Same! July 12, 2022 at 11:34PM

Ok, so I am confused as to how this process goes. I have always just liked a person then focus on them totally and want them without completely knowing them yet. I know that's part of dating, but what if I want to get to know a few people first to see who matches with me best ? Do I tell them I am interested (also so that I will know if they are too and not waste time with small, friendly talks) ? Or just let it be until I am super sure of who I really want ? Submitted July 13, 2022 at 12:16AM Ok, so I am confused as to how this process goes. I have always just liked a person then focus on them totally and want them without completely knowing them yet. I know that's part of dating, but what if I want to get to know a few people first to see who matches with me best ?Do I tell them I am interested (also so that I will know if they are too and not waste time with small, friendly talks) ? Or just let it be until I am super sure of who I really want ?

Hit the nail July 12, 2022 at 11:33PM

For once I don't entirely agree this is Ace vibes, you definitely can be allosexual and completely in the dark about this (' '_) July 12, 2022 at 11:33PM

Getting ignored and shadowed because of my lack of sexual attraction to others. July 12, 2022 at 11:32PM

That I'll have nothing to do when I become older and have reached a stable way of living with a job and housing. What should I do then? The problem not being that I cant do stuff, but that I'll have no motivation for anything July 12, 2022 at 11:30PM

thank you, I hope its true <3 July 12, 2022 at 11:27PM