A lot of people don’t know the differences between attractions and don’t know how to separate sexual from romantic from aesthetic attraction. In my limited experience they have to ask a lot of questions to parse the differences. People tend to not want to do that much work. May 15, 2021 at 12:01AM

I trust you will. :) I'm just concerned an iron might damage the flag. May 15, 2021 at 12:00AM

that looks so cool!!! May 15, 2021 at 12:00AM

I will get it flat, I promise May 14, 2021 at 11:59PM

Thanks, this was still really helpful feedback! And it's nice to hear that one person at least likes my story idea! May 14, 2021 at 11:59PM

Eh, we don't have spirit animals, that's reserved for the native peoples who use the term for their religion. You can totes have a frog familiar though. :) May 14, 2021 at 11:57PM

I’ve thought about this. Many peoples’ experience involves sexual repression and an environment telling them sex is evil. If you don’t know anything about sexualities beyond “straight,” “gay,” “lesbian,” and “bisexual,” and especially if you’re used to a repressive environment, our true lack of interest can look like pretending to have no interest due to a repressive environment. Sex-repulsion may look like “sex is evil and disgusting” in the moral sense and not in a “this is just my natural reaction, not a moral judgment” sense. And if you hate that repressive environment, you might have negative associations with repressed people. And if the other refuses to “see the light” and acts disgusted, that can’t be their true reaction, everyone loves sex and they’re just a prude pretending not to like it to seem pure! Their no isn’t really a no! And even if it is, they deserve to be punished with sexuality for making me repress mine! (That’s not how it works. Even if it was just a prude a...

It's like being aroused by sex or sexual things but without wanting to participate. This is more specific to aegosexuality . May 14, 2021 at 11:51PM

r/ontheledgeandshit May 14, 2021 at 11:48PM

I’ve seen a couple on aliexpress for pretty cheap, the only issue is that the sizes might get a little bit confusing. May 14, 2021 at 11:46PM

r/asexualdating is for dating but a ton of posts there have people open to you messaging them for friendships May 14, 2021 at 11:46PM

Good luck! Tell us how it goes! May 14, 2021 at 11:44PM

Some aces use porn to deal with their libido, kind of like scratching an itch but replace itchiness with horniness May 14, 2021 at 11:39PM

l My sister had a child. My mother can smother tf outta him. (I meant like love on him, not kill him) May 14, 2021 at 11:35PM

Thanks for the response. Just curious, not that I’m in the state of mind to even think about flirting with other girls, but has he gotten back out there? If so, what was that like? May 14, 2021 at 11:32PM

My brother has stated, multiple times, that he never wants kids and my sister doesn't care less about having a relationship so my mum has put her hopes of grandchildren on her last child. Said last child is sex averse so you can see how well that's going... May 14, 2021 at 11:31PM

Thanks for the TIL moment May 14, 2021 at 11:29PM

Omg same it's so backwards imo, I seriously still find it super disturbing and offensive that people think it even matters?? May 14, 2021 at 11:23PM

Good luck! May 14, 2021 at 11:23PM

Same. There is no middle ground for me. May 14, 2021 at 11:23PM

Awesome!! May 14, 2021 at 11:19PM

I'm one of those people who see everything in black and white: I'm either extra af or absolutely discrete May 14, 2021 at 11:18PM

Well I hope you find a way to do Pride in secret May 14, 2021 at 11:17PM