I don’t know what to do.

So I(M18) have this group of guy and girl internet friends that I play games with and stuff. I have known them for just under a year and around 7 months ago another girl(F18) joins the group. I obviously thought she was pretty from the get go but I had no intensions of speaking with her romantically because she was just this girl off the internet that lived an hour away. And then it sort of just… happened… About three months ago we started talking properly over snap, FaceTiming each other, staying up late on the phone. We even started sending nudes every now and again. About three weeks into this, when I realised I actually liked her, I asked her out on a date in real life and she agreed but was clearly nervous about it. She’s never been in a relationship with a guy before and she even told me I was the first guy to actually ask her out. I could tell that she wasn’t ready to go on this date and I go to sixth form, so I said we could wait until the summer and see what she thought then.

Well summer is rolling around… I have a week left of school and so I’ve asked her if we’re ever going on this date. And yet she says she ‘doesn’t know’ if she wants to meet me. I’ve told her that it’s completely fine if she doesn’t want to and I’d understand, but her answer is still ‘I don’t know.’ I asked her if we should stop speaking romantically and I could tell she’d gotten upset, and didn’t want that. But I don’t really know what to do, could use some advice.

Submitted June 21, 2022 at 12:14AM

So I(M18) have this group of guy and girl internet friends that I play games with and stuff. I have known them for just under a year and around 7 months ago another girl(F18) joins the group. I obviously thought she was pretty from the get go but I had no intensions of speaking with her romantically because she was just this girl off the internet that lived an hour away. And then it sort of just… happened… About three months ago we started talking properly over snap, FaceTiming each other, staying up late on the phone. We even started sending nudes every now and again. About three weeks into this, when I realised I actually liked her, I asked her out on a date in real life and she agreed but was clearly nervous about it. She’s never been in a relationship with a guy before and she even told me I was the first guy to actually ask her out. I could tell that she wasn’t ready to go on this date and I go to sixth form, so I said we could wait until the summer and see what she thought then.Well summer is rolling around… I have a week left of school and so I’ve asked her if we’re ever going on this date. And yet she says she ‘doesn’t know’ if she wants to meet me. I’ve told her that it’s completely fine if she doesn’t want to and I’d understand, but her answer is still ‘I don’t know.’ I asked her if we should stop speaking romantically and I could tell she’d gotten upset, and didn’t want that. But I don’t really know what to do, could use some advice.