer about a month after we started, so we had incorporated nightly skype calls lasting an hour or so and texted frequently during the day •We kept the same routine up through out the past school year, saw eachother on weekends, and now she is back in town for the summer •She wanted to wait a year before we did anything sexual, and I was more than happy to wait as I truly love her. We began shortly before our one year and being honest the sex life is lacking. No more than twice a month even after she agreed we should try to make it once a week on top of the fact that she has never initiated •Import...

I have been working in my office for 3+ years. My boss (F38) brought me (F36) over from a different office we worked at together when she decided to start her own business. I have been working there since before the business actually opened. We had also been what I would have considered friends. Our families hung out a lot and we really enjoyed each other's company. Then her sister moved to town and now it's been more than a year since we hung out socially. On top of that, she seems to be making me the office scapegoat. Recently, we lost an employee because of a message that was sent over the system (private) that the employee happened to read. It was basically a message to me from my boss saying that she was glad the employee only had two days left (she was moving). I responded that I didn't understand some action that she had recently performed and the employee was really upset and left. Boss then told everyone that I had written the initial message and not her, causing ...

I don't know how to say it. You make me feel the feeling ive never felt before. And if our love is wrong. Then I don't ever want to be right. Hope its real hope its true. Love you Submitted August 04, 2019 at 12:01AM I don't know how to say it.You make me feel the feeling ive never felt before. And if our love is wrong. Then I don't ever want to be right. Hope its real hope its true. Love you

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I mean it kinda is, you're using a vacuum tube, a magnetic field, and a bunch of electrons, to make your food less cold August 04, 2019 at 12:07AM

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