Shoot your shot, life is too short! Good luck ✨ November 20, 2019 at 12:16AM

Well, you did the right thing. Sometimes we feel bad for leaving someone, like it's our fault, or we are being the villain and the poor innocent guy just needed a chance. I guess guilt is part of being a woman raised by women that were taught to "keep their man happy and well fed". But it's not your fault or anything. You need to do what's best for you. You deserve someone you can trust. November 20, 2019 at 12:15AM

You're right now that I think about it. 🙀 November 20, 2019 at 12:14AM

Don't blame yourself for that. I see it because I'm outside of it, but also because I deal with monsters for a living (am cop; work Homicide). What your ex chose to do is only one person's fault -- his. Any normal person would have given up, not verbally battered you into allowing infidelity, then stalked his next sexual interest. November 20, 2019 at 12:12AM

So I (M, 27) have a teenage like crush on my French teacher (F, 27) and I'm not sure how to proceed. I recently started group based French lessons and since the first lesson I started to get a bit of a crush on her and it has built up over time. We live in the same neighbourhood and frequent the same coffee shop. We run into each other so often that we now sit at the same table together and talk between periods of working at our laptops. We have some pretty deep conversations with a bit of flirting and not once has she mentioned a SO. I'm ussally very confident and straight forward when asking someone out on a date, but this situation has got me a little perplexed. I'm unwilling make any advances while she's still my French teacher, out of both fear of rejection and fear that that she was only being nice due to her position. Early next year starts the new semester. This means I will have a different teacher. Part of me wants to ask her out when I next see her (outsid...

She’s going through a lot of personal growth, dealing with life situations, some of which I’ve encountered in my own time. She told me she needed a friend more than anything, I’ve been doing my best to be just that, being the listening ear, the advice when she needs it, the one that brings up different topics to keep her mind at ease when she needs to think about other things, sending her music when she needs to free her mind from her thoughts, making the corny joke to hopefully get a smile that’s only born out of pity for my stale humour. I want her to deal with the situations she feels need priority, I can’t find it in myself to throw my name into the mix and act like I’m more important than her own struggles. She knows I want her, I truly believe a part of her wants me too, she’s hesitant to open up to me about the idea of us, and I don’t blame her for being apprehensive in a world where people take advantage of the emotionally vulnerable. I want her to be happy on her own befor...

I've decided to take a break from dating over the holidays, and come back to it in the new year. For anyone who has done this, how do you go about it? I know Bumble has an option where you can put an 'away' up indefinitely. Tinder has something similar where you can 'remove yourself' from the stack so no one sees your profile. Hinge doesn't offer any of those. Is it better to freeze everything, or should I delete and start all over fresh when I feel up to coming back? Submitted November 20, 2019 at 12:06AM I've decided to take a break from dating over the holidays, and come back to it in the new year. For anyone who has done this, how do you go about it? I know Bumble has an option where you can put an 'away' up indefinitely. Tinder has something similar where you can 'remove yourself' from the stack so no one sees your profile. Hinge doesn't offer any of those.Is it better to freeze everything, or should I delete and start all ov...

Long story short. I met a girl on the subway last night.I thought she was cute so I went to talk to her.On our wat home,we started talking about our studies, hobbies etc.And I could see that she was into the conversation.Eventually I asked if any buses were available during this time (it was midnight) because I wanted to get home.She said she didn't know because she was new in town,and asked if I lived close.I described where I was living,and to my big surprise she said she lives on the road parallel to mine. So we continued to talk until it was time to separate.I asked if she was on Instagram,she immediately said yes and told me her username.I thanked her and we went our ways. Today morning I messaged her to see how she was,and that's where the problem began.Her responses where short,cold and 2 hours late the least.I don't know what I did wrong.After a while I decided I had enough so I ended the conversation.Any thoughts? And sorry if my English is bad, I'm Greek....

So I'm a black Male(20y) I've been in two interracial relationships in the past(happily in one now) where me and the girl hit it off only to find out a couple of months later after many major red flags, that the sole reason they got with me is that they have jungle fever. She admitted that the sole reason she dated me is because my skin is a fetish in to her and wasnt dating me for me. Submitted November 20, 2019 at 12:10AM So I'm a black Male(20y) I've been in two interracial relationships in the past(happily in one now) where me and the girl hit it off only to find out a couple of months later after many major red flags, that the sole reason they got with me is that they have jungle fever. She admitted that the sole reason she dated me is because my skin is a fetish in to her and wasnt dating me for me.

Having a roller-coaster of aa time with this girl I was seeing and would really like a woman's perspective here. We went on 6 dates in total but it went slow, much slower than I'm used to. She is an introverted French girl who I find much harder to read, usually I am quite confident in kissing a girl on the first date and having a great time understanding her emotions. Here, I didn't find a good moment to kiss her passionately as she didn't seem to give me signals and constantly looked around the room for dates 1 to 3. My mistake I suppose I should have taken lead more here but Elsewise the dates went well and she texted me after each one saying she had a great time and always scheduled a date for the following week. Finally, on 4th date we held hands and ended the night with a long hug and a light kiss on the lips twice initiated by her. Though 5 date it went downhill a bit. Bwteeen 4th and 5th she was slower to get back to arranging the next date, we went to a re...

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Two years ago, I found out that my wife is unable to have children because of a disease she had when she was young. This is my first marriage, so I haven't really thought about kids before and I didn't want my wife to feel bad, so I told her I was ok with that. But this year, I have started to feel depressed about it. We're in our mid 30's so the majority of my friends/coworkers have kids and invite us to their baby showers, kids parties, etc and I'm feeling like I'm missing out on something special. My wife and I also talked about adoption, which I am for, but she isn't. She doesn't know how she would feel taking care of a child that isn't hers. I feel she rather be childless. Seeing my friends and their kids is nice, but it's giving me regret seeing them together and growing. Also, family/friends constantly asking us when will we be having kids is getting more and more frustrating. I suppose if I had more single friends, I probably won't...

I grew up with parents that would fight from time to time in front of us. They weren't productive, healthy fights. Now, my husband and I have an infant and it's been joyful but stressful. I am ashamed that we had a full on argument with raised voices and swearing in front of the baby. I asked him to walk away and not do that but he took that as interrupting and things escalated from there. I'm not sure if he's really sorry because he says he wouldn't have gotten loud if I just let him talk. I'm trying to work it out, not only for our sake, but because our baby deserves so much better. Have you ever fought in front of your kids? Submitted November 19, 2019 at 11:36PM I grew up with parents that would fight from time to time in front of us. They weren't productive, healthy fights. Now, my husband and I have an infant and it's been joyful but stressful. I am ashamed that we had a full on argument with raised voices and swearing in front of the baby....

If only the card was an ace November 20, 2019 at 12:02AM

I think it was too. And I couldn't see it. November 19, 2019 at 11:57PM