When i had a girlfriend everyday was happy like no matter what you’ll be happy , but rn im like super in love with this girl and i think she doesnt feel the same way and everything reminds me of her and it just makes me day really bad to the point where my friends told me i look realy sad / anyway share your stories if you feel like and have a good night everyone Submitted April 26, 2019 at 02:14AM When i had a girlfriend everyday was happy like no matter what you’ll be happy , but rn im like super in love with this girl and i think she doesnt feel the same way and everything reminds me of her and it just makes me day really bad to the point where my friends told me i look realy sad / anyway share your stories if you feel like and have a good night everyone

love isn’t real.. you either breakup, get a divorce, or your significant other dies and you’re depressed forever, or even worse.. repeat the cycle. Submitted April 26, 2019 at 02:31AM love isn’t real.. you either breakup, get a divorce, or your significant other dies and you’re depressed forever, or even worse.. repeat the cycle.

What really is love? How do you know when you love someone? What’s something you’ve done that made you think “gosh I really love them”? How soon can one fall in love? Do you believe in love at first sight? P.s. I’m aware that love is choosing someone everyday but, outside of that what really is love? How do you know it’s love and not infatuation, enamoring or lust? Submitted April 26, 2019 at 02:54AM What really is love? How do you know when you love someone? What’s something you’ve done that made you think “gosh I really love them”? How soon can one fall in love? Do you believe in love at first sight?P.s. I’m aware that love is choosing someone everyday but, outside of that what really is love?How do you know it’s love and not infatuation, enamoring or lust?

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After so many ups and downs, push and pull, I finally landed a girl of my dream. I wish and will always stay true and loyal to her. Guys I actually managed to not only breakthrough the friend zone but a worst one; brother zone 🤣🤣. The tip is to never give, be yourself and never hide or fabricate any stories for her validation. Peace!! Submitted April 26, 2019 at 04:49AM After so many ups and downs, push and pull, I finally landed a girl of my dream. I wish and will always stay true and loyal to her.Guys I actually managed to not only breakthrough the friend zone but a worst one; brother zone 🤣🤣. The tip is to never give, be yourself and never hide or fabricate any stories for her validation.Peace!!

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The idea is you use their answer as the destination b'c it's most likely on their list of a good place to go. ​ But she said "give me a hint" so i replied with "it's cool and sexy, great drinks!" ​ She responds with "I don't know that I've been anywhere here that I'd classify as sexy.. tell me!" ​ So I had to totally come clean with my moves b'c it was building into something ridiculous. Date is still on. I'm scouring yelp. Submitted April 24, 2019 at 05:43PM The idea is you use their answer as the destination b'c it's most likely on their list of a good place to go.​But she said "give me a hint"so i replied with "it's cool and sexy, great drinks!"​She responds with "I don't know that I've been anywhere here that I'd classify as sexy.. tell me!"​So I had to totally come clean with my moves b'c it was building into something ridiculous. Date is still on. ...

So, as the title states: it's date 3 and haven't kissed. We talked on FB for over 6+ months and finally this weekend I was like, dude lets get coffee! So we did and totally hit it off. Sunday he came over and we did Easter eggs. Well, drunk Eviltemptriss invited him over to make dinner and sleep over, why? Uggh i'm such a hornball. Ok, he also doesn't drink. So, he's coming over tonight for tortellini's and a veggie and I think I'll pick up some bread... I haven't cooked for anyone in a long time and freaking out will that be enough? Where do people eat on a date at home? Like at the table or in front of a TV watching Netflix? Like should we do a peck when we first see each other? Since it's a sleep over, does that mean sex will happen, should I prepare? Should I buy condoms? How do I know what size? Will I look like a slut? Is there a variety pack of sized condoms out there; like tampon sizes? Small, Medium, large, Super Size me? OMG I'...

Tell me some good news. Tell me about your happy place. Tell about some good things in things your life. Big or small, dating related or not, we want to celebrate the good times today! Submitted April 25, 2019 at 11:11AM Tell me some good news. Tell me about your happy place. Tell about some good things in things your life.Big or small, dating related or not, we want to celebrate the good times today!

Hey Guys, looking for some advice here. I connected with this girl online on a dating app last week and we immediately hit it off. She was the one who asked me out while we were chatting, we set up a date for the following day. It went really well and I enjoyed myself and I think she enjoyed it too, because she had told me she had to leave at a certain hour but she stayed over half an hour after she was supposed to leave and she even let her friends know that she would be late. She asked for my number at the end of the date and texted me like 20 minutes after we said goodbye to tell me she had a nice time. Following day we talked a bit more I asked her out again and she agreed. I went on my business during the day and she wished me good night unprompted before some plans she had with friends. Couple of days later we went for dinner. Date also went really well and we talked about more deep and intimate stuff. It went for around 3 hours and we completely lost track of time. We hugged e...

Hello guys, I need advice from you guys you wise people. I have been seeing this guy for 2 months, we came in strong, had crazy sex, talked for hours, the connection is there both physical and intellectual. He is a highly intelligent person, really hot, smart, popular, artistic, and overall a wonderful person. He met me at the point I was just a server and going to night classes, while he is an established social figure, rich, and have everything, but he has never made me felt I’m any less than him. He supported me thru me going to interviews and just now grabbed the job of my dream. Everything was great, from talking everyday, him taking me to romantic dinner, meeting his friends, come home and have hours sex, and then it starts fading out, since last two weeks. It is also the high season of his business while he works like an animal for 13, 14 hours/day and come home at 12am. He still checked in here and there but doesn’t message back right away anymore, and the last two times I m...

I am about to go on a second date with a man I rejected after the first date. He continued to pursue me for the past few weeks, so now I'm giving it another shot. ​ It got me thinking. I've been in 3 relationships, and two of them were with guys I'd initially rejected after 1-2 dates, and the third relationship was with someone who THOUGHT I wasn't into him at first. ​ Meanwhile, my brother is now married to a woman who kept rejecting him for a long time. ​ Do people really just value what they can't (initially) have? Should I expect to end up with someone I've said "no" to early on? Maybe those are the guys who REALLY like me... or those are the guys who get inspired to chase as a result of my resistance? When I actually show interest in people in the first month of dating them, they disappear. ​ Note: The past boyfriends were not below my league; I just happened not to be into them or available for a relationship when I first met them. In on...

Hello i’m new to reddit, needed some advice about my family. My family consist of mother, father, and three siblings. i am the middle child. my family is not exactly wealthy and friendly, but i work my ass off until i finally able to find a stable job abroad, living alone. The problem is my little brother seems to adore my way off life (im not even had good relationship with any off them) and he work his ass getting to go to same college as i attend. he got good grades and i honestly afraid if he got into my workplace. my mom keep asking me where did i found my job etc and now they got my company name because last time im tired they playing the victim. i really don’t want my brother who supported by my mom to get near me at all. first, his adoration is creppy and second, he doesn’t have any good personality except smart as far as i know. also i am really tired he keep copying me (my parents didn’t trust me etc at first also gender issues while he got example so his path is way smoot...

I just got out of a huge fight with my girlfriend that ended pretty poorly. She's on her period and she left her used pad next to the toilet. I asked her if, moving forward, she could try to throw them away. She got mad at me and said I made her feel like I thought she was gross for asking. She made me sound like I was one of those douchy boyfriends who gets super grossed out by anything and everything related to periods. She said if I was a girl, we wouldn't be having this conversation, I would have just thrown it out for her, and that the only reason I didn't is because I've been societally conditioned to think periods are disgusting. I just don't think this is fair at all. I'm trying so hard to see eye to eye with her on this one and I'm just failing to do so. I didn't ask her rudely, I never said anything about how grossed out I was, and besides I'm not grossed out by periods but leaving them around just seems unsanitary. Is there something I...

Hi there Reddit! I (20F) recently entered a new relationship (a month ago) with a good friend of mine (21 Male) and it's been amazing so far. We connect on every level, we communicate and we make time for each other! But I don't feel like it's like my previous relationships... I mean, of course it's not because he's not like any of the other men I have dated but it's just that in my previous relationships I have felt stressed and obsessive in the way that my mind was constantly on them and all I could think of was how I could please them or get them to like me enough to treat me the way I wanted ie more committed to me.. I've dated a few shit bags so that's on me but with my partner I feel warm and comfortable and I never worry or want anything more from him and I know he loves me and I him and it's just so easy.. It's perfect but I'm kinda thrown off by these new feelings of warmth and comfort in this relationship because it's not what ...

So, this is a throwaway account, obviously by my name, so can talk about this. Me and my partner have been dating for a while now but I've felt like things have been changing. It could be because finals. It could be because we're at different parts of the our lives but I'll still give some context. We've been stressed out about a lot. I'm, quite honestly, jealous of them. I don't have a car (I have a 2 hour commute on transit, might I add), they do. I'm not always talkative, they are. I'm not staying with my parents (notably because my father passed when I was young and my mom is on disability and relying on me), they are. I don't have a huge circle of friends, they do. They don't have to pay significant bills, I do. I don't really have a support group, they do. I don't have a super reliable job, they do. Ect. I don't really have anything over them other than that I'm taller and my mental state is a little more stable. On the ...

In the beginning (we've dated 5 months now), it just kind of happened naturally, just like every other relationship I ever had.... date, a drink or two, go home, make out, sex. Recently, I got kind of frustrated whenever she pushed me away after we made out. So I finally asked her what was up. She said "oh, I didn't know you wanted to have sex! you have to TELL me", followed by us.. having great sex. So I tried to make out with her and then... touch her neck/legs/etc and work my way there. ONCE I start doing this, she pushes my hand away and says it tickles. ONCE AGAIN, honestly, this seemed to me like such a clear sign she didn't want to have sex. So I ask "look, do you not want to have sex with me anymore? if that's the case, I won't try to initiate, and we need to have a discussion" AND AGAIN, right after that, she said "oh no, that's not it at all, it really did tickle, let's fuck!" and then... we have great sex again.....

The title is pretty self explanatory but let me delve more into the details. My friend, was in a relationship for almost 2 years until her and her boyfriend broke up at the beginning of last month. We’ve known each other since before our first year of high school and now we are both at separate colleges in different states. Since college started we talk over Skype regularly, at least once a week, and she’s the only one of my high school friends I actually Skype and that is also true the other way around, except for her I’m the only friend from high school she even texts — let alone Skype. She is definitely my closest friend and confidant and I trust her more than almost anyone else outside my family. I’ve had feelings for her in the past but those were only for a little while about a year after we became friends and I ended up moving on and dating someone else, so I assumed I was over her completely and hadn’t had feelings for her since — in fact I even helped set her and her last b...

Hello Reddit. First I am sorry if English is bad. I've been talking to this girl for 8 months and it's been 2 months we're dating. I think about her all day and I love her. We don't spend much time together (about once a week) because we live a bit far from each other (30minutes drive and until last week I didn't have a car) and I'm really often far away especially during the winter. We text everyday, pretty much all day. We both complained about the fact that we don't see each other very often because of my sport (I am very often far from home during winter). Last month (in March), she told me that she wasn't enjoying this relationship as it was because she'd like to see me more often. I totally understand this and I feel the same. She asked if it was worth it to continue dating or if we should break up, and maybe start again later. I told her that things could change next month (in April, so now) since I would be able to drive my own car and it ...

We met in November 2018 and everything was going so well up until recently. For example, back in February we had a great weekend where we went hiking one of the days and after that she even said that she missed me during the week. Recently though she's put a lot of distance between us. Basically she's been ignoring my texts a lot and we haven't seen each other much this month. I tried to be as chill as I could about it because she did come back to me and check with me and stuff but eventually I has to ask what was going on. I said that I'm feeling some distance between us at the moment and I want to resolve any issues there might be because I really care about her and the relationship. She said that she also felt that she has been putting distance between us recently but that she wanted to sit with it and to see why (not sure what that means), but that she pushed it too far. She said she really cares about me too and she's been acting badly recently. She asked what...

Can’t be assed to use a throwaway, I’m so upset. Been dating my bf for almost half a year. Tonight, we were on my couch watching TV. My cat is a bit of a nutjob, but I love her. Truthfully, she acts like a dog. My boyfriend and I both had our legs up on the long side of the couch. My cat comes to us and starts playing with him by putting her paws on his leg. He then takes one leg off the couch and KICKS my cat away with his foot so she can back off. It wasn’t a hard kick - but enough to bother me. I don’t say anything. It happens a second time - this time I’m sure I didn’t mistakenly see what happened. At this point, I still didn’t say anything (I know), but I withdrew and stopped cuddling. My cat came up to us and laid down on me. He reached over 3 times to pet her and she let out a nasty meow each time. I’m fucking livid. I don’t know if I’m overreacting, but this is grounds for me to end the relationship. I dont know what to make of this. I really don’t, I’m shocked at this beha...

Okay, this may require some background. My wife is American, I'm just a GC holder, even though I've lived here for almost 25 years. She is coming up on 3 months pregnant, we don't really argue, we actually get along great and I have no complaints, except today. Anyway, my country of origin, until 2010ish, required that every male over the age of 18 complete mandatory military service. Even though I lived abroad, I got called (not uncommon) and I served (somewhat uncommon for people living abroad). This was while we were together, and even though it was hard, we worked through it. Since then, we have gone to visit my home country many times. She knows I feel strongly toward it (I am a patriot, realistically speaking). My wife is, mixed ethnicity to say the least. She's part European, part South Asian, part East Asian. She has no attachement to any country, it's really beyond her. Another thing to note is that, in spite of me having lived in the US for so long, I ...

I have never had any sort of feelings or history for her roommate. It’s just a little hard for me to see where she is coming from and I want to know if I am being insensitive or if she’s being jealous and doesn’t want to admit it. It would be much easier to understand where she was coming from IF her roommate didn’t have a boyfriend in the very same band. This could very well jeopardize the relationship and I don’t think it’s fair to just quit the band because I enjoy it very much. TL;DR: Girlfriend feels very weird about being in a band with her roommate who has a boyfriend in said band. Weird or not? Jealous or insensitive? Submitted April 26, 2019 at 06:17AM I have never had any sort of feelings or history for her roommate. It’s just a little hard for me to see where she is coming from and I want to know if I am being insensitive or if she’s being jealous and doesn’t want to admit it. It would be much easier to understand where she was coming from IF her roommate didn’t have...

Tl;dr meet a girl on tinder Sunday. She got attached and I'm not try to get into a relationship just before summer break. She's hurt and I feel bad So I've been talking to this girl from tinder for like 5-6 days. Everything was going smooth then she started getting attached and asked if I wanted more. I'm leaving town and traveling 6 states away in 20 days so told her now wasn't the best time. Since then she's been posting depressing relationship shit on her snap story and started talking about long distance. I haven't even meet her in person. I feel awful because she's hurting but I can see going into a 3 month long distance relationship with someone I meet Sunday. Submitted April 26, 2019 at 06:18AM Tl;dr meet a girl on tinder Sunday. She got attached and I'm not try to get into a relationship just before summer break. She's hurt and I feel badSo I've been talking to this girl from tinder for like 5-6 days. Everything was going sm...

Hello, would really appreciate input on this. I'll be objective as possible, and start with the good. TL;DR: While I make time to spend with her, she feels we need do be spending more when we see each other on weeknights. When I go do my own thing for an hour (video games, TV, etc.) she'll get angry and we'll fight later. I've told her that I need a bit of time alone to wind down every day, but she considers it as me placing it as a priority over her. These fights are tearing at our relationship. The good As a preface, we've been together for just over a year. She's very sweet, affectionate, and loving. She's grateful for little things. She's supportive. I love her personality and playfulness. We have strong chemistry. Our sex life is good. And much more, but right now my mind is on fixing the problem. The bad This is the part that's worrying, because we've been fighting regularly. We've had our share of fights over different things, b...

So I have a pretty unusual background. Until the age of 22, I was a Jehovah's Witness. It's incredibly hard to explain the impact being raised in a high-control religion like that can have on you, but to put it very lightly, I got very good at hiding parts of myself that I felt others disapproved of or didn't understand as a result. Now, I'm four years out of the religion, and have started dating for the first time. This is an incredibly huge step for me, since I've always felt fairly constricted in any kind of close personal relationship. The guy I'm seeing is really great, and not judgmental at all, but I still find myself cutting away parts of myself for the relationship and feel like I can't fully be myself. I really think this is more of an issue on my end than his, but I still don't know how to work to change it. If you've ever been in a similar situation and had trouble feeling like you could be yourself in the context of a certain relation...

Originally posted on r/confessions but was redirected here. It’s late and I’m in my head again. I still can’t stop thinking about him. I almost messaged him. But didn’t. Full disclosure: these are emotions I've been burying for a few months and finally done finals and got wine drunk and high. ​ I was seeing a guy for maybe a month. And we only saw each other on Tuesdays, since he works and I'm a full-time student. ​ I'll go from the start... We met because of sports (he tried out for my team). We had flirted over chat, sent pics, so when he asked me over - I went over and thought it was just a ONS. But then he asked me over again... and I said okay. And both nights we started off on the couch, just talking, work our way onto the bed, and end up having sex... But since we'd be done around 4am, he offered to let me stay until it was bright out. I told myself: this is nice, because it's dark and obviously I'm a young lady - he's just being a nice person....

We were both in long-term relationships until a couple of months ago. My ex had cheated on me. And his ex left him out of nowhere. Anyway, we’ve pretty much always been good friends. But now that we’re single, people at work are always making jokes about us and saying that we’re secretly in love and it’s all very high school. At first it was kind of funny I guess, but now it’s just annoying. I feel like I can’t speak to him at all without people giving us eyes like we’re fucking in the middle of the office. It’s very strange. Would it be too much to speak to HR about this? He’s a good friend of mine and I don’t want what everyone is saying to get in the way of our work relationship. It doesn’t bother him as much when people say things, but it does bother me ... only because part of me does actually have a small crush and it’s getting harder to separate that from the work we do together, which to me is most important. What should I do? If there’s some way I can handle this without ...

Hi Reddit, I just woke up to these messages from her(29). A beautiful woman, I (27) got to know for 4 months now. We met once 2 weeks ago and planned back then to meet again. This next meeting would be Next week. I really like her, we were talking each day for hours , literally every day. But 5 days ago she changed. No more texting, talking, sending pictures even ghosting. I can understand what she wrote but on the other side, I would like to meet her again. The last time we met it was amazing. We had so much fun. During period of 4 Month, I went through a really stressful time and she made each day so much better. Knowing being able to talk to her laugh together with her, made me so happy. What shall I do? How shall I reply? I seriously don't know. I don't want to lose her and meet her again. I will be able to talk to her in 8 hours after work. I know this is kinda immature but I really don't know what to do. [25.4., 22:49]Hey. I’m not finished yet with what I am doing b...

I fucked up. I had a friend over and while we were chilling things started to escalate. It eventually ended in a handjob. After she left a wave of guilt hit me and after looking up some articles on what to do if you cheat I decided to just come clean and tell her what happened. So I called her about an hour after it happened and fessed up. Now our relationship is strained. We wanna stay together but we're not sure what to do. I hate myself for what I've done to her and I wanna make it up but I just don't know how. She says she doesn't want to punish me but I feel like I ought to be punished. I've already decided that I'm going to be doing a series of things to try and show that she can trust me (telling her everything I do with meticulous detail, staying away from situations that may present opportunities for infidelity, showing that I want things to work out by going on dates, etc.). I don't want to lose her. I can't lose her. But I fucked up and I don...