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How to have more physical contact on the second date?

I (20m) matched with a girl(20f) on tinder, went on a first date for a few drinks. She seemed to have had a good time, I thought she was cute she laughed at my jokes, all that good stuff. As I was walking her to her bus she was brushing against me laughing with me, things were looking up I kind of just gave her an awkward hug to say bye, didn't really feel a kiss was on the cards. We're going out again on Tuesday, any advice for being a bit more physical but don't want to make her uncomfortable Submitted November 29, 2021 at 01:13AM I (20m) matched with a girl(20f) on tinder, went on a first date for a few drinks.She seemed to have had a good time, I thought she was cute she laughed at my jokes, all that good stuff.As I was walking her to her bus she was brushing against me laughing with me, things were looking upI kind of just gave her an awkward hug to say bye, didn't really feel a kiss was on the cards.We're going out again on Tuesday, any advice for b...

I [24F] had a period accident in a guy's [24m] bed...but he was totally okay with it?

Guys, I need your advice, I feel so embarassed. I've been talking/calling a guy for a year now and we finally met up a couple months ago in real life. I always just thought i was on the back burner because he seemed pretty close with his ex which was a red flag to me.. However, one day I was at his place and got my period, and because of that, I wanted to keep my bottoms on because of it. We were fooling around in bed, and he tried taking me bottoms off, to which i was like "NOOO PLEASEE IM ON MY PERIOD AND ITS GOING BE GROSS FOR YOU" but he was TOTALLY okay with it and didn't care at all. He just continued like everything was normal which made me feel comfortable. However, I still felt TERRIBLE. We woke up, and i saw a stain on his bed/mattress sheets and drips on the floor too. I felt so bad. He kept reassuring me saying it was no big deal at all, and all he cared about was that I had fun (he even went down on me during my period which i told me he didn't have...

How to be a better partner?

So I’ve been single for a few months now and I keep thinking about my last relationship. How do you move past the guilt of what you did wrong? How do you heal from the hurt they caused you? How do you be a better version of yourself and for the next person you date? Submitted November 29, 2021 at 01:16AM So I’ve been single for a few months now and I keep thinking about my last relationship.How do you move past the guilt of what you did wrong? How do you heal from the hurt they caused you? How do you be a better version of yourself and for the next person you date?

/u/soupy-noodles on Very cool that sex repulsed aces are considered homophobic and puritains when they are uncomfortable with talks of sex.

I’m sorry you had to hear that bs. Like “bad behavior?” That really got me mad. People are seriously ridiculous about sex and boundaries sometimes November 28, 2021 at 11:51PM

/u/OrbitalBuzzsaw on I made more. This thing is addicting

It do be like that November 28, 2021 at 11:38PM

/u/a_pompous_fool on I don't know

So would 7th or later work just later is never November 28, 2021 at 11:34PM

/u/Sadgirl928 on I made more. This thing is addicting

They were made by an AI generator wombo.art November 28, 2021 at 11:26PM

/u/espionage_is_whatido on I made more. This thing is addicting

I normally don’t appreciate abstract and/or modern art pieces, but for some inexplicable reason, I like these paintings. A lot, actually. They look supremely well thought out, which is really weird for me to admit. Thank you for sharing! Edit: just realized this is a website?? Even weirder, but ok. November 28, 2021 at 11:25PM

/u/comfort_bot_1962 on I made more. This thing is addicting

:D November 28, 2021 at 11:21PM

My GF tells me cum after 10-15 minutes?

I(27m) been dating a girl(27f) for a couple weeks now, and we took things very slow but had sex for the first last night and again this morning. Both times she had 2 orgasms within about 10-15 mins(plus lots of foreplay), I could have kept going a lot longer but she told me she wanted me to go ahead and cum, I was a bit taken aback but I obliged and pushed really hard making myself get off sooner. I mean the sex is really good, and I'm not complaining, just never been hurried to orgasm before. Am I maybe doing something wrong or do some women just not want it too intense or for too long? I'm really thrown off. Submitted November 29, 2021 at 12:28AM I(27m) been dating a girl(27f) for a couple weeks now, and we took things very slow but had sex for the first last night and again this morning. Both times she had 2 orgasms within about 10-15 mins(plus lots of foreplay), I could have kept going a lot longer but she told me she wanted me to go ahead and cum, I was a bit taken...

Got strep throat after giving my boyfriend a blowjob. How to prevent this in the future?

Not sure if this is the right place to ask for help with this. This is a question I'd really like to ask maybe someone in the medical field, but I don't think it's medically related enough to not get me banned from a medical focused sub. It's a throwaway account anyway so whatever lol. Either way, I gave my boyfriend a blowjob for the first time not too long ago for his birthday, and we both loved it. He didn't cum in my mouth (there was some precum) because he needs thrusting in order to cum, but I could not handle being throat fucked for too long. Especially after I had deepthroated him a few times and had been working on him for like 20-30 minutes already. I was getting lock jaw by the time I told him I wanted him to cum in my mouth, and he basically started pounding the back of my throat. Where my tonsils happen to live. Eventually, I just stopped blowing him and climbed on top to ride it out, and the evening ended enjoyably. This was on Saturday/Midnight of ...

I’m drunk rn but this is the truth

I’m a virgin (M19) probably the biggest you’ve ever known. But I just want to have sex sooo fucking badly. I just want to fall in love and meet a girl that I really want I do it with. But right now, I would do it with fucking anyone haha. Is it so much of an ask to find someone who would love me for me? Just wanna have that rip the clothes off one another feeling, ya know? But at the moment it feels like a lifetime away. I just get so frustrated. Submitted November 29, 2021 at 12:48AM I’m a virgin (M19) probably the biggest you’ve ever known. But I just want to have sex sooo fucking badly. I just want to fall in love and meet a girl that I really want I do it with. But right now, I would do it with fucking anyone haha. Is it so much of an ask to find someone who would love me for me? Just wanna have that rip the clothes off one another feeling, ya know? But at the moment it feels like a lifetime away. I just get so frustrated.

Using flavored lube on a condom for blowjobs

I just found out about flavored lube, as an alternative to flavored condoms, that can be used for oral sex, but I have a couple of questions I was hoping for help with: Is it possible for water based flavored lube to react in a weird way with a non-latex based condom and cause any unpleasant sensation on the penis? Does the combination of flavored lube with an unflavored condom leave a weird taste in the mouth, or cause any dental issues? For reference, I'm looking at using water based lube, and Skyn non-latex condoms. Submitted November 29, 2021 at 12:50AM I just found out about flavored lube, as an alternative to flavored condoms, that can be used for oral sex, but I have a couple of questions I was hoping for help with:Is it possible for water based flavored lube to react in a weird way with a non-latex based condom and cause any unpleasant sensation on the penis?Does the combination of flavored lube with an unflavored condom leave a weird taste in the mouth, or caus...

How much lube do you need for intercourse?

I am buying lube for the first time, ahead of my traveling to meet my wife. I want to be able to pack it safely, and possibly even be able to take it with me in carry on luggage. Hence, I wanted some help estimating how much I will need. How long might a 4oz bottle of water based lube last for? Submitted November 29, 2021 at 12:56AM I am buying lube for the first time, ahead of my traveling to meet my wife. I want to be able to pack it safely, and possibly even be able to take it with me in carry on luggage. Hence, I wanted some help estimating how much I will need. How long might a 4oz bottle of water based lube last for?

Should I text him?

So our convos are going great. We’ve been casually talking for the past few days with sometimes a day in between. I was wondering if it would be too clingy if I message him everyday? Obviously if he’s busy I wouldn’t bother him further if he tells me but.. should I give it a few days before texting. I’m sure there are rules to texting and stuff but I’m really tempted to not give a flying f about them Submitted November 29, 2021 at 12:00AM So our convos are going great. We’ve been casually talking for the past few days with sometimes a day in between. I was wondering if it would be too clingy if I message him everyday? Obviously if he’s busy I wouldn’t bother him further if he tells me but.. should I give it a few days before texting. I’m sure there are rules to texting and stuff but I’m really tempted to not give a flying f about them

Will the no contact rule work for a long distance relationship?

My bf broke up with me because I moved to a new country. I texted him all the time and it probably annoyed him since he blocked me. But he unblocked me after a week. I haven't contacted him for four weeks. Will not contacting him make him miss me and text me? Submitted November 29, 2021 at 12:06AM My bf broke up with me because I moved to a new country. I texted him all the time and it probably annoyed him since he blocked me. But he unblocked me after a week. I haven't contacted him for four weeks. Will not contacting him make him miss me and text me?

Heartbreak and loneliness

I’m almost 21 and I’ve only liked one person my whole life and I just got heartbroken by him. It wasn’t even a proper relationship but it felt like one for the past year. He was the first person who I’ve ever felt like that with. I didn’t like him at first but as I grew with him, he did certain things for me which made me fall in love. I feel like I’ve lost the one. He doesn’t want a relationship nor to wait because we are soo far away, he actively fed into it and then suddenly said he thought about it and it’s got to stop. I’m so sad over this. I feel like I can’t love anyone, the thought of liking someone is so difficult for me, that’s why I fought for him to try but he didn’t want to. I can’t control his actions I don’t want to grow up alone and sad. I don’t think I’m that ugly, maybe I’m just average? I feel there is no one out there for me. I’m so sad, everyone in my life is meeting ppl and I’m just stuck in a loop of work and sleep and depression. The one and only person who I...

Ladies what are some of the cutest thing you’re guy has done for you?

I just want a little awww in my life ya feel me? Submitted November 29, 2021 at 12:15AM I just want a little awww in my life ya feel me?

Guy I was seeing has a girlfriend and I didn’t know

I matched with a guy on tinder and he took interest in me and acted like he wanted something serious. I turn into just a booty call and he told me he was about to move. He would invite me over to hookup but started acting really anxious and like something was off. We were seeing eachother for 4 months He ended up blocking me on everything no explanation. I found out that he was moving in with his girlfriend. Idk how long they have been together both of their social medias look like they are single. He first brought up moving in early October and we saw eachother until November so I’m pretty sure they have been together for a while to be moving in together but I’m not positive. Should I tell her? I feel awful because I didn’t know he was seeing someone and if I were in her shoes I would want to know but I hate drama. I’d rather just leave it be but I hate that he could have cheated on her and her not know. Idk their situation if they have an open relationship or just weren’t serious I’...

What is the appeal to men when it comes to the sound of cheeks clapping?

I'm curious to hear from the men here why this sound seems to be so appealing, especially in comparison to moaning. What does that sound make you feel like? Why is it so empowering? Submitted November 28, 2021 at 11:07PM I'm curious to hear from the men here why this sound seems to be so appealing, especially in comparison to moaning. What does that sound make you feel like? Why is it so empowering?