18M I have got a chance with a girl who is hot imo. I know her boyfriend but we aren't that close. She knows that I am a virgin and she is very nice and comforting towards me as of now about the situation. I want to do it but I have conflicting feelings because I would like my first time to be with someone special that I have a relationship with. But that is a long time ahead probably because I am moving to uni in a few months. Now, I'm horny and Idk what to do. I also fear that other girls who I might be in a relationship with in the future find it negative and somewhat distasteful. Please comment on suggestions. I'm not clear on what to do and I need advice. I'm not lacking in the confidence department. Just throwing that out there. Please be kind to me in the comments, I am young xD Submitted May 28, 2021 at 01:15AM 18MI have got a chance with a girl who is hot imo. I know her boyfriend but we aren't that close. She knows that I am a virgin and she is ve...

I have to say i think im a pretty open minded person. I have tried many thing sexual, done personal research in books and the internet to learn new things, and have said yes to every first sexual experience i have ever been offered. So I have done a lot of crazy and fantastic stuff. What surprises me is how little people know about sex, sex play, the opposite gender body parts. Is this because sex is still a very taboo subject? we all look up how to cook, how to repair, how build, or how to play video games. Why is it so hard to find good content on how to have better sex? please comment what you think the reasons are. love one another and lots of hugs. and most of all Love yourself Submitted May 28, 2021 at 01:25AM I have to say i think im a pretty open minded person. I have tried many thing sexual, done personal research in books and the internet to learn new things, and have said yes to every first sexual experience i have ever been offered. So I have done a lot of crazy a...

My boyfriend (21M) and I (20F) have been together for about two months now and have basically been messing around and such the entire time we've been together. I was a virgin and he was my first relationship, so he is more experienced than I am which makes me happy that he knows what he's doing. For the most part, the sex is great. I was never interested in sex or anything before him, but he just really does it for me. He knows how to press all the right buttons for me and it feels great. There is just one slight problem. Every single time he gets me close to having an orgasm, either through oral or rubbing me, I freak out and make him stop. Like, I'm all in the mood and I hype myself up every time to just let it happen, but then I get close, I feel this pressure in my hips and legs and know it's coming, and I just can't handle it anymore. I have no idea why I do this. I've never had an orgasm before, but I want one. When we first started having sex, I never ...

I've always had a hard time orgasming during sex. But I finally did it. During doggy style I decided to try to stimulate my clit, and it worked! I came, and I'm so fucking happy. I can't wait to experiment more to find more comfortable ways to do it and to see if I can do it in other positions. Submitted May 28, 2021 at 01:29AM I've always had a hard time orgasming during sex. But I finally did it. During doggy style I decided to try to stimulate my clit, and it worked! I came, and I'm so fucking happy. I can't wait to experiment more to find more comfortable ways to do it and to see if I can do it in other positions.

My FWB (39 M) and I (32F) have been using edibles together lately. Usually we have sex while on them and it really enhances the sex for me and makes me more horny. A few nights ago, we tried it and it seemed to hit us both hard. We could not stop laughing and cuddled and talked for hours. But he got so relaxed, he feel asleep without us having sex. Is that normal? We always normally have sex whenever we see one another. This is a new thing for me and I don’t know how to take not having sex with someone I have a sex-based relationship with. I’m interested in knowing people’s experience with edibles and sex, and if maybe they don’t mix? Submitted May 27, 2021 at 11:31PM My FWB (39 M) and I (32F) have been using edibles together lately. Usually we have sex while on them and it really enhances the sex for me and makes me more horny. A few nights ago, we tried it and it seemed to hit us both hard. We could not stop laughing and cuddled and talked for hours. But he got so relaxed, he ...

My first time is later today. I'm trying to practice putting a condom on, and it just won't go on at all. Like, it won't even go over the head of my penis, and if I try to force it over it, I can't roll it down. It's Durex thin feel classic, and it says it has a large girth with 56mm nominal width. My penis is quite girthy, but surely it's not that big. This feels way too small. I must be doing something wrong. I'm using online tutorials, but it wouldn't come close to going on. Can anybody help me? This is urgent? Submitted May 27, 2021 at 11:31PM My first time is later today. I'm trying to practice putting a condom on, and it just won't go on at all. Like, it won't even go over the head of my penis, and if I try to force it over it, I can't roll it down.It's Durex thin feel classic, and it says it has a large girth with 56mm nominal width. My penis is quite girthy, but surely it's not that big. This feels way too small. ...

Hi guys! About 6 years ago I (25F) contracted chlamydia when a guy removed the condom without permission/asking/telling. Since then, I have met my loving, incredible fiance (28M), but still feel insanely dirty and insecure about my past. I don't like his face or hands close to my vagina, so I haven't gotten head since then. My fiance is eager, and would love to try. Even though I've been clean and repeatedly tested, I still have it in my head that I'm going to give him an STD. How do I shake this dirty feeling? Any advice is appreciated. Submitted May 27, 2021 at 11:39PM Hi guys!About 6 years ago I (25F) contracted chlamydia when a guy removed the condom without permission/asking/telling. Since then, I have met my loving, incredible fiance (28M), but still feel insanely dirty and insecure about my past. I don't like his face or hands close to my vagina, so I haven't gotten head since then. My fiance is eager, and would love to try. Even though I've b...

Hi everyone! This is my first post in the group and I am just looking for a little help. My boyfriend is on anti-depressants and can’t seem to finish without masturbation. Do you guys have any tips or tricks we can do to get him off normally? I really want to help him out. Thank you so much in advance! Submitted May 27, 2021 at 11:39PM Hi everyone! This is my first post in the group and I am just looking for a little help. My boyfriend is on anti-depressants and can’t seem to finish without masturbation. Do you guys have any tips or tricks we can do to get him off normally? I really want to help him out. Thank you so much in advance!

My bf is the first sexual partner I’ve had, and I’m also a very short (5’2), slim built girl, while he is well-endowed and has a dick that’s kind of girth-y. The first time we had sex, he said he’d only put the head in but I felt a really intense pain and felt like I was already stuffed. The next times we tried sex he said he’s only put half or just his head in at most but I always feel like it’s the most I could take. So penetration sex for me just doesn’t feel as good and most of the time we’ve just been doing handjobs or oral sex. I think the hard parts are: 1) he gets very hard when we’re about to have sex and it’s difficult for me to put it in sometimes since it’s not bending. 2) I don’t get very wet and we have tried lube, but we also use condoms every time and I think I don’t really like the rubbery feel of the condom. 3) I can only fit it in when I’m on bottom, when I tried being on top I couldn’t even get his penis inside even if I stretched my legs out very hard. So Idk wh...

I don’t know if this belongs here, but I genuinely don’t know where else to go for advice. I’m an 18 yo female, and though I don’t have any sexual experience, I have interest in sex/sexuality. But sometimes when I think about actually having sex (specifically having oral sex performed on me) and experiencing orgasm I become genuinely terrified of the sensation, and often am reduced to tears. It seems to be triggered specifically on the mention of female sexuality, especially regarding the clitoris. It seems like a stretch that I think immediately that I may have been sexually abused/have had sexual trauma, especially since I cannot recall any time that has come even close to happening, I genuinely can’t think of any other explanation. I know this post in awkward, but does anyone have any advice/similar experience? EDIT: i also generally dislike masturbation. when i do, it’s typically over my clothes, and doesn’t do much for me. in fact, it’s often more uncomfortable than it is pleasu...

As my subject states, I am 64 years old. My wife passed nearly 10 years ago. A young woman in my neighborhood has been showing interest in me sexually. I've been paying her for a number of years to garden and perform other tasks around my property. She’s always been extremely polite and helpful, but recently she's become more flirtatious. Normally I wouldn't make any assumptions that a woman was interested in me, but she's made it very clear. She’s been complimenting how handsome I am, she's told me I could have any woman I wanted, "even a girl [her] age," and she's even offered to cook me a "romantic dinner" on a few occasions (she's in culinary school). I don't feel that his flirtatiousness has ever crossed a line of being distasteful, and it has made me feel more confident as I've been working hard to stay in shape. I'll be completely honest, she's an extremely attractive young woman with a slim, curvy body and she...

Is there anything sexier than a girl who can see the humor in sex? To make light of our respective crazy desires and fantasies. I've been chatting with someone in particular and she's already super cute and sexy, but then she has to throw in the humor card and that doubles her hotness factor. Who else thinks humor is sexy? Submitted May 27, 2021 at 11:56PM Is there anything sexier than a girl who can see the humor in sex? To make light of our respective crazy desires and fantasies. I've been chatting with someone in particular and she's already super cute and sexy, but then she has to throw in the humor card and that doubles her hotness factor.Who else thinks humor is sexy?

Me and my boyfriend used to have a lot of sex, multiple times a day and times a week. We did foreplay a lot and experimented loads to see what we liked. Recently he always says no to sex and head, he never wants to do anything to me no matter how horny I am and begging for it. I crave sexual affection and he’s not giving me any. I understand I can’t force it but sometimes if he does want head and I give it and make him finish he then refuses to do anything to make me finish. I just don’t understand how it’s gone so downhill, when our sex life used to be amazing now it’s basically non existent. I’ve invested in lingerie and toys and he will literally only fuck me if I surprise him with lingerie (which I don’t do often because he’ll get used to it and bored). I just don’t know why his drive is so low, what can I do. EDIT I just wanted to add that I feel so awful begging for sex of some sort of sexual activity so often. I know it’s bad of me but I crave it so much and I always get reje...

Hey all, I had protected sex a couple days ago. It was a great time and she’s said she’s clean. It was somewhat rough and prolonged sex but nothing particularly crazy. However, I noticed since like five hours ago the lower left part of my penis has started hurting. It looks fine, no bumps or anything, isn’t itchy and I feel fine peeing. Lymph nodes are okay as well. Has anyone had this happen to them? I looked it up and lowkey am worried it’s cancer. Does anyone know about this sorta thing? Is it just a post-prolonged-sex thing? Submitted May 28, 2021 at 12:12AM Hey all, I had protected sex a couple days ago. It was a great time and she’s said she’s clean. It was somewhat rough and prolonged sex but nothing particularly crazy.However, I noticed since like five hours ago the lower left part of my penis has started hurting. It looks fine, no bumps or anything, isn’t itchy and I feel fine peeing. Lymph nodes are okay as well. Has anyone had this happen to them?I looked it up and ...

I lost my virginity years ago but later found out what happened is considered rape. That relationship was very sexually abusive and I didn’t realize it because nobody had ever taught me about sex. My then-bf was the one who gave me “the talk” and ended up being coercive and raping me more than once. I thought those things were normal for the duration of the relationship, but once I learned otherwise I broke up with him, which was late last year. We were together for three years before that. I’m 21 now and I have learned a lot about consent. I’m female btw sorry forgot to mention that. It was traumatizing and sex with my ex used to give me panic attacks and/or make me cry every time. Masturbation has that effect most times. I found a guy I really like, we made out, same effect (he was understanding cause he knows what happened to me). We didn’t even finish our make out session cause I freaked. This guy I like is super fucking hot. I’m into him but neither of us are ready for a relatio...

For background, feet are my #1 turn on. I’m not a very kinky person, I actually like my Gf’s feet to be clean before doing anything and she’s very vanilla which doesn’t bother me, but when I try expressing my fetish, I get shutdown very quick. To more or less get it off my chest I am frustrated that my gf doesn’t let me practice my foot fetish. Call me selfish, but it’s driving me crazy. We’ve been together for 1 year now and she’s been great for me compared to my exes and I told her that I was into feet when we were in the talking stage and she seemed to be indifferent about it, plus she doesn’t have the most attractive feet. Fast forward to now and I’ve probably been able to practice it less than a handful of times and it really sucks because my relationship before her was encouraging with a foot fetish, in fact, my ex before her was into my feet too, but she was super clingy and annoying outside of sex. I guess I’m more so venting just to get it off my chest, but it’s drove me ...

I (17M) have been dating my girlfriend (18F) for two years. We’ve been sexually active (some oral, touching) but we’ve never had full intercourse. We are going to later tonight though. She’s got the IUD but I’m still gonna bring condoms just because the safer, the better. We’re going on a date beforehand but our first time is gonna be in the car because nowhere else to go. My girlfriend prefers smooth pubes so I planned on shaving. I did not have any shaving cream left so I asked my mom if I could borrow hers. She asked what for and I said “Uh to shave?” She gave me a funny look but she lended me the shaving cream. A little after that, when I had got out the shower, she said “The only thing you really shave is your armpits and your beard, and you already shaved those a week ago.. Just saying.” I didn’t answer her because I was confused on the point she was trying to make but now I realize that she knew why I wanted to shave because I’m gonna be out with my girlfriend later. Do I talk ...

I 20f just lost my verginity lately and i can't help but think that i am bad at it don't wanna just lay there like a starfish so please any tips on becoming better Submitted May 28, 2021 at 12:15AM I 20f just lost my verginity lately and i can't help but think that i am bad at it don't wanna just lay there like a starfish so please any tips on becoming better

So feel a little weird posting - but it’s anonymous right- I’m 42(f) married for 20 years to same m. Very experienced and free before marriage. Monogamous since. So I’ve always had a very high sex drive- every guy I dated thought that was great until they realized I wanted it more... I had my first orgasm at 18- not alone but with a partner- first time I was on top and it was a game changer. and ever since then my drive kicked up- However- I can only orgasm on top- must have vaginal penetration (or anal penetration but only for woman on top position- not doggy style) The orgasms I have are absolutely transcendent- I cant believe anyone would feel complete without them- I’m vocal- it’s messy- The con is- I feel like none of my friends can relate- I don’t enjoy oral-it’s ok for a bit then it’s irritating- missionary is fine for foreplay- but if I really want to get off- it’s cowgirl town only. I can’t hardly stand vibrators or toys. The other con is .... Submitted May 28, 2021 a...

When I get into a cycle of bad habits (e.g. binge eating) and become low self-esteem, especially attraction-wise, I don't feel worthy of the normal healthy attention, respect, and desire I expect and feel worthy of when I am doing well. Therefore the only conceivable way anyone would want to fuck me is if it was completely devoid of anything positive or personal. Like the only way I can then conceive of a guy wanting to fuck me is if he was the type to say "might as well use/get that worthless piece of shit pregnant, because there's nothing better to do right now". In those low moments, I feel I don't conjure up enough lust from respectable men for any of them to fight for me (romantically, long term), so the only type of person willing to fuck me would be a lowly rapist. In those low self-esteem, low-worth moments, I can't masturbate to the idea of someone who desires me both lovingly and sexually, because it is unfathomable, and it is my fault. Having a ...

Hello guys - A girl asked me this question as I'm trying to get her to come over. Please help! Submitted May 28, 2021 at 12:23AM Hello guys -A girl asked me this question as I'm trying to get her to come over. Please help!

For those who have orgasmed through penetration, what position does it for you? What was your experience discovering you could finish through penetration alone? I recently discovered I can finish with missionary, with him shifted up. I always thought only oral would do it for me. Looking to try new things! Submitted May 28, 2021 at 12:25AM For those who have orgasmed through penetration, what position does it for you? What was your experience discovering you could finish through penetration alone?I recently discovered I can finish with missionary, with him shifted up. I always thought only oral would do it for me. Looking to try new things!

My s/o and I want to try the stranger in a bar scenario but I’m not sure how we should go about it since they don’t drink. I feel like it would be odd for him to go into the bar and just order a soda while he waits for me etc.. Any thoughts, ideas, tips? Thanks! Submitted May 28, 2021 at 12:28AM My s/o and I want to try the stranger in a bar scenario but I’m not sure how we should go about it since they don’t drink.I feel like it would be odd for him to go into the bar and just order a soda while he waits for me etc..Any thoughts, ideas, tips? Thanks!