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He wouldn’t let me come to his birthday

So I’ve been seeing this guy for about a month. A lot of his friends are also my friends and I met him at a party he hosted. After which he had another party I attended but nothing happened as I was seeing someone else at the time- he also came to my party a month prior. For the last 3 weeks he’s being going on about his birthday party he’s hosting constantly talking about it o me. I said numerous things implying that I thought I was going throughout these weeks. For example when he wanted to cancel the party because he has a skin rash I told him ‘oh please don’t that’s my only plan this weekend and it’ll be so good’ to which he replied ‘I’ll see you in the week instead when the rash clears’. On the day of the party I said you still having it and he said yes with a celebration emoji and I said what time and he told me the time. A few hours later I told him can you let me know all the details so I know when to get ready. He then completely changed and said ‘why on earth do you think yo...

28 and eternally single

I’m a 28 year old female, and I’ve never been in a relationship. I’ve dated, but i never seem to get past the initial stages. I’m starting to feel like maybe there’s something wrong with me, and am just looking for any and all advice as to how to find something more meaningful in a world of dating apps Submitted November 14, 2020 at 11:52PM I’m a 28 year old female, and I’ve never been in a relationship. I’ve dated, but i never seem to get past the initial stages. I’m starting to feel like maybe there’s something wrong with me, and am just looking for any and all advice as to how to find something more meaningful in a world of dating apps

I was an escort really liked this guy but it turns out he's getting married.

I was an escort and I met this guy originally as a client but we hit it off so I started seeing him off the clock right away. Since moving back home, I've discovered that he's getting married and I'm not going to lie, I'm afraid of how I will approach my next relationship. I put this guy on such a high pedestal and I look like such a loser from the sidelines while he's getting married. Perhaps I'm still in like with the guy and he has no idea, but because I've been an escort I feel like this intimacy we shared is just going to be unmatched and I can't tell if it's because I am grieving him, but I was wondering if anyone can offer advice? Submitted November 15, 2020 at 12:11AM I was an escort and I met this guy originally as a client but we hit it off so I started seeing him off the clock right away. Since moving back home, I've discovered that he's getting married and I'm not going to lie, I'm afraid of how I will approach my n...

/u/s-quea-k on eheh

So many people think I’m bi, it’s very funny November 15, 2020 at 12:06AM

/u/CameronCCorinthian on Any Aro or Ace people that would like to DM

Awesome could you please DM me first November 15, 2020 at 12:04AM

/u/NoRomolol on Any Aro or Ace people that would like to DM

I'm also aroace, I'd be open to dms :D November 15, 2020 at 12:03AM

/u/CameronCCorinthian on Is it strange I like to dress up nice and be looked at?

It’s not strange at all if your happy because of it that’s awesome November 15, 2020 at 12:03AM

/u/PlaneJust on I just wanna enjoy some horror, man...

Wait, the sex scenes aren't the horror plot? November 15, 2020 at 12:00AM

/u/iz_the_human on Aro and Ace Spectrum Annual Poetry Anthology Open Call

huh this is really cool. I'll think about sending in some of my work. November 14, 2020 at 11:55PM

/u/throwawaydogtesticle on Do any of y'all play windows 10 Minecraft?

roblox November 14, 2020 at 11:55PM

/u/AceTabby00 on I don't think I belong in this group

I'm early 30s. I'm a woman, tho. November 14, 2020 at 11:52PM

/u/AceTabby00 on Really hung up on the thought that I'll die alone

I had someone for over 10 years. He dumped me. I always thought we'd have a future together. Now I'm so overwhelmed thinking I'm going to be alone forever. November 14, 2020 at 11:49PM

/u/CameronCCorinthian on Unsure of Myself

You sound Demi sexual maybe November 14, 2020 at 11:47PM

/u/BorrodDragon on I just wanna enjoy some horror, man...

I watched scream on Halloween for the first time. Needless to say, this ruined it for me. I need a sex scene skip button that just gives a pop up box giving any context needed. November 14, 2020 at 11:43PM

/u/The_Fluffy_Floof_ on For men(or women idk) are people generally confused whether you're hetero or gay?

I don't really have this problem because my classmates are chill. November 14, 2020 at 11:42PM

/u/JarooTheAlien on eheh

Panromantic, homosexual with a not so masculine personality... November 14, 2020 at 11:31PM

/u/TJOHPodcast on I thought you guys might appreciate the Minnie ears I made for my Disney World trip back in January!

Thank you so much! They were a lot of fun to make. November 14, 2020 at 11:28PM

/u/ChekYurGramer on Scientific Research on Asexuality?

There isn't a lot of research on asexuality, unfortunately. The largest collection of data on asexuals is probably the Asexual Community Survey, which is a census collecting data (including some quality-of-life information) on asexuals. The only study I know about arousal and other responses to sexual stimuli was a small experiment in 2009-10 called 'Physiological and Subjective Sexual Arousal in Self-Identified Asexual Women,' which is obviously of limited scope. You could check out the subreddit r/AcePhilosophy , which has some discussions about asexuality-related articles. November 14, 2020 at 11:26PM

/u/LeoVonLion on eheh

I think I certainly give off some kinda vibe that confuses some people. In high school I had this class where I didn't know any of the other kids well and they sort of, on their own, tested? Me??? Like one day they had a girl ask if I wanted to date her, then another day they had this guy ask me to kiss him as a dare from his friends. I refused both of course but like that was super weird??? It's one thing if it's just random instances but like it was within the same lil' class and they all seemed to know each other. It was especially weird 'cause they were generally nice and chill peeps like I think I just confused them, haha. Like, just ask me! y'know? (¯∇¯Ù¥) There were other instances in other wakes of life but this is the most clearcut example. November 14, 2020 at 11:23PM

/u/Superbeltman on Ever since I came out as ace I hate having sex with my partner, is this normal?

This is totally normal I'd say even common among Ace's November 14, 2020 at 11:17PM

/u/SconeIsGone on I just wanna enjoy some horror, man...

The writers are all sex repulsed and those scenes are part of the horror. November 14, 2020 at 11:14PM

/u/tydeTHEseawing on How to get a GF if I'm asexual, introverted, and can't develop a crush?

oh, lol. I completely appreciate them for their concern, but the only part where i mentioned sex was when i said i DIDN'T want it. But you'd be surprised, when I was in grade 6, a grade 8er got pregnant. November 14, 2020 at 11:12PM

/u/PangolinFront2500 on I thought you guys might appreciate the Minnie ears I made for my Disney World trip back in January!

These are ADORABLE!! I love them so much!! November 14, 2020 at 11:11PM