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How many messages is too crazy?

Okay so I have never been much of a dating app person, but in finding myself recently single I decided to give it a try. Well I’m on Hinge, I’ve had a few matches and a few conversations that have fizzled off pretty quickly. Anyways, last night this very nice guy “liked” me back. So in remembering his profile, I got on and started to type him a message. Well, at the same time he typed me one just saying hello and asking how my weekend was. I deleted my message and started over and told him that I was just writing a message as well and that I thought his profession was cool, and I ended it that my weekend was busy but fun and then asked how his was. No answer....it’s been 24 hours now and I’m confused. I don’t think I should message him again, but I want to. I have a feeling he didn’t get a notification because I sent my message right after his. Maybe I’m in denial, should I message him again? If I should, what do I say? I don’t want to seem desperate and crazy and don’t want it to sou...

Old friend of mine has his tumblr in his Instagram bio and it’s just a goldmine

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On a video about a girl rejecting a guy wanting to date her who brought her lots of gifts

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Saw a few guys on Facebook sharing this

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/u/autistic_moon on How should I tell my family I'm asexual?

Not sure how old you are, but sometimes older folks think everything “weird” that young people do is “just a phase.” Sometimes it just takes time for people to come around and see it’s not a phase. I’m 28 and nobody who knows me well questions my orientation. I’m not convinced that there’s a correlation between asexuality and autism. It seems to me that quite a lot of young autistics are plagued by frustrations around trying to get laid but being unsuccessful due to social skills/issues. I’m aro, ace, and autistic and I don’t think they’re related, at least not for me. I don’t feel the need to “come out” to people for the sake of making my personal business known to others, but I’m open about it if people ask if I have a boyfriend/girlfriend/children or we’re discussing relationships generally. I’ve heard every criticism under the sun so I’m kind of immune to other people’s bullshit. June 18, 2019 at 12:15AM

/u/gatemansgc on Sex sells apparently

r/ihadastroke June 18, 2019 at 12:15AM

/u/xJeb on Has someone posted this before?

Can you reproduce by budding? Can you? Can you? Can you? Can you? June 18, 2019 at 12:15AM

/u/Lux_In_Tenebris_Luce on Sex sells apparently

I'd be more concerned with the poor hygiene displayed myself. June 18, 2019 at 12:14AM

/u/someaceguy on What the heck does libido feel like, anyway?

I’ve gone through periods where I have none, then I’ll have one for a short period and then it dissipates again. And I have to say, it’s the worst few days I have. It’s a feeling that needs to be released, but acting on it is a chore and grosses me out. Plus it’s boring and feels like a waste of time. If I could shut it off forever I would. June 18, 2019 at 12:11AM

/u/guy-who-lieks-memes on smash or pass

I feel like I would do that. Just yeet them woth that shit June 18, 2019 at 12:07AM

/u/Flagon28 on Im scared about starting college as an Asexual

Look sis just do what i do and stay the absolute fuck away from sex. Defy those who want you in June 18, 2019 at 12:06AM

/u/Marrokiu20 on Me at 3:00am

Reminds me of the time when spongebob and Patrick and mr krabs did panty raid on mr krabs mom lol June 18, 2019 at 12:04AM

/u/Pistachio_Jellybean on My ace ring arrived early!

Ace rings are black rings worn on the middle finger of the right hand, as a way to find and meet other aces in public. They don't have any specific design they just have to be black. Also, welcome! June 18, 2019 at 12:02AM

/u/Pistachio_Jellybean on My ace ring arrived early!

Thanks! June 18, 2019 at 12:01AM

/u/Flagon28 on Fuck all these sex-centered adds

Lol I think so too June 17, 2019 at 11:59PM

/u/Flagon28 on Hello! I just wanted to share my ring. I wear it on the left hand because I don't like wearing jewelry on my right hand. It reminds me that all of you exist. People like myself are out there.

Pretty good sis June 17, 2019 at 11:56PM

/u/moon_cultist77 on Fuck all these sex-centered adds

The ring really pulls this image together. June 17, 2019 at 11:54PM

/u/RivetAce on Me at 3:00am

I guess you go and steal girls' underwear? I think it's a college dorm kind of thing. I bet someone with a panty fetish invented it to cover their tracks. June 17, 2019 at 11:52PM

Question

Does anyone have that feeling like there is someone out there for you but all at the same time there isn’t. I have tried several times to find someone special in my life but when I feel like I have it just blows up in my face and every time that happens I tell myself I’m done with finding someone but I don’t want to be alone. Submitted June 17, 2019 at 11:55PM Does anyone have that feeling like there is someone out there for you but all at the same time there isn’t. I have tried several times to find someone special in my life but when I feel like I have it just blows up in my face and every time that happens I tell myself I’m done with finding someone but I don’t want to be alone.

This is pretty much my dating life today. Thanks settle your scores for making the perfect song for me.

Settle Your Scores-Keep Your Chin Up High and Your Expectations Low ​ At this point I think we're both aware that this is going nowhere. Every lull in the conversation is a pretty clear indication that we're wrong A different girl, a different name but the story stays the same. Maybe she doesn't get my jokes. Maybe she snorts her 20s up her nose Is it just me? Do I lure crazy? Are my sights set too high? Are we meant to compromise? I think we better say goodnight and hope for better luck tomorrow. And maybe if we say goodbye then things will finally fall in place. I thought that after all this time my life would turn out fine. But I guess we better say goodbye because you and I can't see eye to eye tonight ​ I'm trying to be patient but I don't think I can take this. I've been looking for love in hopeless places. Just empty hearts with pretty faces. Always at the wrong spot always at the wrong time. I'll blame it on my bad luck. Or ...

He likes me more than I like him...

So I recently started going out with this guy; he’s truly an amazing person and we get along great. However, I get the feeling he likes me more than I like him. For starters, he’s been the one initiating most of the moves (which isn’t a bad thing) and he was quite fast to put a label on our relationship. TBH I didn’t even consider him my boyfriend until he referred to me as his girlfriend the other day... ​ However, I do in fact like him but to a lesser degree than he likes me. I don’t handle emotions well, so I guess the rapid rate at which this has all occurred has thrown me off guard. ​ I guess I’m just wondering if anyone has been through something similar before? Or if anyone can give me advice on how to navigate this situation in a righteous manner. Submitted June 17, 2019 at 11:43PM So I recently started going out with this guy; he’s truly an amazing person and we get along great. However, I get the feeling he likes me more than I like him. For starters, he’s been the...

Do adults get strong crushes on guys just like teenagers do?

[24 F] As a teen, I’d get massive crushes and think about them when I lie in bed at night. Nowadays as an adult, that just doesn’t happen. I don’t get the same satisfaction looking at beautiful men as I did in my teens, is this common? TLDR don’t get strong crushes as an adult, is this common? Submitted June 17, 2019 at 11:46PM [24 F] As a teen, I’d get massive crushes and think about them when I lie in bed at night. Nowadays as an adult, that just doesn’t happen. I don’t get the same satisfaction looking at beautiful men as I did in my teens, is this common?TLDR don’t get strong crushes as an adult, is this common?

Date rescheduled twice. Seems apologetic but do I keep trying?

Had a first date with a guy a couple weeks ago. Went really well... We had dinner and when it came time for the check, he asked if I wanted dessert, which I'm assuming means he wanted to hang out with me longer. He texts me after the date asking when I'm free again, and I was out of town the weekend after so we made plans for last Thursday. He had a work emergency come up a few hours before the date. (seemed legit... He actually sent a picture of him working later that night) and asked if we could hang out tonight instead. Last night, he texts me and asks if I can hang out a bit earlier because he has a family member coming to stay with him. I couldn't do earlier so I said let's find another time. So he's essentially tried to reschedule twice but he still seems interested. I'm honestly not in a rush to make anything happen, but he seemed nice, checked boxes and we had good chemistry. Im essentially a stranger to him and don't expect priority, but I do b...