I've loved one person who was my best friend since we were children, and it's been about a decade, and despite how much I love her, I have no sexual feelings August 30, 2021 at 11:49PM

I’m not contradicting the others, they’re probably right. They’re aces, I’m not. But is possible to be allo and also be sex-averse/sex-repulsed. August 30, 2021 at 11:48PM

Depending on where you live you can get help about your parents August 30, 2021 at 11:48PM

Yeah I got tested for chlamydia once, even though I told my doc I was not sexually active. Out of pocket on that one too. Fuckin sucks when people don't believe you. At least I get why they want to check if you've had your period, because issues with your cycle has to do with more than sexual activity. Sorry to hear that you had a similar experience :( August 30, 2021 at 11:47PM

Ok? August 30, 2021 at 11:46PM

If you are ace who has never had an involuntary physiological reaction when you see someone attractive, this is the best way to help an allo understand (I’m allo): Dad, when you first see someone that you find sexually attractive what happens? I mean physically, how does it feel? What sensations do you get? Dad tells you what it feels like. Dad, nothing like that has ever happened to me. I have no idea what you’re talking about. Maybe he still won’t accept it but he’ll understand what is different. August 30, 2021 at 11:42PM

Ouch so much worse that you have to pay for it out of pocket. Luckily my new gynecologist just nodded and went ahead with everything when I said I was asexual not pregnant with no plans for kids. Part of it is covering their own ass cause so many people lie about things ( like the amount of naked people that ‘fell’ and Suddenly they’re in the er with something lodged up their butt) August 30, 2021 at 11:42PM

“Lay completely still and sink into your body.” Okay, but now all I can feel is how the sheet is bunched uncomfortably under my knee. Let me adjust that real quick. “Starting at your feet, focus on each body part in turn. First feel your toes.” Okay, now they’re itching. Let me scratch that. “Now work your way up to your head. How does it feel on your pillow?” I’m laying on my hair in a way that’s kinda scratchy, actually. Let me shift that around. I have trouble getting out of my head during sex, and all the mindfulness and meditation articles and audio guides and things make it worse . How do you find the right headspace for sex? Submitted August 30, 2021 at 09:56PM “Lay completely still and sink into your body.”Okay, but now all I can feel is how the sheet is bunched uncomfortably under my knee. Let me adjust that real quick.“Starting at your feet, focus on each body part in turn. First feel your toes.”Okay, now they’re itching. Let me scratch that.“Now work your way u...

Does anyone have any idea on how people profit from their feet pic ‘ I’m genuinely curious and i have NO clue on how to start ! If anyone has anything to share , it’d be appreciated Submitted August 30, 2021 at 10:00PM Does anyone have any idea on how people profit from their feet pic ‘ I’m genuinely curious and i have NO clue on how to start ! If anyone has anything to share , it’d be appreciated

Hi, Im a 17M and I'm gonna have sex in a few days so I've been practicing putting on condoms as it's been a while. I calculated the ideal condom nominal width I need by using the formula: Girth in cm x 4.5 which gave me 54. So a condom near 54mm nominal width should theoretically be ideal for me. However when I practiced using some standard Skyn 52mm condoms and rolling them down, they didn't stay at the very bottom of my shaft and rolled up about an inch or 2 no matter what I did. I believe this then causes a few horizontal wrinkles in the condom as it's not fully stretched over my whole penis. So I tried a 60mm condom which I knew would be too big (and it was), but it covered my entire penis and it didn't roll up, so I'm a little confused. Any help or advice would be much appreciated! Thanks Submitted August 30, 2021 at 10:10PM Hi,Im a 17M and I'm gonna have sex in a few days so I've been practicing putting on condoms as it's been a wh...

Hi! I’m (F25) going to have PiV sex for the first time soon, pending my BF’s test results. We’ve done oral and fingering, which has been super enjoyable for me. But I’ve been super anxious because all of this is new for me, so even though it feels good, I’ve kinda just been laying there, thinking about how it feels, how I look, what he’s thinking, when it will be done, etc. Is that normal? Will I be able to get more into it as I get more experience, or is there anything I can do to be more in the moment? Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:02PM Hi! I’m (F25) going to have PiV sex for the first time soon, pending my BF’s test results. We’ve done oral and fingering, which has been super enjoyable for me. But I’ve been super anxious because all of this is new for me, so even though it feels good, I’ve kinda just been laying there, thinking about how it feels, how I look, what he’s thinking, when it will be done, etc. Is that normal? Will I be able to get more into it as I get more expe...

So lately I’ve been noticing my husband might be into feet. A few months ago, he jokingly opened his mouth wide cause a waved my foot in his direction during sex. But since then I’ve been noticing him staring at them when I have my legs up, I don’t know if it’s something he developed as of late or if he was always into feet but ashamed of it, knowing him it could be the latter because he is a lil embarrassed about his fantasies. Either way I’m okay with it, I don’t mind if he shoves my toes inside his mouth during sex, but like, I don’t wanna pressure him to do so, cause he always takes my suggestions as me wanting him to do something for me even when I’m explicitly asking him if he’s the one wanting to do it. Anything I can do or say to demonstrate that I’m cool with it if he’s actually into it? Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:12PM So lately I’ve been noticing my husband might be into feet. A few months ago, he jokingly opened his mouth wide cause a waved my foot in his directi...

Now this may go for some women too, but it seems like so many guys are determined to get nudes, phone sex, or anything like that. If I’m horny I just go watch porn. Even if I’m into a specific person, I can use my imagination or just watch porn and picture it. Even with real sex, it’s rarely worth the risk until you really know someone. So it’s hard for me to understand how some people are so eager. Maybe it’s just because I’m an introvert. Why do some people need something more? Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:14PM Now this may go for some women too, but it seems like so many guys are determined to get nudes, phone sex, or anything like that. If I’m horny I just go watch porn. Even if I’m into a specific person, I can use my imagination or just watch porn and picture it. Even with real sex, it’s rarely worth the risk until you really know someone. So it’s hard for me to understand how some people are so eager. Maybe it’s just because I’m an introvert. Why do some people need so...

So I wanna ride my boyfriend but I really don't know how so can you please give my suggestions on what to do and what not to do, I've heard about bouncing but I don't know how to do that so if anyone could also tell me how , thank you :) Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:18PM So I wanna ride my boyfriend but I really don't know how so can you please give my suggestions on what to do and what not to do, I've heard about bouncing but I don't know how to do that so if anyone could also tell me how , thank you :)

Hi, so I was wondering if any of you ladies and gentlemen know of any products for your penis to make it taste nicer. My girlfriend recently told me she doesn’t really like the salty taste that my penis has, so put it to her that I could look for some kind of ointment to make it nicer and she said that would be cool. Doesn’t have to be a product, could be something like a fruit as I know pineapple improves the taste of your ejaculate, but improving the taste of my ejaculate is not top of my list of concerns right now. Preferably £10 and under - yes I’m British :0 She said strawberry flavour would be best :D P.S. I do not have smegma or any other condition. Thanks for your time! Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:20PM Hi, so I was wondering if any of you ladies and gentlemen know of any products for your penis to make it taste nicer. My girlfriend recently told me she doesn’t really like the salty taste that my penis has, so put it to her that I could look for some kind of oint...

Like I masturbate a lot but orgasms and climax doesn’t feel amazing. It’s pretty weak and then doesn’t feel wow or super pleasurable. I’ve had sex a couple times and found it felt like nothing and repetitive. I feel a bit broken. But I wasn’t super attracted to those guys turns out Now I’ve met a guy I’m aroused around constantly, we have amazing chemistry and I’m really attracted to him. I think about sleeping with him a lot but I’m worried I won’t find it pleasurable. And if I don’t find it pleasurable I won’t know what to do anymore because he’s perfect :( Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:25PM Like I masturbate a lot but orgasms and climax doesn’t feel amazing. It’s pretty weak and then doesn’t feel wow or super pleasurable.I’ve had sex a couple times and found it felt like nothing and repetitive. I feel a bit broken. But I wasn’t super attracted to those guys turns outNow I’ve met a guy I’m aroused around constantly, we have amazing chemistry and I’m really attracted to him...

What’s the best way to attract an woman who doesn’t seem into you, but once was? Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:26PM What’s the best way to attract an woman who doesn’t seem into you, but once was?

People who have one testicle are you comfortable when having sex or with a woman as a person who hasn’t experienced sex this is another thing that I always over think it. Also have two scars just above my penis one extremely visible and the other basically invisible Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:31PM People who have one testicle are you comfortable when having sex or with a woman as a person who hasn’t experienced sex this is another thing that I always over think it. Also have two scars just above my penis one extremely visible and the other basically invisible

Hi, I'm writing because I've been a bit confused lately. Or maybe I'm weird, but I need your opinion to support. My relationship is not going well, neither in the relationship nor in bed. I decided to analyze various situations, our goals, etc. But the main question that comes to mind is. Can you have a great relationship and great sex? I've always had great sex with guys I haven't had a relationship with. I mean sex where we discover new things, when I have a great time and there is a lot of chemistry and excitement. Just fireworks. But these were never guys for a relationship, even though we tried. Now I'm in a relationship, but it's a little different in bed. There is sex, but no emotions. Ordinary sex. I don't want to go into details here. But I can see that my partner doesn't like it from the beginning. There is always something wrong. Some things can be changed, but I can't change things (eg how I look there or if I'm "too wet...

When I'm just cruising on the website and it's a room with only twenty or so people, I swear that I'm being watched back. I'm not streaming or anything, my laptop has a camera though. When I say things out loud or react in a certain way, I swear that they are responding directly to my behavior. If I go to masterbate, so does the girl. Am I insane or can these girls actually see me despite there being other people in the room and me not interacting or broadcasting anything. Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:38PM When I'm just cruising on the website and it's a room with only twenty or so people, I swear that I'm being watched back. I'm not streaming or anything, my laptop has a camera though. When I say things out loud or react in a certain way, I swear that they are responding directly to my behavior. If I go to masterbate, so does the girl. Am I insane or can these girls actually see me despite there being other people in the room and me not intera...

Whenever I masturbate no matter what I’m doing specifically I get really lethargic and often fall asleep or into this state of like half sleeping while masturbating. Whenever I “wake up” I feel fine, and I still get horny, but I always fall asleep. No idea why this happens, maybe it’s because I’m getting really hot? I mostly go at it under a blanket in bed, so maybe it’s just the setting? I don’t know. Anyone else like this? Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:43PM Whenever I masturbate no matter what I’m doing specifically I get really lethargic and often fall asleep or into this state of like half sleeping while masturbating. Whenever I “wake up” I feel fine, and I still get horny, but I always fall asleep. No idea why this happens, maybe it’s because I’m getting really hot? I mostly go at it under a blanket in bed, so maybe it’s just the setting? I don’t know. Anyone else like this?

Hey all! So my bf is very disgusted with period blood. He just doesn't want his dick anywhere near it. He knows it's clean, but he is very finicky about those things. This has been a small point of contention as I have trouble getting turned on, and it's much easier for me while on my period. But I never pushed it because that seems rude. But I'm on a new medication and it causes frequent periods. Meaning I may be bleeding most of the month. I really like this medication. It has done a lot for me. I am okay with the periods if it means I get the benefits that come from this medication. But I don't know how to have sex.. this post is basically a last dodge effort to keep this medication. If we can't figure this out, then I have to go off of it 😭 and I'm just doing so well on it. I asked about menstrual cups but those are out. The thought of the blood just collecting inside really freaks him out. He can't explain why it's okay when it's a ta...

Some background information: I've never done anything really slutty, besides maybe wearing things that are a bit revealing. I've jumped from relationship to relationship since I graduated high school 7 years ago and even though I always enjoyed the sex, it never made me feel 100% satisfied. I just got out of a last relationship about 4 months ago, I thought this would be a good chance to explore the slutty side of me, but I've been hesitant to do anything due to covid-19. However, as of yesterday, I finally gave in to my horniness. Ever since I found this subreddit, everytime I go anywhere my slutty mind is thinking of scenarios where I meet a stranger and either blow him or let him fuck me. I usually go out for morning runs a few times a week and I often see the same guy out running. I found this guy to be extremely fucking hot. He's in his early 30s and has pretty much the perfect body, not a super muscular meathead type, but slim with an athletic fit with next to n...