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/u/knightfenris on Am l ace or am l on antidepressants?

Meds don’t mess with your sexual attraction, they only can fuck with your libido. They’re two different things. October 25, 2022 at 12:08AM

Dating someone who is avoiding you

When you first start dating, you might have a lot in common. You’re both into the same things and you find it hard to break up with them often as you would like. But when you feel avoided in your relationship, it can be difficult getting to the truth about why. How do you cope when someone is avoiding and hurting your feelings? Most of the time, we avoid people because they’re not going to change our minds about anything and won’t solve our problems. In other words, they aren’t worth our time or attention. So what we do, do we just keep ignoring them and hoping for the best? It doesn’t always work that way. Sometimes people just need a cup of tea, a word of advice and some space in their lives. It’s easy to feel freaked out – First, you probably don’t know why they’re avoiding you because there’s no obvious reason. You’re going to start thinking that they’re rejecting you because they don’t want to be in a relationship with you. You’re afraid they’ll say things you either don’t wa...

/u/dotCoder876 on Am I asexual?

I would suggest looking into "demiromantic", "sex-indifferent", asexual October 24, 2022 at 10:48PM

/u/CorgiKnits on Allo ace Relationship

Ive been with my husband for 20 years, long before I knew what asexuality even was. We’re still together and very, very happy. ETA: I’m ace, my husband is bi. October 24, 2022 at 10:47PM

/u/TraptorKai on If Lust is one of the deadly sins, why do Aphobes damn us to hell for not having it.

Because people like that are so far from their faith, they damn anything they dont understand. While im not a fan of most religious people, there are a lot of caring folks out there. But theyre shouted out by asshats. October 24, 2022 at 10:45PM

/u/Emotional_Pound_1705 on Allo ace Relationship

I'm ace with my wife who is allo and we been together for almost 5 years and doing great. Just communicating and understand each other needs and wants. You already laid th ground work for what you both want so that's a great start/sign. October 24, 2022 at 10:41PM

/u/puppykat00 on If Lust is one of the deadly sins, why do Aphobes damn us to hell for not having it.

In addition to those religious aspects, there's also the idea of martyrdom and suffering for one's faith. The fact that we do not have to struggle to resist lust is another reason why they gat mad. October 24, 2022 at 10:37PM