Where can good women go to find serious men? Submitted December 07, 2021 at 01:09AM Where can good women go to find serious men?

Long story short, I’m developing a bit of a crush on a nice girl from one of my classes (we’re both 19) after we had a few chats on social media (after I asked if she needed the notes from the class she missed, the convo kinda kept going). This happened last Thursday, and class isn’t until tomorrow afternoon so we haven’t had a chance to speak in person yet. I want to save some good conversation questions for a in person chat, and I want questions that will give her plenty to talk about. We did some basic “get to know you” questions such as hobbies and what not. My main worry is tomorrow just being a quick exchange, tomorrow is the last class outside of the final so I want to make an impression that would lead to us having a reason to talk after the semester ends. I really want to get to know her better, but last thing I want to happen is me getting in my head and missing an opportunity to do so. Tldr - How do Submitted December 07, 2021 at 01:09AM Long story short, I’m develop...

Maybe I’m being selfish. I don't even know anymore. I’ve been with my girlfriend for 7 months now. I’ve been in three relationships before so of course I’ve had experience with kissing. However my current girlfriend has never been in a relationship before.  We were friends for 3 years before we became a couple. Of course when I told her that I liked her and she felt the same way I was ecstatic since she was a really good friend and I was excited to have my best friend as a girlfriend. I knew she wasn’t experienced so she was the first girl I decided to ask beforehand if I could kiss her. She said no because she was nervous. Of course I was understanding I knew it would take a while especially with how shy she is. I’ve only kissed her on the cheek, hand and forehead so far. She seemed okay with that. After 4 months I suggested that I be able to kiss her when I thought would be appropriate and just start off with a peck. She said she’d be okay with that. During the next 2 months we...

Hey fellow redditers, I have been dating this girl for over a month now. She and I met on Hinge and we hit off well. So, we have been on 5 dates now. However, I did google search on her based on what kind of lawyer she is and where she works. I found out that her real name is different and she doesn't even want to tell me her birthday when I casually asked her on our 4th date. She said she liked my profile, because I crave long-term relationship and want to settle down, because that's what she wants. For now, I am just playing along to see when she will reveal her real name, but if she is dating me to find a potential husband, I have a serious doubt that she is serious. What should I do? Ladies of Reddit, have you lied on profile and if you did, when did you reveal your true identity? Submitted December 07, 2021 at 01:14AM Hey fellow redditers,I have been dating this girl for over a month now. She and I met on Hinge and we hit off well. So, we have been on 5 dates...

Omg for me it was intense, fully-clothed cuddling in bed! 🥰 December 06, 2021 at 11:52PM

In my 2nd week of this school year I noticed one of the new teachers had a black ring on her right middle finger. I went to lunch and told my heterosexual friends who said it doesn't mean anything. A few months later we got on the topic of how teachers know the students crushes. I said "Ha! Good luck figuring out mine" my teacher asked what I had meant (at this point I knew she was an ally or queer bc she askes for students pronouns when first meeting them). I said something about me being aroace. My teacher said that she was ace. "I fucking called it". I told her about me noticing her black ring on her right middle finger, and she never mentioned a partner but didn't have a white ring on her left middle finger. She then told me about how she did have a female partner. I'm so fucking happy to have not just a queer teacher, but an ace teacher. December 06, 2021 at 11:42PM

I'm fine, thanks for asking. I actually woke up laughing because of how it confirmed my asexuality for me. And the fact it took place in the film. December 06, 2021 at 11:22PM

Yeah definitely would And yeah I can't imagine doing so either December 06, 2021 at 11:13PM

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Around two weeks ago my gf (21f) suddenly asked me (19m) if I ever thought about getting pegged. I said no and she said that it’s a common male fantasy and that I should give it a try. I said that I’m not interested and I thought that was the end of that. She hasn’t stopped bringing it up ever since. Everyday she tells me that I will definitely enjoy getting pegged and that I’m missing out. Whenever I tell her that it’s not my thing, she accuses me of having a “fragile masculinity”. In fact a huge thing she’s been doing is telling me that im sexist for being turned off and that getting pegged would help “fight gender norms.” That’s……crazy, right? I think there are better ways to combat gender norms. The worst thing is that she has told me that her friend is interested in participating. I think it’s fucked up and humiliating that she involved her friend when im not even interested in this at all. They even added me to a group chat and her friend told me that I shouldn’t be shy. Is it...

I have a rimming fetish but my boyfriend isn’t into it . we’ve done it 3-4 times but he says it doesn’t do anything for him . it consumes me and i am obsessed over it but i can’t change his mind . I’ve posted a few posts earlier but i saw a comment that says distract yourself with something else . what other sexual things could i do with him to get my mind off of it ?? i want to numb my fetish and try to find a new one . Submitted December 07, 2021 at 12:38AM I have a rimming fetish but my boyfriend isn’t into it . we’ve done it 3-4 times but he says it doesn’t do anything for him . it consumes me and i am obsessed over it but i can’t change his mind . I’ve posted a few posts earlier but i saw a comment that says distract yourself with something else . what other sexual things could i do with him to get my mind off of it ?? i want to numb my fetish and try to find a new one .

i’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and still to this day i am so nervous to initiate . i did last week but it took me a few hours to gain the courage . i get nervous because i want to be perfect . i gave him head for longer than i usually do and put in more effort than i usually do and he said it was a 7/10 ( i asked him ) i want to be a 10/10 or atleast better than a 7 and he told me he doesn’t know what i can do better . i’ve used a lot of spit , hands , balls , etc . all of the stuff that people would comment to do , i thought i was doing amazing but i guess it was iffy . anyways , how do i be more “sexy” . we’ve been together for awhile so i think he is comfortable with me and we usually do the same position but i want to spice it up and make him think of me in a great way . i want him to go home and think about me like “damn where did she learn that” . it would also be important to say that my sex drive is alot higher than his . i want to have sex everytime i see him whereas...

Hi everyone I am asking if anyone else has run into this problem. My partner is not a very sexual person but I am and I’ve been wanting to try getting pegged for a long time and we’ve talked about it and she doesn’t know if she will ever be interested. But I really want to get some plugs and a dildo to try it out myself. I have everything picked out that I want to buy and use I just don’t know if I should. Anyone else have this situation arise ? Submitted December 07, 2021 at 12:53AM Hi everyone I am asking if anyone else has run into this problem. My partner is not a very sexual person but I am and I’ve been wanting to try getting pegged for a long time and we’ve talked about it and she doesn’t know if she will ever be interested. But I really want to get some plugs and a dildo to try it out myself. I have everything picked out that I want to buy and use I just don’t know if I should. Anyone else have this situation arise ?

So basically at home im usualy just naked or in my underwear. My bf whos been living with me for 4 weeks now told me that he's always in a state of arousal when im at home because i rarely wear any clothes. I can tell that hes telling the truth cuz he usualy has a boner. He's telling me that it hurts from being hard most of the day. I think he's been masturbating in the toilet when he gets too aroused to kill the urge to have sex. No i dont deprive him from sex. We have it whenever we both feel like it. On an average of once every 2 days. Im not purposely doing this. Im just comfortable in my own home and comfortable in my own skin without any clothes on. It has come to the point where he's telling me that he's too uncomfortable at home because he cant get any rest mentally. Any advice for this? Has anyone gone through the same thing or anything similar to this? Submitted December 07, 2021 at 12:56AM So basically at home im usualy just naked or in my unde...

Hey guys, I’m dating this girl for a few weeks now. Dating her feels different from other girls. She makes me want to be a better person and all that. I just thought about her after masturbation, and I still have this warm feeling in my chest. Do you have any similar experiences? Submitted December 06, 2021 at 11:51PM Hey guys, I’m dating this girl for a few weeks now. Dating her feels different from other girls. She makes me want to be a better person and all that. I just thought about her after masturbation, and I still have this warm feeling in my chest. Do you have any similar experiences?

I have a very strong gut feeling that a girl is interested in me. I can’t explain it, but I know it’s there, especially when she’s nearby. I occasionally catch her staring, and I’ve flirted with her a couple of times. Has this happened to anyone else? If so, did you ask her out? Submitted December 06, 2021 at 11:54PM I have a very strong gut feeling that a girl is interested in me. I can’t explain it, but I know it’s there, especially when she’s nearby. I occasionally catch her staring, and I’ve flirted with her a couple of times. Has this happened to anyone else? If so, did you ask her out?

I’m going on a date this week with a girl I met through mutual friends. Imo she is the perfect mix of cute and hot and she sometimes goes to the gym. So one time she gave me her number and asked if we could work out together sometime. She was my crush the first time I saw her so this felt like I won the lottery (I almost never have a crush on anybody) She is a nerdy laidback girl. The thing is i’m a fitness fanatic. I do hundreds of pushups and situps every day. I have ran several marathons this year, I lift a lot, I practice martial arts and i’m very muscular (low bodyfat, sixpack and all). I know everything about fitness. I’m freaking out about 3 things: How do I make her comfortable and not come off as a shallow know it all gymrat jerk? I feel like i will intimidate her How does this go down? I’m in my mid 20’s but I have never dated in my life. I have had 2 relationships (5 and 2 years) but we woke up drunk next to eachother barely remembering anything and decided to have a...

Earlier this year I (M21) started becoming close friends with this group I met at university. This summer I was hanging out with them at someone’s house when one of the girls in the group began flirting with me really hard. She wasn’t very subtle about it, she was getting very touchy and everyone there could tell what was going on. When I was about to head home she asked if she could come with me and stay overnight, but just as we were about to leave she suddenly changed her mind because she thought all of her friends would judge her if they saw her leaving with me (even though she wasn’t exactly subtle about flirting with me in front of everyone anyway). I should also mention that at this party, when she first started flirting with me, one of her close friends gave me a little heads up basically telling me not to get my hopes up too much because she knows her friend tends to just be flirty with everyone. I didn’t see her for a while, but when the uni year started again and we all s...

Hello I’m 22 y/o just got released from my military service and I was working hard on my 9-5 in order to save money, after a year of full self concentration, I’ve decided to leave country for a job opportunity, and as I booked the flight tickets and quit my job, I’ve met a girl and she a 10 to me, like really really. We went on a couple dates, and it was amazing, everything was just how it should. Right after we was kissing I told her about my plans for the future, and those are facts and I cannot change it. What would you do in that situation ? Should I stop the contact with her and let it sink ( witch will be real sad ).? Or , try to enjoy our time together before Im flying away.. Submitted December 06, 2021 at 10:26PM Hello I’m 22 y/o just got released from my military service and I was working hard on my 9-5 in order to save money, after a year of full self concentration, I’ve decided to leave country for a job opportunity, and as I booked the flight tickets and quit my ...

I started dating this guy since July. He lives in huntington beach and i live in las vegas. Last Friday he stopped talking to me, didnt answer my text friday and he didn’t answer my call that night either. I didnt want to be picky and cry about not a reply, so i waited on monday to text him again and he hasnt replied yet. On his instagram page it shows that he’s active, so is this him trying to end it? Ghosting? He never gave the idea of ending it when we talked all week. Submitted December 07, 2021 at 12:13AM I started dating this guy since July. He lives in huntington beach and i live in las vegas. Last Friday he stopped talking to me, didnt answer my text friday and he didn’t answer my call that night either. I didnt want to be picky and cry about not a reply, so i waited on monday to text him again and he hasnt replied yet. On his instagram page it shows that he’s active, so is this him trying to end it? Ghosting?He never gave the idea of ending it when we talked all week.