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/u/Due_Recording_6963 on Is sex actually real? Or is it a joke? or a conspiracy theory created by the government ?

2 sex 2 furious November 05, 2022 at 01:21AM

I am 14, and I have not talked to a women since grade 8- mid grade 9 . Is that normal?

(im grade 9) Submitted November 05, 2022 at 01:06AM (im grade 9)

/u/Vannah272 on Am I asexual or autistic?

I'm both. People on the autism spectrum are a bit more likely to be asexual, and it's a full-blown symptom of Schizoid Personality Disorder (which is basically 'loners who like being alone are weird, let's put it in the DSM'). The ace community tends not to like stereotypes of them having mental illnesses, but if you do is that really so bad? If you don't feel sexual attraction because of non-standard brain wiring, you still don't feel sexual attraction. Nothing has changed. November 04, 2022 at 11:55PM

How to be smooth or at least normal during the greeting and good bye phase of a date?

I can manage things once we get locked in to talking, but for some reason I seem to suck at greeting / good bye parts of a date. I know its pretty straight forward, but can anyone explicitly give an example of what a somewhat normal interaction should be at the very beginning and end of a date? I feel like I rush it a bit and need to be a bit slower/natural in saying hello / good bye (and no I dont literally mean the words lol) Lmao Submitted November 05, 2022 at 12:08AM I can manage things once we get locked in to talking, but for some reason I seem to suck at greeting / good bye parts of a date.I know its pretty straight forward, but can anyone explicitly give an example of what a somewhat normal interaction should be at the very beginning and end of a date?I feel like I rush it a bit and need to be a bit slower/natural in saying hello / good bye (and no I dont literally mean the words lol)Lmao

I’m afraid my insecurities will soon lead to the ending of my relationship

Hello, so I (18f) have been dating my (18m) boyfriend for a year and I'm so happy with him, he's the sweetest, loving, caring, and best boyfriend which makes this even harder to admit. When me and him first started talking he informed me that he was in a three year relationship five months before we met but assured me that he had moved on and she didn't mean anything to him anymore. Despite being told by many friends that he probably still had feelings for her I really liked him and we started dating a couple months later and at first it was the best he complimented me (and still does) everyday and I've never felt more loved and wanted. However two months into our relationship he told me his ex had called telling him that she was mentally ill and just needed someone to talk to, however during that conversation she mentioned still being in love with him and wanting him back. He immediately shut her down but told her he would be there for her. I felt very uncomfortable w...

My very first post here but was I wrong...

This is my first time ever posting but i guess some part of me wanted to vent while a majority part of me wanted to know But ive been with this girl for some time now. Everything i could do for her i have tried and I ain't perfect( far from it since ive had my fair share of deviating) I think of myself asan patient person and I am someone who basically goes with the energy of the room, but i can be pretty quiet about my feelings since I was born and raised by old school. First 2 years of the relationship was pretty good to the point it was even great id say. The love and affection was all there. Mind the fact that that our love language is similar but hers is that of word of affirmation on top of our similarity when it comes to physical touch. Fast forward 2 years into relationships these things become less and less. Which at first I didn't mind because she gets bad panic attacks and I try to be as supportive possible even tho my knowledge on it is very little, I tried to do r...