Gf is begging me to let her and her friend peg me. I’m extremely uncomfortable with the idea but she won’t drop it.

Around two weeks ago my gf (21f) suddenly asked me (19m) if I ever thought about getting pegged. I said no and she said that it’s a common male fantasy and that I should give it a try. I said that I’m not interested and I thought that was the end of that.

She hasn’t stopped bringing it up ever since. Everyday she tells me that I will definitely enjoy getting pegged and that I’m missing out. Whenever I tell her that it’s not my thing, she accuses me of having a “fragile masculinity”. In fact a huge thing she’s been doing is telling me that im sexist for being turned off and that getting pegged would help “fight gender norms.” That’s……crazy, right? I think there are better ways to combat gender norms.

The worst thing is that she has told me that her friend is interested in participating. I think it’s fucked up and humiliating that she involved her friend when im not even interested in this at all. They even added me to a group chat and her friend told me that I shouldn’t be shy. Is it normal that I feel extremely uncomfortable with them being so pushy?

I love my gf and she’s otherwise an amazing girl but Idk what to do. Even when I tell her that I don’t want to do it she laughs it off like I’m a little kid. I don’t even know how to handle this without making a big deal because it’s mortifying.



Submitted December 07, 2021 at 12:34AM

Around two weeks ago my gf (21f) suddenly asked me (19m) if I ever thought about getting pegged. I said no and she said that it’s a common male fantasy and that I should give it a try. I said that I’m not interested and I thought that was the end of that.She hasn’t stopped bringing it up ever since. Everyday she tells me that I will definitely enjoy getting pegged and that I’m missing out. Whenever I tell her that it’s not my thing, she accuses me of having a “fragile masculinity”. In fact a huge thing she’s been doing is telling me that im sexist for being turned off and that getting pegged would help “fight gender norms.” That’s……crazy, right? I think there are better ways to combat gender norms.The worst thing is that she has told me that her friend is interested in participating. I think it’s fucked up and humiliating that she involved her friend when im not even interested in this at all. They even added me to a group chat and her friend told me that I shouldn’t be shy. Is it normal that I feel extremely uncomfortable with them being so pushy?I love my gf and she’s otherwise an amazing girl but Idk what to do. Even when I tell her that I don’t want to do it she laughs it off like I’m a little kid. I don’t even know how to handle this without making a big deal because it’s mortifying.
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