I’m 34 and I get regular erections like a teenager going through puberty. I’m quite well endowed so my erections are always noticeable. The recent incident was at work when a very attractive woman came to talk to me at my desk and I instantly got aroused. Another woman noticed and said to me wow you’re big, then proceeded to gossip about it. There’s also a girl that I liked who I got aroused in front of her a few months ago,but she kept it to herself. Because I’m personable and not bad looking I’ve not been reprimanded or called a creep. But my nickname at work due to this is stiffler. I want to ask the girl out at work who kept it to herself on a date. I’m single and mostly fuck girls on tinder or girls I met at the bar. I’ve always had a high sex drive and been sex driven. But I want a more serious relationship. Submitted November 29, 2019 at 12:07AM I’m 34 and I get regular erections like a teenager going through puberty. I’m quite well endowed so my erections are always...

Long time lurker posting since something nice came about. From experience, I (F) have concluded that there's a saddening amount of women out there that are self-conscious about the smell of their lady parts. Probably plenty of guys too, but really? I mostly come across women that are concerned with the taste or smell. Me included, of course. Nothing is wrong with me health-wise and I'm completely aware of this, yet still, when it gets down to it I still find myself wondering whether there might be something funky going on down there. My partner asked me a related question, and I come to find out that he loves the smell of my wetness (discharge? whatever you prefer to call it!), telling me that my smell is amazing, etc. This shocked me in the best way possible, since it had never come up before and I'm so glad it did. Honestly, I think this was one of the biggest confidence boosts I've gotten in a long, long time. Something so small, but so reassuring just really hit...

I have a fluffy tail butt plug that got man cum on it. How do I get it out? Submitted November 29, 2019 at 12:16AM I have a fluffy tail butt plug that got man cum on it. How do I get it out?

A Women’s Cum Women’s perspective* Another day goes by.. No man bothers to even look in my direction I must be losing it by now.. 1, 2, another married couple. *sighhhh Drawing in She exhaled deep as she could A man approached her “Hello miss” “Hi!!” She replied happily My god he was cute Hair impeccably groomed Followed by his attire Sporting a Grey v neck with a black hoodie. Tight fitting jeans outlining his.. My god. he’s right in front of me get it together He smiled “You seem to be having some trouble” “Yeah I could really use some help, just moved” Was I always this obvious? He smiled again “Most of these guys don’t know what they’re missing, passing by a remarkably sexy woman like yourself” I felt my face flush with color He cannot be serious “My my, aren’t you forward” He leaned in, inches from my face eyes looking directly at me “You bet I am” I felt a shock between my legs I started to feel warm all over I couldn’t hold back “We close in 20 minutes, can you wait...

Little indie film: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt5441674/ November 29, 2019 at 12:21AM

What movie is this? So I can avoid it November 29, 2019 at 12:15AM

So I used to date this girl a few years ago and I ended up breaking her heart I was not smart back then and did a bunch of dumb things but we have since made and up and got close again as friends. I started to feel for her again and I just recently told her I love her she told me she also thinks she has strong feelings for me but also just got out of a relationship not that long ago and isn't sure if she wants a BF right now. The problem is there is another guy she also talks to a lot and Ive been getting jealous of them even though i know I shouldnt. We have very different schedules so it's hard to spend time together but I see myself being with this girl for the rest of my life but shes going to hang out with this guy among other people here in a few weeks and im just scared of what could happen. She's single so I know she can do whatever she wants but I have such strong feelings for her I still feel like im going to get hurt no matter what. i dont know what to do becaus...

So I met a girl who became my bestfriend 3 years ago. We helped each other out and enjoyed everything together. We then started to date after being bestfriends for a couple of months. We were together for about 2 years. We broke up now I wonder if we could still be bestfriends. I feel so lonely especially when something great happens because I have nobody to tell. I literally list my bestfriend and my Gf at one time. Any advice? Is it still possible to get back to being best friends cause honestly I really want her to be my best friend. Submitted November 28, 2019 at 11:23PM So I met a girl who became my bestfriend 3 years ago. We helped each other out and enjoyed everything together. We then started to date after being bestfriends for a couple of months. We were together for about 2 years. We broke up now I wonder if we could still be bestfriends. I feel so lonely especially when something great happens because I have nobody to tell. I literally list my bestfriend and my Gf at ...

Okay so I dated a women for 10 months, I moved out of my place and moved in with her, I even gave up my dog for her as strata caught us. She got to keep hers... even after she told me if we got caught she’s get rid of hers, anyways this isn’t about that... Flash forward to about 7-8 months in. We were having a bit of a rocky bit. She went to stay at her grandparents for the night. I got a weird feeling something was up. So I checked her old phone she had at the house that was logged into her accounts. And I found out she was hiding talking to her abusive ex behind my back, asking when he’s going to be in town, what’s new with him. Catching up and what not for 21 days. That I had no idea about. She even talked about her living situation and mentioned our roommate but not me.... yeah, fishy eh?? So long story short. I got mad. Called her out on it. She came rushing home. And we got into a fight. She swore he knew about me and such. So I said prove it. Call him right now and ask him if ...

Something cheap please Submitted November 28, 2019 at 11:23PM Something cheap please

Reading a lot of these questions, there’s a lot of questions about a sudden change in communication/texting within the first few months or less of dating (less responsive, appearing very busy, distant, ghosting yet still watching your social media activity, ghosting then coming back) I see a lot of responses saying “maybe he’s just busy”, “Give him a few days.” “He could be ...” While I definitely understand there are situations in which someone may genuinely be very busy temporarily or experiencing some personal stressful situation that makes them appear temporarily distant. But let’s be real... How many times did someone exhibiting these behaviors during the early phases of dating (that deviated from their communication style prior) has it turned into a healthy long term relationship? I’m willing to bet it’s 1% of the time. Thoughts? Submitted November 28, 2019 at 11:26PM Reading a lot of these questions, there’s a lot of questions about a sudden change in communication/...

So I met a girl who became my bestfriend 3 years ago. We helped each other out and enjoyed everything together. We then started to date after being bestfriends for a couple of months. We were together for about 2 years. We broke up now I wonder if we could still be bestfriends. I feel so lonely especially when something great happens because I have nobody to tell. I literally list my bestfriend and my Gf at one time. Any advice? Is it still possible to get back to being best friends cause honestly I really want her to be my best friend. Just to add to this we actually tried to be friends again but a part of me is still thinking about wanting to get back together with her. What can I do about this? Should I try and stop it so I can be friends with her? Submitted November 28, 2019 at 11:39PM So I met a girl who became my bestfriend 3 years ago. We helped each other out and enjoyed everything together. We then started to date after being bestfriends for a couple of months. We were...

I recently started dating someone I've known for awhile. We've been taking things slowly and have yet to have sex, but have done everything but, including oral. This has been going on for about 2 months. Yesterday, he tells me he has herpes, and he has known for several weeks, but that he is on an antibiotic and asymptomatic. I freak out a bit, and am pretty pissed he waited to tell me after having oral, but am grateful he told me before we had proper sex. He apologized for not telling me sooner, but he was embarrassed and told himself it wasn't a huge deal since he was on pills and never had symptoms. He's given me some space to process things. I don't really know how to think or feel about this. It's the not telling me part that has me most upset. I've known this man for awhile, and may even love him, and it seems really out of character for him to lie, but now I'm worried that if he could keep that a secret, what else is he hiding from me? Is this so...

Ok so, I've (22F) been dating this guy (22M) for around 2 months now. Little back story, we've been friends ever since high school (so around 8 years). We weren't that close in high school but we considered each other "good friends", and then when our paths crossed again 3 years after high school, we hung out platonically for like a whole year and then HE started flirting with me. I realized that I kinda like him so I flirted back etc and we decided to give a relationship a shot. It was going good etc for a few weeks, and then he told me that he had to focus on himself, that he may not have as much time for me anymore but that he still wanted to be together. I said ok. And then ever since that day and for about 2 weeks now, he kinda ghosted me. If I didn't initiate the conversation he wouldn't. And so I decided that it would be better if we stopped dating so that at least we could end things on good terms and we could try to go back to being friends. Bu...

With difficult schedules, we only go out once a week for last 7ish weeks. A month and a bit ago she told me she cut it off with her fling, and that she told him they’ll only be friends (no benefits). Since then she had been really flirty, suggestive in making plans, and talkative to me. Found out yesterday they met up to go do a very couply thing together one evening when it wasn’t convenient for her, as she had to drive two hours to see him and hangout, where she then stayed the night. When I asked if she was with him tHat night she was reluctant to tell me as I could hear it in her voice but did admit to it. Am I being played? Or is she just doing her? We live an hour apart until January. Don’t want to put any effort in now incase I am being played. Submitted November 29, 2019 at 12:05AM With difficult schedules, we only go out once a week for last 7ish weeks.A month and a bit ago she told me she cut it off with her fling, and that she told him they’ll only be friends (no...

All right guys and gals I (25m) need your advice. Last week I asked my dancing partner (19f) - whom I crushed on hard - if I could kiss her. She said no on grounds of "not wanting to endanger the dancing relationship". Ok, all well and good. I was a bit sad but I understood and had to agree with her to some extrend. Now, this week after dancing classes we walked part of our ways home together and when the time for goodbyes came and I leaned in for a quick hug she shifted slightly, drew me close and kissed me! It was a good kiss too, lasted several seconds and we went back and forth, but no tongue. She then gave me a quick peck on the cheek, said "good night" and ran off. I was happy and confused and have absolutely no idea what's going on. Is she toying with me? Did she have a change of heart? Does she try to elicit some sort of reaction from me? I really wanted to be honest and direct with her but I don't know what to do. Submitted November 29, 2019 ...

I am a 20F. There is this guy (20M) that I went on a date with on Saturday and he was such an amazing guy. I can’t stop thinking about him. The fact that I’m not sure if he even likes me or not makes me a little sick to my stomach. Like he didn’t give any vibes he doesn’t like me but he was such a nice guy I’m not sure I’d be able to tell. It’s been a couple days since we’ve texted so it’s hard to tell if he’s not interested or just busy. Any insight on that? He has a football game on Saturday so I was going to text him good luck tomorrow. It’s so hard to wait though and I’m worried when he responds, if he does respond, that it’ll be short or that he’ll show he’s not interested. I’m also worried we won’t go out again. Because of Thanksgiving break right now it wouldn’t work this week but I would really want to next week. He just treated me like a princess and he was such a great guy and I loved being around him. I really want to go out with him again. How can I reverse and stop myse...

Me and my girlfriend have been doing really well for 5 months, in December of 2017 she had more of a “fling” with a guy from HS and she called him for about 20 minutes the other day to get closure from him. Should i be worried? Has anyone ever gone through this before? It’s very awkward for me because I’m the boyfriend and it feels like I’m the side gig. Help and honest answers please Submitted November 29, 2019 at 12:12AM Me and my girlfriend have been doing really well for 5 months, in December of 2017 she had more of a “fling” with a guy from HS and she called him for about 20 minutes the other day to get closure from him. Should i be worried? Has anyone ever gone through this before? It’s very awkward for me because I’m the boyfriend and it feels like I’m the side gig. Help and honest answers please

I’m supposed to go out for dinner tomorrow with a guy I met on a dating app. I created my account shortly after I was rejected by yet another guy I was interested in. I’m almost 21 and I’ve never been on a date or in a relationship. Some of my friends feel like my standards are already low, but even with my “low standards”, I’m always getting rejected. Rather than being picky, I filtered my profile so that I’m shown guys of all races, ages, and education level. I swiped right on every single guy I was shown and I messaged every single one that matched with me. Of the ones that responded back, I continued the conversation with those who are “alright”. After a month of doing this, one of the guys finally asked me out. I said yes, but Im genuinely not excited. We had the most mundane conversation on the app and I’m not really attracted to him physically, but I don’t feel like I have much choice. My option is very limited since I am objectively unattractive - even with makeup. It doesn’...

A close female friend introduced me to a girl who I've sorta developed feeling's for but I'm feeling very unsure about it. So I took her number and we've went out on a few dates. She's constantly texting me throughout the day just telling me about how it's going and seeing if I'd be around later and stuff. The first couple of dates were awesome. We went out all night and would end up back at either at my place or hers. My guy friends have told me to watch out for her cause they've heard stories but I try not to believe everything I hear. Whenever me and her are together she opens up to me alot. She apparently tells me things that's she doesn't tell other people (not sure if I believe that). Her friends like me but my guy friends don't really like her. So last week I was out with my friends and I saw her with another guy at the bar. She told me she was busy that night. I know she's single and she can do what she wants but it took me off g...

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