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/u/powlfnd on Questioning my asexuality and would like some help

If you're 14 and nothing you're looking at is literally illegal (and I mean actual illegal images of real people, not like dark written works) I wouldn't worry too much about being 'addicted' to explicit content. It's normal to be horny at that age, it's the hormones. So long as you bear in mind that explicit content is fictional and relationships with other people are real and you shouldn't treat real relationships like the plot of explicit content it's fine to indulge. Explicit content and standard romantic content is a safe way of exploring your boundaries and what feels right to you, and then when you're more confident you can try and explore that with real people. You don't need to tie yourself down to one label for your entire life. Sexuality is a social construct, meaning it only exists in the confines of the society in which we live. That means there isn't one good and true label that fits all of a certain kind of person all t...

/u/Destroyer_Lawyer on Friend's therapist said my advice on romance was less productive because my brain works differently from allo people (rant)

Sounds like the “therapist” thinks the only relationships that exist are sexual ones and that asexual people don’t have relationships and/or don’t have sex. This is BS. November 04, 2023 at 11:10PM