No idea. Anhedonia is a bitch. April 27, 2022 at 02:39AM

I've (22F) met up with a classmate(21m) from college two or three times over the past month. He asked me first to meet up outside of class and when we do meet up, we either go for a walk or hang out in his dorm room. He's a very lovely guy and we got on really well but I just can't tell what his intentions are. On one hand, there are some basic level flirting going on such as compliments, eye contact and hugging goodbye. But neither of us have moved beyond that since the first time we met up and I'm wondering if he intends to just be friends with me or maybe is too shy to make a move. Is there any way to differentiate between friendly hanging out and wanting to be more than friends? Submitted April 27, 2022 at 01:36AM I've (22F) met up with a classmate(21m) from college two or three times over the past month. He asked me first to meet up outside of class and when we do meet up, we either go for a walk or hang out in his dorm room. He's a very lovely guy

I agree with this. I'm in my early 50's. Growing up there was no sex-ed in my school. No readily available resources for anyone questioning. Queer was a hateful slur for most of my life (that I hadn't even heard TBH). It's since been re-claimed, however many older generations of the queer Australian community hate the term still. I've always felt different to everyone I knew. I didn't self-examine because I didn't know to self examine my sexuality. So I'm a late bloomer, I guess. But that means that I am straight-passing. I supconsciously learned to blend in. To have the right responses, make the right jokes, pretend to have the same feelings. I feel that the younger generations experiences are completely different to my own. April 27, 2022 at 01:04AM

Please put the Powerpuff girls in front of this. Or even better, the Powerpuff girls but themed as different ace umbrella flags April 27, 2022 at 01:04AM

I wear an ace pride bracelet personally. I was gonna get a ring but then I saw my bracelet and fell in love lol. I should probably get a ring too soon. I've heard some people wear a silicone one. Apparently you can get them rather cheap. April 27, 2022 at 01:03AM

I’m not much into adult shows myself as it’s pretty much always sex jokes and I get tired of it pretty quick. I do watch some anime and some other shows though some can get pretty violent sometimes. One anime that I know is pretty violent and has a couple of characters with a revealing dress code but otherwise not sexualized is Demon Slayer. I got it recommended to me by a random cashier in Box Lunch and I absolutely loved it. April 27, 2022 at 01:02AM

Pal I consider us queer ² lol. In a society that's so dominated by sex to the point that almost every piece of adult media references or even includes it in some way, one of the strangest things you could possibly be is ace. Hell, I consider us queer ² because our experience is strange even within the queer community, as sex is a big thing for basically everyone else in it. I'm not a straight person, so I identify more with being queer. There are straight aces out there though and they're entirely valid, I think people should just use whatever label fits them best :))) April 27, 2022 at 01:01AM