Yeah, i identify way more with the A-spec community than I do the LGBTQ community. We are fundamentally different than most other labels(with the complete or near complete lack of sexual attraction rather than attraction based on gender) a sexual minority group. As for the comments, there is no way to avoid them. they are literally discriminating against us for doing nothing, they are beyond help. December 13, 2023 at 11:03PM

I don't, but I don't begrudge other ace or aro spec folks from wanting to. I just think my experiences with my own asexuality are not in any way comparable to those of other queer identities. December 13, 2023 at 11:02PM

call me a fast food meal the way i'm so unbalanced 😩 December 13, 2023 at 10:59PM

Being wrongly gendered and expected to want sex, whether with specific people or not, were both traumatic. But go on telling people they don’t exist if they’re not just like you in your specific situation. December 13, 2023 at 10:53PM