I showed this to my friend and she just told me "Lol you are a weeb so..." and I have never felt so called out in my life February 05, 2020 at 12:03AM

I first thought I was bi then pan and I can love all the genders. But I have only been sexually attracted to two people in my life. With these two I can actually say that I am 100% sure that that is sexual attraction. The first one I was in love with for a long time and then there was a moment where I saw like his belly and I felt this pull. And the second is just a guy from my self defence class. When I am drunk I kiss people and sometimes feel sexual attraction but not when I am sober so I do not count that. With my exboyfriend I thought he should just get it over with and sleep with me so thats done. I did not want that really. I was not at all attracted to him. And sometimes I am really sex repulsive like I shudder at the thought of what I have done sexually with an ex and dont know if I want sex in relationships but at the same time I do. I want sex with people I think. Like I wouldnt mind with that guy from my sex defense class. That would actually be totally super duper okay wi...

So I’ve had a crush on this girl for over a year now, we’ve exchanged numbers, and is always friendly and nice to talk to in person, but is very hard to get a hold of by phone, to which I’ve had a mutual friend explain that she can be very distant and hard to hear back from. I already messaged her asking if she would be free this Sunday, but I’m not sure what else I can do besides call her which I’m not at all comfortable with. All I know is last time we hung out, with two of her friend and two of my friends, drinking beers around a fire, we had great conversation, sharing music, and she was touching my arm, my face, and my hair, and we parted with a hug, I really just want to experience that again in a one on one setting, over some beer, and karaoke too. Submitted February 04, 2020 at 11:44PM So I’ve had a crush on this girl for over a year now, we’ve exchanged numbers, and is always friendly and nice to talk to in person, but is very hard to get a hold of by phone, to which I...

Hello all, hope all is well. I (24M) have been getting acquainted with a girl (19F) in my accounting program at university and circling around ideas of how to pursue a romantic relationship. Some insight on the girl: she is shy but has a great sense of humor and is really comfortable around me and other colleagues have mentioned to me of the countless times she has been staring at me during lectures and the staring is reciprocal from myself as well as I find her really attractive. She has never had any sort of relationship and comes from a traditional family ( as do I) and that is a quality that I seek for a life-long partner. She is reserved but very comfortable when I am in her presence and I took the initiative and asked her for her number directly in front of her friends/social group. We have been talking here and there and have planned for a date for this coming Saturday. I have no issues in terms of confidence, financial obligations, and dating (supposedly I have good game) bu...

When I first started looking for a lady to share my life with, I came across this person who was automatically attracted to me. At least, that's what I thought. Well, she started in on the whole "I need money" shtick and I thought that she was playing games with me. I told her I was broke and she attacked my character and my heart, shattering it into a million pieces. She dropped me like a bad habit and left me a lonely, broken soul. That was 2 years ago. The pain is still there, although it has been diminished by time. I appreciate you listening to me and I sincerely hope that you never go through the same situation that I did. Submitted February 05, 2020 at 12:11AM When I first started looking for a lady to share my life with, I came across this person who was automatically attracted to me. At least, that's what I thought. Well, she started in on the whole "I need money" shtick and I thought that she was playing games with me. I told her I was broke...

I'm getting the red flag vibe from this guy but my coworker (that I'm super close with) thinks it's sweet. We've met twice over the last 2 weeks. He messages me good morning the SECOND I wake up. Like I open my FB (I added him to FB , which I'm starting to think may have been a mistake) and I get a message from him immediately. I wish I was exaggerating. I would think it's a coincidence if it happened a couple times, but it's daily. I get super busy during the day at work.. and barely have time to answer or even look at my phone. He'll message me Multiple times a day saying he hopes I'm having a good day and that he looks forward to talking to me when I'm off. It's not mad 'why aren't you answering me' messages... But like I'll get up to 5 a day. The other day I wasn't feeling good. He kept trying to push for me to let him come over to make some tea. I had to tell him no 3 times, then he asked if some cuddles would he...

I only talked to her twice, and she's nice but a little shy, I think she likes movies though, should I ask her to the movies? Would it be a good idea? Submitted February 05, 2020 at 12:15AM I only talked to her twice, and she's nice but a little shy, I think she likes movies though, should I ask her to the movies? Would it be a good idea?

So I [18m] am constantly hearing things like: He is so good looking, he is really cute etc. The other day I’ve heard a female girl of mine talking with her friends and saying that I’ve become a really hot dude. I find myself fine, just an average dude that is confident in his own skin. Besides those facts, I’m thinking that girls don’t see me as a sexual partner, and I don’t know why. Is this all in my head, or I might doing something wrong? Have you ever felt that way? **To make this clear, I’m not boasting about the fact that some chicks find me attractive, this ain’t my style. Thank you kind strangers for reading my post and helping me🙏🏻 Submitted February 04, 2020 at 11:07PM So I [18m] am constantly hearing things like: He is so good looking, he is really cute etc. The other day I’ve heard a female girl of mine talking with her friends and saying that I’ve become a really hot dude. I find myself fine, just an average dude that is confident in his own skin. Besides those fa...

I(17M) asked a girl(17) out today. We had talked once. So I ask her out for coffee. She says we will see and decide after the class. I agreed. Then when I approached her after class she says she is going out with 2 of her friends. I said that's not fair. And she said we can go on 6th Feb. I agreed. I could see many of her friends smiling at her and she was feeling embarassed about it when we were talking. Next I asked her where should we go? We do not have a coffee shop nearby. She suggested a lame area. I offered to take her to StarBucks which was a little far away. She said"Really?" I told her I was serious and I like to have some standards while dating. She says no don't take in a wrong way. This is not a date. We can hang out as friends though. I agreed to that too. I text her later asking can we rather go for lunch. Then she writes a long paragraph saying she isn't interested in me in anyway (not friends as well). She wants me to stay away from her and no...

Thoughts? I’ve just ended things with the only guy I’ve ever been with. Will this make me feel better like everyone says? Submitted February 04, 2020 at 11:12PM Thoughts? I’ve just ended things with the only guy I’ve ever been with. Will this make me feel better like everyone says?

Hi guys, my scenario is that I don’t know how to get the chance to talk to a girl. Wait, let me explain. We are in a class together, however, the students are split into groups. It would be weird if I just left my group to talk to her. In addition, it would be weird to ask her to hang out and do homework that is specialized for your group. Question is what would you do in order to get an excuse to talk to her? M(23) and F(21)? I think Submitted February 04, 2020 at 11:13PM Hi guys, my scenario is that I don’t know how to get the chance to talk to a girl. Wait, let me explain. We are in a class together, however, the students are split into groups. It would be weird if I just left my group to talk to her. In addition, it would be weird to ask her to hang out and do homework that is specialized for your group. Question is what would you do in order to get an excuse to talk to her? M(23) and F(21)? I think

So we both confessed over call. However since we are starting uni in just a few months so she's going to be in a different city, we thought we shouldn't pursue our relationship even though we really like eachother. We are going to hang out alone one last time soon. Was this the right decision? Submitted February 04, 2020 at 11:18PM So we both confessed over call. However since we are starting uni in just a few months so she's going to be in a different city, we thought we shouldn't pursue our relationship even though we really like eachother. We are going to hang out alone one last time soon. Was this the right decision?

In this modern age, we have a stupid amount of accounts; Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, etc. Nowadays I'm unsure for which one I should ask a girl or if I should I ask for her cellphone number instead. Submitted February 04, 2020 at 11:23PM In this modern age, we have a stupid amount of accounts; Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, etc. Nowadays I'm unsure for which one I should ask a girl or if I should I ask for her cellphone number instead.

Hi guys, Today I realized that the greatest problem I have when it comes to dating is impatience and rash decision making. I recently caused the woman I’m seeing a great deal of anxiety due to my hasty and impatient nature. I quickly realized that I’m the one at fault. We sat down after and had a discussion where we talked about how my impulsive planning made her upset and how she feels I’m being too intense. I apologized for my actions and promised that I would work on being more patient and thoughtful in the future. We made up but I’m scared that I’ve poisoned the water, so I’ve decided that I must become better in order to be worthy of her. My plan is to give her some space so that I don’t overwhelm her, while simultaneously working hard on myself to be a better man for her. I am incredibly angry at myself for what I did, and I have promised to change so that I will never cause her anxiety again. I’m currently in therapy and will discuss this with my therapist as well as meditate...

My boyfriend (M19) that I was completely head over heels for dumped me (F21) a few days ago. He told me he didn’t want the commitment or obligations of a relationship and wanted “freedom” and told me I was boring because I don’t like smoking weed or partying. The fact that he cares more about partying and causal sex more than he cares about me just feels like a giant slap in the face. I feel like he completely played me and used me for sex and I just feel so completely heart broken. I cared about him so much and I always felt like I liked him more than he liked me and I guess I was right. The thought of trying to date or be in a relationship ever again just feels like way too much because I can’t imagine myself ever liking someone as much as I like him or being so vulnerable again just to be completely played again. I want to move on and stop thinking about him but I just don’t know how. :/ Submitted February 04, 2020 at 11:35PM My boyfriend (M19) that I was completely head over...

Would any women in here be willing to offer me some private advice/feedback regarding my dating profile? I know it needs work but am hopeless on where to start. Never realized just how few pictures of myself I have and that my group of friends takes. I managed to get a handful together and am curious what some of you guys think. Could also use some help with actual info/answers on my profile too but I know part of the problem is I rushed a bit and I’m admittedly not the most exciting person. More concerned with the photos right now. Thanks! Submitted February 04, 2020 at 11:40PM Would any women in here be willing to offer me some private advice/feedback regarding my dating profile? I know it needs work but am hopeless on where to start. Never realized just how few pictures of myself I have and that my group of friends takes. I managed to get a handful together and am curious what some of you guys think. Could also use some help with actual info/answers on my profile too but I k...

So I’m an average dude (you can look at my profile photo). But I try to be a good person, I’m generally kind, nice and can usually get a laugh with relative ease. From what I’ve seen in my dating life thus far (28 m) is that the women who are typically interested in me become infatuated, they fall quickly and I’m propped up on a pedestal. I’ve just always had an issue saying no, and so I end up in relationships from time to time and they never last long (you can see my other post for the most recent one). Anyways, there’s generally no courtship, it’s either they are completely infatuated in me or incredibly indifferent towards me romantically. I know most women know within moments whether they are interested in someone, so how do I go about going from the decent looking, nice and funny “friend”, to potential partner. Does my approach or introduction to a potential s.o. Influence whether I’m a friend or potential partner? I’m just honestly looking for a serious relationship, I suck at...

I think social media is a good tool to show a crush what you are into and what you’re like. Especially if you know that you two are into the same things. Was there ever a time when you used social media to get a crush’s attention? What did you post? What did he do? Submitted February 04, 2020 at 11:42PM I think social media is a good tool to show a crush what you are into and what you’re like. Especially if you know that you two are into the same things.Was there ever a time when you used social media to get a crush’s attention? What did you post? What did he do?

This guy (36) and I (29F) have a very complicated backstory. I’m going to try to keep this post short, and focus on what happened yesterday. Through text, I told this guy how I was feeling. I told him I had feelings, and I didn’t want to be taken advantage of (not sexually, again... very long story). He admitted he liked me too, but his life is complicated right now. Which it definitely is... there’s a baby involved and baby mama drama, and it’s a whole thing. I told him I wasn’t looking to jump into a relationship, and I just wanted to expand on what we already have and take the time to get to know each other to see if there’s more there before meeting his daughter (because he keeps saying over and over again he wants me in her life). Obviously I want to do what’s best for her, which is why I decided to have this conversation. I told him to just sit on what I’m saying, and respond when he’s ready. It’s been more than 24 hours, and I don’t want to push him. I’m going to give him some...

Some girl today came to my house and we’re both obviously attracted to each other. We had fun, started watching some series on Netflix and I didn’t know how to make first move. Please help! Submitted February 04, 2020 at 11:56PM Some girl today came to my house and we’re both obviously attracted to each other. We had fun, started watching some series on Netflix and I didn’t know how to make first move.Please help!

As a 28y/o woman, I'm curious. Younger guys have lately been attracted to me but I've always had a bit of a psychological hurdle about dating with an age gap when I'm the older one. Guess I was conditioned to believe the woman should be younger. Have you dated older women? What do you think are the pros & cons? Submitted February 04, 2020 at 11:57PM As a 28y/o woman, I'm curious. Younger guys have lately been attracted to me but I've always had a bit of a psychological hurdle about dating with an age gap when I'm the older one. Guess I was conditioned to believe the woman should be younger.Have you dated older women? What do you think are the pros & cons?

I work at a restaurant and this girl gave me her number near the end of the night (Sunday). I was planning on going bowling with my brother but he had to finish a paper for college. So instead I asked her, she agreed and we went and bowled a few games and talked for about an hour or so after the games. After texting for these next few days we agreed to meet up again before we both go to work on Friday. We both have to be at work at 3:30 so I’m trying to find something in the morning to do. Obviously seeing a movie or going to eat would be the go to for basic first dates but the movies out now won’t really interest both of us and don’t want to go to breakfast for a date. Also it says it might rain on Friday. So going to a park and walking seems out of the question. So does anyone have any ideas that would be good to go to or do? Someplace that might be indoors that’s open in the morning. Submitted February 04, 2020 at 11:58PM I work at a restaurant and this girl gave me her num...

Hi. So as the title shows, I’m a year old boy 15 and I’m in my 2nd last year of secondary school (I’m in the uk so secondary school is basically highschool but you finish it at 16 years old). I would say I’m fairly average in looks and average height with a fairly big group of averagely popular friends. I’ve never really had a proper girlfriend. The closest I’ve been would probably be when I liked a girl, talked to her for a while and kind of asked her out but she said she didn’t want to lead me on and said no. About half a year later she texted me saying she kind of liked me so we were talking for a while again but she decided that she didn’t really like me as much as she first thought so we stopped talking but are not on bad terms or anything. Now I’ve been kind of wanting to properly be with someone else but no other girls have approached me and I am limited to who I could ask out since a lot of the girls who are attractive are in a different and bigger social group than me which w...