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What does it mean when people ask “What do you bring to the table”?

I’ve seen it browsing around sometimes and even referenced in convos IRL. But I’m not entirely sure what the asker would be looking for. For example, someone financially stable, stable job, pays own bills, own place, has own friends, have hobbies etc. But is that bringing something to the table or just exhibiting stability? Would it be more mental/emotional? Like they are self aware or emotionally intelligent for example Or are they simply asking “what can you do for me”? Like can you cook, clean, be my personal support system etc Really just wondering lol Submitted March 29, 2023 at 01:12AM I’ve seen it browsing around sometimes and even referenced in convos IRL. But I’m not entirely sure what the asker would be looking for. For example, someone financially stable, stable job, pays own bills, own place, has own friends, have hobbies etc. But is that bringing something to the table or just exhibiting stability?Would it be more mental/emotional? Like they are self aware or emo...

/u/cecinestpasunpenguin on All small people are asexual

I doubt you have a PhD if you don’t know how statistical probability works. March 29, 2023 at 12:44AM

/u/Main-Ad-2443 on Is anyone else asexual, but wish they weren’t?

Anything related to sex is just gross even seeing some naked is like just why. Yeah i do get hard if it means what i am expecting its okk if its just hugs and cuddle but sex is nope March 29, 2023 at 12:43AM

Dating someone for the first time and its giving me the worst anxiety (18m, high school) advice?

Over my high school years I've flirted with people a couple times but never anything past that, but just last week someone I didn't know that well asked me on a date. Just to lay out myself so it's easier to imagine the situation, I have always had extremelllly bad anxiety and something very bad happened to me earlier this year that only furthered it. I have to give myself some credit though, I'm pretty good at hiding it, but that might've been my downfall. Anyway me and this person went on a movie date, and it was my first ever date, it went pretty well I think. They want to keep talking to me though, and it has been giving me debilitating anxiety since they asked me. I don't really know why honestly, not to get too deep but my father left when I was around 13 so it may have given me some attachment or self worth issues or something, I dunno I'm just trying to find out why I'm like this (Although ive had extreme anxiety ever since I was a little kid, n...

/u/MmNicecream on All small people are asexual

Autism also isn't a mental disorder. March 28, 2023 at 11:25PM