Should I be worried about it she used to respond fast but now she always says she's busy or asleep and I know I might be over thinking it but I just wanna know if it's normal for gf to take all day to respond Submitted May 27, 2023 at 02:13AM Should I be worried about it she used to respond fast but now she always says she's busy or asleep and I know I might be over thinking it but I just wanna know if it's normal for gf to take all day to respond

It sucks that's happening to you, id say clear and firm boundary setting will be your best bet. "Im not looking to do or talk about anything sexual, that makes me uncomfortable" "I don't wanna talk about that" "I dont want to receive/send sexual pictures" "That comment make me uncomfortable" You wanna try shut it down right away in clear terms if someone if overstepping. When people step over that line repeatedly after you've stated those boundaries its fine to just ignore or block them, they aren't entitled to talk w you if they aren't gonna respect you. Boundaries need to be enforcable/enforced to be properly effective, so be clear and firm w what you are comfortable and not comfortable with, and then makes sure you enforce that boundary by disengaging with that person or if you feel it was an honest mistake restating your boundaries and giving a warning and then disengaging if they continue w the topic. Its not you...

So, I got out for prison in December after 3.5 years. It was awesome getting out, I’ve achieved many of my small goals since getting out: working full time, saving a bunch, getting a gym membership, going to meetings, and doing stand up comedy whenever I can. The one thing I have yet to accomplish? Having sex/finding a girl. Needless to say, it’s a problem but also one I’m not sure I should even focus on. Relationship can cause problems, especially when I’m just getting my shit together. Also, a month after I was sentenced my girlfriend of 3 years passed away, so that was sad. BUT I shaved my bush after waiting four years and it needs to be appreciated!! I was at a pub waiting to do a set, and met this really cool girl. She’s pretty, funny, and we got along super well. And she was there to do her second set ever, which is pretty cool. I was hesitant to do my jokes about prison because I thought it would immediately blow my chances of ever hanging out with her again, whether that be a...

IMO, an act is only sexual if there is intent to arouse one's self and/or partner. Like, one person's platonic foot massage is a foot fetishist's idea of foreplay. An exhibitionist gets off on being seen naked, but to a nudist it's just the default. A finger in the ass from a partner is sexual, but a prostate exam from a doctor is (hopefully) not. It's all about the context. May 26, 2023 at 11:33PM

Dear all my SO wants to break up because we learned how to boil eggs differently. Usually when eggs are boiled by me, I poke a hole in the shell with a needle. SO rather likes to boil them hard on lower temperature untouched. Recently I recognized them being cracked in the water and not being prepared with hole in the shell. I've been told that the eggs have always been prepared by that. SO breaks up now, because I argue about that. How is this trait of SO called? Regards Submitted May 27, 2023 at 12:13AM Dear allmy SO wants to break up because we learned how to boil eggs differently. Usually when eggs are boiled by me, I poke a hole in the shell with a needle. SO rather likes to boil them hard on lower temperature untouched. Recently I recognized them being cracked in the water and not being prepared with hole in the shell. I've been told that the eggs have always been prepared by that. SO breaks up now, because I argue about that. How is this trait of SO called?Regards...