You hit the nail on the head. Communication and expressing boundaries before the kissing or even hand holding start. Noting can cause more awkward moments or possibly engaging in activities under pressure. March 18, 2023 at 12:41AM

THAT'S A THING?? oh damn, I may need to redefine my labels again 😅 (it could also just be a kink-) March 18, 2023 at 12:39AM

This post and the vibe is feeling like judging people on the spectrum. Not everyone has the privilege to find and understand their identities quickly. People can be in their 60’s still learning and changing. Communication needs to be more clear with future cuddle partners that “no sexual arousal or that’s breaking consent” or something like “I’d not like to be asked about sexual intercourse ever and that’s a hard limit”. Communication is always key. Moral support is good too. March 18, 2023 at 12:38AM

lol the genderfluid weed March 18, 2023 at 12:37AM

I got a 2nd date with this girl - she agreed but due to our schedule we aren’t able to see each other 2 weeks. How much texting should I do in between? I’m afraid she the interest will fizz away.. We didn’t text a lot before 1st date as well, but when we met for 4-5 hours she told me she wanted to get to know me better. Any advice ? Submitted March 18, 2023 at 12:09AM I got a 2nd date with this girl - she agreed but due to our schedule we aren’t able to see each other 2 weeks.How much texting should I do in between? I’m afraid she the interest will fizz away..We didn’t text a lot before 1st date as well, but when we met for 4-5 hours she told me she wanted to get to know me better.Any advice ?

That's pretty much it. The title says it all. Single 28M here from the east coast US. I don't care for social media. For the most part, being single isn't bad. I know who I am and I know what I want. Most days, I don't mind being single. But there are times when I really wish I had someone to share s*** with. Feelings, thoughts, aspirations, desires, goals, etc. Someone who is more than just a S.O. (significant other) I want a partner in crime, a confidant, a best friend, a lover, an everything. I believe everyone searches for one at some point in their lifelong journey. Someone to bounce ideas off of. Someone who knows when to stop your crazy trains of thought before they go off the rains. Someone who brings out the best in you and pushes you to be better. Someone empathetic, truly kind hearted, and awesome. F*** it, I'll stop here. It's not a dating profile. Have a grand day everyone! You're f*****g amazing! Don't settle, hug your momma, love yoursel...

just wear whatever you want lol March 17, 2023 at 11:06PM