Yeah I like that, I actually do it all the time haha “You dating anyone?” “🤷” “Wanna go to dinner together?” “🤷” “You like sweater weather?” “🤷” I honestly love the shrug lol October 16, 2021 at 12:05AM

I guess so. I’ve never actually cuddled with my friend but I want to try next time I see him. October 16, 2021 at 12:04AM

It copy and pasted someone else’s comment October 16, 2021 at 12:02AM

Yeah, I got kinda tripped up there, since my partner is a trans woman who still has the genitals she was born with. October 16, 2021 at 12:01AM

I recently watched a porn video where the girl was being spanked, I’m assuming as part of foreplay, and every time she was hit she moaned like it was turning her on. Obviously I know that porn isn’t real and shouldn’t be taken as such but it does make me curious if there are women out there who get turned on from being spanked. Submitted October 16, 2021 at 12:28AM I recently watched a porn video where the girl was being spanked, I’m assuming as part of foreplay, and every time she was hit she moaned like it was turning her on. Obviously I know that porn isn’t real and shouldn’t be taken as such but it does make me curious if there are women out there who get turned on from being spanked.

My fiancé and I are both incredibly busy people and it's begun to severely impact our sex life. I currently work two jobs, often not getting a proper day off for weeks. My fiancé is attending university and works on weekends, their homework tends to eat up all of their free time. So my question is: busy couples, how do you maintain that intimate spark when it seems neither of you has any free time? I suppose there's a few other issues too. My fiancé currently takes anti-anxiety meds, so their sex drive is fairly non-existent even during a mellow week - let alone when we're both slammed with work/assignments. Also no, I have no interest in leaving them. The current lack of sex isn't a deal breaker, and we've made it through much worse in our three years together. They’re the love of my life and I have no intention of going anywhere. I'm just trying to see if anyone out there can relate to our current schedule issues! Thanks in advance for any advice! I've...

I don't know how to word this to avoid people answering non sexual stuff lol Submitted October 16, 2021 at 12:36AM I don't know how to word this to avoid people answering non sexual stuff lol

Hi, as per the title, I [F] can only cum in the cowgirl position. I do feel pleasure in others but I’m finding it tough to cum. Do you have any tips to train myself so I can shoot/squirt in other positions like doggy or so? I find it boring after a while to ways do the same position 😂 Submitted October 16, 2021 at 12:42AM Hi, as per the title, I [F] can only cum in the cowgirl position. I do feel pleasure in others but I’m finding it tough to cum.Do you have any tips to train myself so I can shoot/squirt in other positions like doggy or so?I find it boring after a while to ways do the same position 😂

First off, I've slept with a decent amount of people about 70. Many of these partners I had sex with dozens of times. However I've only let myself have an orgasm with someone else 1 time (they were giving me head and the lights were off and I hid my face underneath a pillow). I've edged myself to the verge of sobbing with partners multiple times because I won't let myself relax enough to get off. And why? Because I am extremely scared of someone witnessing my face when I orgasm. It looks like I'm screaming in pain. And I feel hideous. I've tried to train myself when I'm alone to do anything but what my face naturally wants to do but nope. I don't think I'll ever be confident enough to have someone look at me when it happens. I wish it was acceptable to hide my face under the blankets when I cum. I don't know how to fix this issue and I really want to let myself orgasm with my partners. Tldr I look ugly when I orgasm so I don't orgasm. What ...

So I'm in my last year of secondary(uk) and I have this huge crush on this guy I like, the thing is the relationship we have right now is not consistent, and I find it hard to make it consistent as he hangs around 3 girls and 2 other boys and I'm most likely closeted, and I'm afraid that one of them will out me and make me depressed as I am not ready yet. But when I get the chance I do try to sit near him and he does like to talk with me as we have a laugh, but also, when I usually come in in the morning I will put my head on the table because I am tired, and when he comes into class he would always say hi to me if my head was on the table, face down(looks like I'm sleeping), this perplexed me as he says "hi" and my name, but doesn't do it to anyone else. I don't know of he is too shy to say hi to my face or that he likes me and prefers to say hi when he can't look at me just so he doesn't feel as bad or that he says hi because he cares if I a...

How can I improve my language skill so I can engage my partner? She is normally very shy and it's hard for her to talk about herself, so she lets me talk and ask questions. But after a while I run out of things I'm comfortable sharing and would like for her to continue the discussion, but she answers poorly. I am assuming we are both at fault here, maybe my questions are not funny to answer and maybe she has had little contact to others. I really like this girl, how do I get to make her talk and not be scared to take the spotlight for once Submitted October 16, 2021 at 12:07AM How can I improve my language skill so I can engage my partner? She is normally very shy and it's hard for her to talk about herself, so she lets me talk and ask questions. But after a while I run out of things I'm comfortable sharing and would like for her to continue the discussion, but she answers poorly.I am assuming we are both at fault here, maybe my questions are not funny to answe...

I (M 29) Broke up with the love of my life (F29) and now I’m just so scared to be newly single again at 29 years old. We had talks of marriage and forever and we could have been close to engagement but I let my fear and shortcomings ruin things because we couldn’t agree on logistical things like where to live. Now I feel like the clock is ticking and I constantly feel pressure when I see all my friends my age getting engaged and married. She’s already moved on naturally as women do and talking to someone else and I don’t have anytime or desire to do that since I just started grad school. But the thought of starting over with someone new just sounds so horrible and exhausting. Submitted October 16, 2021 at 12:08AM I (M 29) Broke up with the love of my life (F29) and now I’m just so scared to be newly single again at 29 years old. We had talks of marriage and forever and we could have been close to engagement but I let my fear and shortcomings ruin things because we couldn’t agree...

I am a Marine Veteran who has been through the ringer one too many times. She is the party girl who could careless about regrets and living life to her fullest. Her and I havent ever dated before. But, we have a serious spiritual connection. Through the subliminal messages and obvious signs that flirting is apparent. I am a stay at home Vet who is on disability. I am a writer in my free time whenever i am not contracting. I make frequent trips down to LA as much as I can on the weekend, living out of the Mojave desert. Committed to all areas of my life. Job, kids (living with both my exes, 1v1), twice divorced (8 years if marriage experience). She has been making music for over 12 years now. She lives in LA county. Now that I am typing about her...i really dont know that much about her do I? Other then the fact that she is living in the fast lane, dropped out of college and is living her best life. Both of us have been through trauma in our pasts. Trying to repaint the same picture...

I’m going on a third date with a girl on sunday, we are going apple picking and then just walking by the lake. I was thinking about bringing flowers for her? Is that too much for a third date? Also I’ve never gotten a girl flowers before lol, what type should I get and how many?? Submitted October 16, 2021 at 12:09AM I’m going on a third date with a girl on sunday, we are going apple picking and then just walking by the lake. I was thinking about bringing flowers for her? Is that too much for a third date? Also I’ve never gotten a girl flowers before lol, what type should I get and how many??

Just wondering, I started talking to this girl on the 4th of September (when we were on lockdown and still am). Her birthday was on the 10th of October and I haven’t met her yet since we are still in lockdown. Would it be appropriate to buy her a book and give it to her on our first meeting as her birthday gift? Submitted October 16, 2021 at 12:14AM Just wondering, I started talking to this girl on the 4th of September (when we were on lockdown and still am).Her birthday was on the 10th of October and I haven’t met her yet since we are still in lockdown.Would it be appropriate to buy her a book and give it to her on our first meeting as her birthday gift?

Thank you. I guess that's the problem with abbreviations, pan generally means pansexual in my experience. I didn't even consider panromantic being a thing. October 15, 2021 at 11:33PM

Yup. It's a completely different thing. October 15, 2021 at 11:31PM

Well, with free access to internet, time, and curiosity... I definitely saw porn too young, probably around 10-11 but I didn't start doing anything about it until I was like 14. And it kinda staved my personal growth for a little bit before I figured out what was real and fake. October 15, 2021 at 11:30PM

Yeah, I definitely am the same most of the time, like I still find people attractive but no longer sexually, but sometimes throughout the day I get a gross intrusive thought and then I can barely even think about people, I wrote this post in one of those moments October 15, 2021 at 11:17PM

Ayyyy, i also started using 🤙🏾 ironically, and now its one of my most frequent gestures. October 15, 2021 at 11:14PM