Does she like me or no?

A close female friend introduced me to a girl who I've sorta developed feeling's for but I'm feeling very unsure about it. So I took her number and we've went out on a few dates. She's constantly texting me throughout the day just telling me about how it's going and seeing if I'd be around later and stuff. The first couple of dates were awesome. We went out all night and would end up back at either at my place or hers. My guy friends have told me to watch out for her cause they've heard stories but I try not to believe everything I hear. Whenever me and her are together she opens up to me alot. She apparently tells me things that's she doesn't tell other people (not sure if I believe that). Her friends like me but my guy friends don't really like her. So last week I was out with my friends and I saw her with another guy at the bar. She told me she was busy that night. I know she's single and she can do what she wants but it took me off guard cause she acts like she really likes me when we're together. I asked her about it but she declined to answer. Then last week while she was texting me she was out with a different guy from before. I didn't text her for a few days after cause I decided it wasn't worth it. So literally just two nights ago I was with my friends and we ended up going to a strip club. She found out and freaked out at me. When I said to her what did it matter, she replies " I just thought you were better than that". I don't get it we're not really a couple but she can go out with other guys but I can't go to a strip club? It's situations like this that makes guys go nuts. I didn't reply to her cause I don't really know what to say. I really wonder if my friends were right about her. Did I get played or am I just be shallow?



Submitted November 28, 2019 at 11:36PM

A close female friend introduced me to a girl who I've sorta developed feeling's for but I'm feeling very unsure about it. So I took her number and we've went out on a few dates. She's constantly texting me throughout the day just telling me about how it's going and seeing if I'd be around later and stuff. The first couple of dates were awesome. We went out all night and would end up back at either at my place or hers. My guy friends have told me to watch out for her cause they've heard stories but I try not to believe everything I hear. Whenever me and her are together she opens up to me alot. She apparently tells me things that's she doesn't tell other people (not sure if I believe that). Her friends like me but my guy friends don't really like her. So last week I was out with my friends and I saw her with another guy at the bar. She told me she was busy that night. I know she's single and she can do what she wants but it took me off guard cause she acts like she really likes me when we're together. I asked her about it but she declined to answer. Then last week while she was texting me she was out with a different guy from before. I didn't text her for a few days after cause I decided it wasn't worth it. So literally just two nights ago I was with my friends and we ended up going to a strip club. She found out and freaked out at me. When I said to her what did it matter, she replies " I just thought you were better than that". I don't get it we're not really a couple but she can go out with other guys but I can't go to a strip club? It's situations like this that makes guys go nuts. I didn't reply to her cause I don't really know what to say. I really wonder if my friends were right about her. Did I get played or am I just be shallow?
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