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MRW they think I’m curving them when I’m actually busy

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Going out on real first date with a girl later. Any advice to keep the conversation playful and not awkward?

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Should I just move on and be done or keep trying?

I’ve (24F) been dating someone (31M) since end of March. He has his own business which occupies most of his time. We’ve been on a few dates but lately he has been super busy, too busy for me. He will make plans with me and then the day of, he will call me, apologizing and explaining why he has to cancel. I’m just about done. Last week we planned to go out this week to celebrate his birthday. He told me he would get back to me and let me know what day he would be available. Now it’s Wednesday and I haven’t even heard from him at all. Should I reach out to him and see what’s up or should I just forget about him and move on since clearly he is too busy for me TL;DR dating someone who is too busy for me. Should I just move on? Submitted June 19, 2019 at 11:58PM I’ve (24F) been dating someone (31M) since end of March. He has his own business which occupies most of his time. We’ve been on a few dates but lately he has been super busy, too busy for me. He will make plans with me and

First date idea: wine at a park. Thoughts?

Would be cheap but is it ideal? Trying to change my first date routine from drinks at a bar to something new. I don’t drink coffee. Submitted June 20, 2019 at 12:01AM Would be cheap but is it ideal? Trying to change my first date routine from drinks at a bar to something new. I don’t drink coffee.

Are you opposed to kissing a woman who's wearing lipstick?

Is that something that would make you reluctant about it? I'm genuinely curious, although I don't think a general consensus would prevent me from wearing it, especially if it's smear-proof. Submitted June 20, 2019 at 12:03AM Is that something that would make you reluctant about it?I'm genuinely curious, although I don't think a general consensus would prevent me from wearing it, especially if it's smear-proof.

When Women Post Their Dating Woes, The Majority Of Comments Are Along The Lines Of "Don't Worry You'll Find Someone" When Men Post Their Dating Woes, The Majority Of Comments Are Along The Lines Of "Work On Yourself"

Anybody else notice this? When a woman posts about her dating struggles, the majority of comments are from people reassuring her that she will find someone great and special, and that she shoudn't worry because someday, a guy will appear in her life. When a man posts about his dating struggles, the majority of comments are from people telling you that you're doing something wrong and that you need to work on yourself. Just lift bro... Submitted June 20, 2019 at 12:12AM Anybody else notice this?When a woman posts about her dating struggles, the majority of comments are from people reassuring her that she will find someone great and special, and that she shoudn't worry because someday, a guy will appear in her life.When a man posts about his dating struggles, the majority of comments are from people telling you that you're doing something wrong and that you need to work on yourself. Just lift bro...

Need help/advice: Is Tinder Verify a real thing?

Hello. I just downloaded tinder for the first time today and somebody I matched with asked me to use a service to verify I am safe to meet. The site she gave was 'tinderdateme.com' but it redirected to 'daterverify.com'. The site asks for a credit card number to run a background check. This seems like a scam to me but does anybody know something about this? I appreciate any help you can give. Submitted June 20, 2019 at 12:13AM Hello. I just downloaded tinder for the first time today and somebody I matched with asked me to use a service to verify I am safe to meet. The site she gave was 'tinderdateme.com' but it redirected to 'daterverify.com'.The site asks for a credit card number to run a background check. This seems like a scam to me but does anybody know something about this? I appreciate any help you can give.

Is he (30M) just not that into me (24F)?

Since I was a kid, my dad hammered it into my head that if a dude wants to hang out with me, he’ll make an effort to hang out with me. And if not, I should move on. Easy in theory, hard as shit in practice. It seems to apply here but I just want to get a second opinion before bolting. I met this guy thru a mutual friend. Not interested romantically/sexually at first, but after hanging out a few times, we ended up developing a friendship over Snapchat. We currently have a pretty long streak (about 70 days of talking every day) which Snapchat keeps track of. Somewhere along the way it became a bit more flirty/I got those... butterfly things when his name popped on my screen. He seemed really into the flirting and eventually about 2 weeks ago we ended up in his bed (no sex). Sexual tension was high the week after and every night we’d end up flirting/borderline sexting. Finally last night we sealed the deal. It was slightly awkward; I was too sober, and first times can be a bit awk. But

Guy I met on a dating app found my full name - is it creepy ?

I (25F) have literally zero dating experience so IDK what to think of this situation.. I met this guy (29M) on a dating app. We haven't met in person yet but we've been texting for about 2 weeks. I have pretty bad social anxiety so that's a big part of us not having met yet (also I just moved to a new place and have been quite busy) but he's been VERY understanding and patient with me. We've talked a lot and shared a lot and I've really enjoyed our talks. I never told him my last name but today he called me by my full name. Basically it was not hard to find it through facebook/linkedin/whatever because I did tell him about the business I work for (not the name but what our business does and it's not a very common thing) and he knows the city I live in and obviously my first name. I know it's quite easy to 'find' me. If I was hiding or something I wouldn't have told some of the information that I did tell him. But I'm still really creepe

/u/discipula26 on Why does acephobia exist ?

Have you heard the one where we’re all actually gay but have internalized homophobia? And that we’re oppressing the LGBT community by valuing non-sexual relationships. Or something... 🤦‍♀️ June 20, 2019 at 12:18AM

/u/frustr8tion on This annoyed me, am I right to be annoyed?

A pretty close one. But yeah. Maybe I'm polyromantic... June 20, 2019 at 12:12AM

Stolen from Facebook, where the nice guys flourish.

http://bit.ly/2L0xgX3 Submitted June 19, 2019 at 11:38PM http://bit.ly/2L0xgX3

First date... told him I didn’t think it was going to go anywhere, offered to split the bill, wished him the best- in which he replied “sit the f*ck down and be a good little asian girl”. Then he sends this. Guess he doesn’t take rejection well?

http://bit.ly/2FkMDWS Submitted June 19, 2019 at 11:58PM http://bit.ly/2FkMDWS

Hey you

When we first became friends, you were going through a rough patch, grieving over the death of your mother. And although I barely knew you, and although I was with someone else, I just wanted to be there for you and give you my love. You were that good kid that didn't mess around with girls, and never got into any trouble. You're what they call a "good boy". You knew he wasn't treating me right, and you were always there as my backbone, holding me up, when you were the one who needed stability. Only a few months later, I left something toxic, and a month after that, realized it was you I wanted to give all my love to, it was you I wanted to give my life to. And when you said you liked me, well damn that took me by surprise. Baby, the past year and a half, all you've done was treat me with love, respect, brought me light on my darkest days, made me laugh when I didn't feel like laughing at all. And for that, I owe you the world. I want to grow old with you

Is There Such a Thing As Too Many Women?

When I go out to a busy bar or club, I'm sometimes approached by as many as a dozen women. Sometimes, I'll have up to two dozen women show clear signs of interest, especially by staring for a prolonged period of time. Most of the approaches are non-verbal, with girls grinding on me or leaning on me to approach. Sometimes they'll approach in a group and simply form a semi circle around me. Approximately 90% at minimum are attractive, probably half are hot/very attractive. I often feel confused as to which girl or girls to pick. I often feel like I'm spread too thin. It's a good problem to have but I always feel like if I commit to one girl there are maybe a dozen more waiting in the wings that very night. Submitted June 19, 2019 at 11:57PM When I go out to a busy bar or club, I'm sometimes approached by as many as a dozen women. Sometimes, I'll have up to two dozen women show clear signs of interest, especially by staring for a prolonged period of tim

Race and dating

Is it me or do women in the south have the weirdest standards in that any sexually aggressive and mildy attractive white guy with Daniel Tosh comedy lines can pick someone up and you basically have to be an NFL/NBA prospect/Drug dealer to even be considered a shot if you're black? What the fuck is so attractive about cheesy pickup lines and middle school innuendos over wanting to have a conversation. Ex: I tried talking to this super friendly christian girl who only dated white guys and swore shed only have sex after marriage who lost her virginity proudly to some dude she matched on Tinder. What do women want because clearly looks arent enough coming from me. Id say the biggest dissapointmen kniwing you have a decent personality, morals, an 8 inch dick whos great at sex and enjoys it, but cant get laid let alone meet any women unless she's an overweight 3-4/10. tl;dr: What do women in this generation want or are looking for so I can find a decent relationship or at least get

/u/MusingsMuses on I feel as if I am a fake ace?

Sex-repulsion is just one part of a broad Asexual definition. You don't need to hate sex, you just need to lack a feeling of physical/sexual attraction to others. If you've never have a feeling of "oh god I WISH I could have sex with them" You're on the spectrum of Asexual. But as others have stated you could be Demisexual where you only find yourself attracted to people you form an emotional bond with. Either way, there's no Asexuality police coming to break down your door if you later find out you aren't ace. You feel you're ace now so there's no need to feel bad for identifying that way. June 20, 2019 at 12:09AM

/u/uploadFeelsEXE on This annoyed me, am I right to be annoyed?

Imagine a completely normal relationship between two people. Now remove the need for sex. That's it, that's the only difference. Would you call that a platonic friendship? June 20, 2019 at 12:08AM

/u/praysolace on Do other people just go around feeling sexually attracted to random people? Like co-workers, store clerks, people in a bar? I have never experienced that and I'm quite shook.

Work on your resting bitch face! I lost the weight and people still don’t look at me with anything but fear or vague discomfort! June 20, 2019 at 12:04AM

/u/zechyboi on I was just on Instagram and saw this

Exclus:Go make your own community Us: okay Exclus: invades the community and ruins it Exclus: hey why don’t you go into your community Us: [confused will smith meme] June 20, 2019 at 12:04AM

/u/Reptorian on Why does acephobia exist ?

Because fuck logic. Do I need to explain? June 20, 2019 at 12:03AM

/u/Screeboe on Mods are asleep, time for garlic bread 😻 🖤

Why do the mods have to be asleep for garlic bread time? Can't we share it with them? June 20, 2019 at 12:01AM

/u/Im_a_simple_turtle on Mods are asleep, time for garlic bread 😻 🖤

You better share that June 19, 2019 at 11:58PM