Alright, time to throw in the age old classic. "So, what's wrong with telling him everything you wrote in this post? It seems worded pretty well." February 23, 2020 at 12:21AM

I definitely understand how you’re feeling. But also you never know if they’re worth it until you try! I know it can be scary but I bet a lot more people will be understanding than you think. February 23, 2020 at 12:16AM

Trauma had been known to make people ace, yes, but they're still asexual regardless of why February 23, 2020 at 12:10AM

Aw, thank you, that did make me feel better. I just have a hard time not getting crushes on people who are "not worth it" (basically those, who probably wouldn't accept me being ace) February 23, 2020 at 12:08AM

Oh yeah, just you know every single day of my damn life. February 23, 2020 at 12:06AM

I totally 100% understand this feeling. But it’s important to remember that if they can’t accept you, they’re not worth it anyway! Also!! You ARE normal. I know sometimes it can feel like you’re not but you are. Don’t let that little word work its way into your brain and make you feel lesser. You’re not. You’re an amazing human who deserves love and happiness. February 23, 2020 at 12:03AM

It's easier to do if you yourself are biologically female, but yes it's possible for anyone. February 22, 2020 at 11:59PM

Hii, i'm basicly asking for advice on finding a fwb, i'm bi so m/f doesnt matter. Or how you met yours. With advice I mean where to look and how to let someone know your looking for an fwb relation. So, a bit about myself can be handy. I'm a shy individual that doesn't has much experience in the fields of sex. I also don't have a place of my own and a very religious mom ( a "no girlfriend" type). I also don't come in contact with females, cause i study IT. Submitted February 22, 2020 at 11:13PM Hii, i'm basicly asking for advice on finding a fwb, i'm bi so m/f doesnt matter. Or how you met yours. With advice I mean where to look and how to let someone know your looking for an fwb relation.So, a bit about myself can be handy. I'm a shy individual that doesn't has much experience in the fields of sex. I also don't have a place of my own and a very religious mom ( a "no girlfriend" type). I also don't come in cont...

I posted something similar to the askmen sub already but I've had another frustrating encounter so I feel it's more appropriate here and need to rant I (female) have never orgasmed from PIV. But I love sex even without orgasm. Having a partner with me if I'm trying to cum ruins the experience. Plus with men they get really cocky/egotistical/proud about it (I used to fake orgasms all the time, so I saw their reactions to it). I don't fake it anymore but this has resulted in more problems than it resolves. Men get super offended over it. Like, they get all hurt and defensive or just get this disappointed look on their face and go quiet. I've tried telling partners ahead of time "I don't really cum with people, let's just enjoy sex" and it has the opposite effect, they take it as a challenge and end up disappointed. Ftr, I've heard all the advice there is on how to do it and it doesn't work. I don't want men fingering me or eating me ...

What are some of the ethical issues tied to sex robots? To be clear, these aren't like inflatable dolls or even the silicone sex dolls that are manufactured now. These are the sex dolls that would have artificial intelligence built into them, like Siri, but even more sophisticated, such that it would be able to remember who you are, your likes/dislikes, carry on conversations with you, plus all of the other cool stuff that Siri does. It would basically be able to learn about you and use predictive modeling to please you. I was thinking they could be used as sexual surrogates for therapy, however, I don't know whether surrogacy is effective when it comes to therapy. Does anyone have any sources that could show me whether surrogacy is an effective form of therapy? Do you think sex robots are a realistic threat to the way we form and maintain relationships? Could we see a decline in people having sex with other humans because relationships are too messy? How will sex robots af...

So I've started dating this great woman for some months. She is very sexual in her own way the small issue is that she has Vaginismus. When we had sex last week she seemed to enjoy it at first but as I got slower, for obvious reasons (she is very tight) I could see in her face that she wasn't enjoying it so I stopped. She was in pain and had this very sad face, I guess it's because it didn't work out. She didn't want to be touched in any way or talk about it. I just told her that everything was fine but to be honest, I was not sure what to do to comfort her. Later on I tried to distract her so I pointed out some pictures on her wall which seemed interesting and she started talking about them in her usual cheerful way again. Does any of you good people have experience with this topic? I'd be glad to read anything about it, be it tips or just some story telling! Submitted February 22, 2020 at 11:29PM So I've started dating this great woman for some m...

Im a (m late 50's) I have been using viagra with great results but I get a stuffy nose to the point where it is starting to be annoying and lessen the pleasure of sex. Are there any ways around this. Submitted February 22, 2020 at 11:29PM Im a (m late 50's) I have been using viagra with great results but I get a stuffy nose to the point where it is starting to be annoying and lessen the pleasure of sex. Are there any ways around this.

this guy came on my stomach and legs and it kind of trickled down to my vagina and i’m paranoid that i’m pregnant. i wiped everything off with wipes and a rag but i can’t stop panicking, i’m really anxious. if it touched the outside of my vagina or even if a little bit went in would something happen? my period is supposed to start soon, so if i get it that definitely means i’m fine right? Submitted February 22, 2020 at 11:30PM this guy came on my stomach and legs and it kind of trickled down to my vagina and i’m paranoid that i’m pregnant.i wiped everything off with wipes and a rag but i can’t stop panicking, i’m really anxious. if it touched the outside of my vagina or even if a little bit went in would something happen?my period is supposed to start soon, so if i get it that definitely means i’m fine right?

I’ve been with my girlfriend for six months now, and while our sex life has been great, we are always looking to try new things. One idea I have is to use a penis extender (or “cock sleeve” if you will). My dimensions are 6” long and 4.7” around, so the idea of fucking someone with a big penis has always been a little exciting. I think she would enjoy it too. For the record we’re both in our 30s, and have had 20+ partners each, so we are fairly experienced. I guess my main concern is that this will end up being emasculating, and possibly give me a complex if she loves it too much. The idea of this thing giving her mind blowing orgasms (she currently has trouble getting there with PIV sex) is both highly arousing and worrisome. Has anyone here had experience with this? Submitted February 22, 2020 at 11:31PM I’ve been with my girlfriend for six months now, and while our sex life has been great, we are always looking to try new things. One idea I have is to use a penis extender (...

Hi there, Was hoping to get some insight because I’m super confused. I’ve been with my boyfriend for over a year and about half the time we have sex, it hurts. He’s not particularly big or anything, just average, maaybe a bit bigger than average. We’re in an open relationship and I had hooked up with someone for the first time since I’ve been in a relationship. I noticed that I was way more excited to have sex with the hookup because of the anticipation/nervousness/etc. also I noticed that there was no pain at all. We were able to do positions that I’ve never done with my boyfriend and it was really fun. The sex wasn’t even any better than it is on a good day with my boyfriend. I’m more attracted to my boyfriend, he knows what I like way more than the hookup did, and he’s way more vocal which I like. But taboo of hooking up with someone was hot to me and definitely compensated for what was lacking in the hookup. So what gives? Why am I all of a sudden bored by sex with my unbelieva...

My girlfriend has recently complained that sex is becoming too painful for her, I have tried suggesting that she goes to the doctors to see what is wrong, but she refuses. Do you guys have any suggestions? I feel this is really putting a strain on our relationship Submitted February 22, 2020 at 11:51PM My girlfriend has recently complained that sex is becoming too painful for her, I have tried suggesting that she goes to the doctors to see what is wrong, but she refuses. Do you guys have any suggestions? I feel this is really putting a strain on our relationship

Hello So I just got the VCH piercing and I noticed she put a bigger ball on the bottom and a smaller ball is on top. It’s the curved barbell & I was wondering when I could change it to a small ball, should I wait until it’s healed? Submitted February 22, 2020 at 11:59PM HelloSo I just got the VCH piercing and I noticed she put a bigger ball on the bottom and a smaller ball is on top. It’s the curved barbell & I was wondering when I could change it to a small ball, should I wait until it’s healed?

So I went on a couple dates with this dude, I told him I had my tubes tied, he told me he doesn’t like condoms for xyz douche excuse I made a joke “ I guess that’s cool if you don’t mind getting stds” yada yada yada we hook up ONCE he doesn’t wear a condom... the next couple days he’s texting me insinuating that I gave him and std (for no reason, he just wants me to “be a decent human and admit I’m dirty” I’m not I’ve been tested fairly recently) so any ways a couple 3 weeks have gone by and he’s back to texting me accusing me cuz I joked. About it... and at this point I’m being childish in my replies because this is terrible. I’ve told him multiple times, ok go get tested if your worried, I know I’m clean. Anyways. What should I say to him. Any experience in this kinda crazy? Submitted February 23, 2020 at 12:02AM So I went on a couple dates with this dude, I told him I had my tubes tied, he told me he doesn’t like condoms for xyz douche excuse I made a joke “ I guess that’s co...

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If you done this practice, how you wash yourself, after your partner piss into your vagina or butt (after piss enema)? I know it is practically safe act for healthy people, and many people do it without any harm to their health, but i am curious about aftercare. Do you wash your "interior" somehow or just leave it that way? Thank you. Submitted February 23, 2020 at 12:10AM If you done this practice, how you wash yourself, after your partner piss into your vagina or butt (after piss enema)?I know it is practically safe act for healthy people, and many people do it without any harm to their health, but i am curious about aftercare. Do you wash your "interior" somehow or just leave it that way?Thank you.

So I just started dating this guy, and mostly things are great. He’s a sweetheart who’s intelligent, and we have a lot in common. But the one time we’ve gotten sexual so far, I got a bit of a shock from his, uh, smallness. I’m no size queen, and have been around my share. I’m talking unprecedented in my experience. On the level of “I know you said you were less into penetrative sex but I didn’t think you meant it was infeasible.” Yikes. I’d like to try and make things work, at least see if there are any more common dealbreakers than something that makes me feel so shallow for even caring about it. I date all genders, so you’d think this would be okay. I guess the difference is that you can ask a female partner to strap on and she’s never mortally offended. I really dread breaching the subject with this guy because it’s a bell you can’t unring. But he must KNOW, right? He’s not stupid. He makes use of enough other skills that overall satisfaction isn’t the problem. But I can’t stan...

I enjoy the sensation of having my clit licked.  However, after about 5-8 minutes, I start feeling bad for my boyfriend because I still have not orgasmed and I don't want it to turn into a chore for him.  I usually suggest switching to sex so he won't get bored.  In the past, he has commented that it takes a long time for me to get off. Ladies, how long does it take for you to orgasm from cunnilingus? Men, be honest, does it become a chore for you if she takes too long?  How many minutes are you able to go down on her before it's not fun for you anymore and you lose your erection? Submitted February 23, 2020 at 12:12AM I enjoy the sensation of having my clit licked.  However, after about 5-8 minutes, I start feeling bad for my boyfriend because I still have not orgasmed and I don't want it to turn into a chore for him.  I usually suggest switching to sex so he won't get bored.  In the past, he has commented that it takes a long time for me to ...

message me for my venmo! i am 18 and i will pose however you tell me to! xoxo <3 Submitted February 23, 2020 at 12:13AM message me for my venmo! i am 18 and i will pose however you tell me to! xoxo <3