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I don’t know what to do.

So I(M18) have this group of guy and girl internet friends that I play games with and stuff. I have known them for just under a year and around 7 months ago another girl(F18) joins the group. I obviously thought she was pretty from the get go but I had no intensions of speaking with her romantically because she was just this girl off the internet that lived an hour away. And then it sort of just… happened… About three months ago we started talking properly over snap, FaceTiming each other, staying up late on the phone. We even started sending nudes every now and again. About three weeks into this, when I realised I actually liked her, I asked her out on a date in real life and she agreed but was clearly nervous about it. She’s never been in a relationship with a guy before and she even told me I was the first guy to actually ask her out. I could tell that she wasn’t ready to go on this date and I go to sixth form, so I said we could wait until the summer and see what she thought then.

We like each other, but we are very different. What should I do?

This girl has been in love with me for months and over time and because of the way she has treated me, I have fallen little by little. But we are very different, she really likes to party and I don't, I could go to the movies, to a restaurant or to the park, but despite everything she says she doesn't care, and that she wants to be with me. I don't know whether to enter into a relationship with a woman of this type, although I must say that she has been excellent to me. What advice would you give me? Submitted June 21, 2022 at 12:14AM This girl has been in love with me for months and over time and because of the way she has treated me, I have fallen little by little. But we are very different, she really likes to party and I don't, I could go to the movies, to a restaurant or to the park, but despite everything she says she doesn't care, and that she wants to be with me. I don't know whether to enter into a relationship with a woman of this type, although

He doesn't want a relationship but is open to take it slow and see where things go. Should I go with the flow as well?

Hi. So I've been seeing this guy for 3 months now, we rushed into a "relationship" after two weeks and then we broke up because we both agreed we're moving way too fast and took a week break. Got back and have been hanging out most of the time. Ever since we got back from the one week break, we remain exclusive. For the past 1 month we have been enjoying each others company, he would often tell me how much he likes spending quality time with me and would take me out when we're done with assignments (we're in our early 20s). Recently we have been spending almost 5 to 6 days a week together and I can see that he's been suffocated. I openly lay down what I want from this, telling him I can take it slow, and we should, but for me to take it slow its because I see us together, and that I want to try. He said I don't want a relationship, I'm not ready. So I asked then if he's willing to even try to see where it goes or you want to completely give up

/u/T1mThenchanter on This is a vent

I can definitely understand the struggle. I'm not in a good place to talk further on the subject, but I do want to show my support and reassurance to you :) June 20, 2022 at 11:31PM

/u/Jealous-Cat-2017 on uh? UH???

That doesn't even make any sense, pronouns are for gender expression, not sexual orientation June 20, 2022 at 11:31PM

/u/Howdoesoneusername99 on People have no respect for asexuals on dating apps.

I joined a dating app for one day, put ace in my bio, waited until the end of that day, and got so many requests from creepy guys that I immediately deleted my account. Dating apps aren’t safe for us. June 20, 2022 at 11:30PM

/u/Electrical_Buyer_790 on omg my cover has been blown 🙄

Well do you know any sir (lmao get your gender assumed) June 20, 2022 at 11:30PM

/u/AllyBelle246 on uh? UH???

What? June 20, 2022 at 11:29PM