How many messages is too crazy?

Okay so I have never been much of a dating app person, but in finding myself recently single I decided to give it a try. Well I’m on Hinge, I’ve had a few matches and a few conversations that have fizzled off pretty quickly. Anyways, last night this very nice guy “liked” me back. So in remembering his profile, I got on and started to type him a message. Well, at the same time he typed me one just saying hello and asking how my weekend was. I deleted my message and started over and told him that I was just writing a message as well and that I thought his profession was cool, and I ended it that my weekend was busy but fun and then asked how his was. No answer....it’s been 24 hours now and I’m confused. I don’t think I should message him again, but I want to. I have a feeling he didn’t get a notification because I sent my message right after his. Maybe I’m in denial, should I message him again? If I should, what do I say? I don’t want to seem desperate and crazy and don’t want it to sound like a follow up email. Ugh so frustrating. Like why message at all if you won’t respond!



Submitted June 18, 2019 at 12:21AM

Okay so I have never been much of a dating app person, but in finding myself recently single I decided to give it a try. Well I’m on Hinge, I’ve had a few matches and a few conversations that have fizzled off pretty quickly. Anyways, last night this very nice guy “liked” me back. So in remembering his profile, I got on and started to type him a message. Well, at the same time he typed me one just saying hello and asking how my weekend was. I deleted my message and started over and told him that I was just writing a message as well and that I thought his profession was cool, and I ended it that my weekend was busy but fun and then asked how his was. No answer....it’s been 24 hours now and I’m confused. I don’t think I should message him again, but I want to. I have a feeling he didn’t get a notification because I sent my message right after his. Maybe I’m in denial, should I message him again? If I should, what do I say? I don’t want to seem desperate and crazy and don’t want it to sound like a follow up email. Ugh so frustrating. Like why message at all if you won’t respond!

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