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Should I date my coworker who has a lot of red flags?

I (26M) have had a crush on my coworker(25F) for months. She’s quiet and a bit mysterious and loner. I finally asked her out and ended up spending the night with her. Best I’ve ever had by far. I’m still having flashbacks of it all. She also told me all about her life. She told me about how she cheated on her ex and fought with her siblings and won’t call her dad and how her college friends hate her and how she does risky things for fun. Way too many red flags but she was horrifyingly honest about it and surprisingly, I don’t feel repulsed or like running away. I’m confused as my friends say she sounds like bad news but I’m attracted to her even more after last night. Should I ask her on another date or act like it never happened when I see her at work tomorrow? Submitted May 23, 2022 at 01:14AM I (26M) have had a crush on my coworker(25F) for months. She’s quiet and a bit mysterious and loner. I finally asked her out and ended up spending the night with her. Best I’ve ever had ...

/u/Madmonkeman on This happened at my school! A is not ally ;)

Texas? May 23, 2022 at 12:12AM

/u/CherryVallance on What do y'all beautiful people think of this idea?

Oh, I meant like actual donuts - I have a bad sweet tooth and a weakness for desserts! ☺️ When it comes to sex though I don’t find any of it appetizing or feel any urges. May 23, 2022 at 12:11AM

How to get over someone I never dated?

I was talking to this guy for around 2 months and we hit it off great. At first, he wanted a relationship with me but then suddenly changed his mind and only wanted friends with benefits which I denied since I feel am too inexperienced. He was the best connection I ever had with someone, and it just sucks since all his friends said he really liked me so I just feel super disappointed. It's been over a month since we stopped talking, and I still can't stop thinking about him which is dumb since we never even dated. How do I get over him? Submitted May 23, 2022 at 12:14AM I was talking to this guy for around 2 months and we hit it off great. At first, he wanted a relationship with me but then suddenly changed his mind and only wanted friends with benefits which I denied since I feel am too inexperienced. He was the best connection I ever had with someone, and it just sucks since all his friends said he really liked me so I just feel super disappointed. It's been over a...

I have never been able to have a "real" relationship

Growing up, everyone around me was having their first kisses, dates, relationships and so on... I probably noticed in middle school that this was more apparent. I was never one of these people, I was petrified of everything to do with dating and it took me until I was 15 to start. However, this was an online "relationship" where I had met this 16 year old on kik and we dated for almost a year. It got to the extent that in 2016 I flew to Vegas with my mother, my best friend, and her mother to go meet him. Few months later that had ended. I believe it was about March when I had met someone from another school on tinder and we began dating. He always tried to initiate sexual contact and asked for bjs and so on, yet i was petrified and never did. In April 2016, my brother committed suicide and shortly after the relationship with the guy ended because we didn't see each other enough. A year and a half go by and its senior year. For some reason "the popular guy" was...

/u/Sleepy_Glacier on never understood why virgin was an insult

The standart for women is an obedient little creature that guards her virginity to give it to her husband and the standart for men is a "stud" who is so attractive that he can switch women like gloves and not run out. Both equally disgusting. May 22, 2022 at 11:23PM