Did you never have sex ed in high school? February 04, 2021 at 12:02AM

Yep , I interact with this sub a lot and it does go in cycles of repulsed is more posts and favourable is more posts February 04, 2021 at 12:01AM

Same same same. The whole social distancing thing actually makes me way more comfortable... February 03, 2021 at 11:59PM

Coloring really does take a while sometimes, doesn't it? February 03, 2021 at 11:59PM

This drama was so sweet! Love love love seeing the ace representation even if it was small February 03, 2021 at 11:57PM

Yes, and biphobic too , who knows what else phobic with calling it a trend:/ February 03, 2021 at 11:57PM

Thanks. Took me a few hours to finish (working off and on throughout the day). February 03, 2021 at 11:57PM

I like it! February 03, 2021 at 11:55PM

I love that. I have a similar thing with my best friend: I'm aro/ace/agender and she's alloro/bi/cis. Very different, but still very much friends, although we don't talk much at all about those kinds of relationships. February 03, 2021 at 11:54PM

nice shirt cool hair too February 03, 2021 at 11:53PM

It sounds like they might be saying "not considered as something wrong" as if they believe otherwise (ie. they believe it is wrong). The fact that they say it can be "remedied" (no 'considered') by 'confidence' seems to further suggest that. Either way, that seems like a stupid remedy for something that isn't considered an issue exactly because it isn't one. February 03, 2021 at 11:47PM

Psh i am at 31. Wount even have to think to do 2. February 03, 2021 at 11:39PM

I don't have parents to come out to, but I did come out to my grandparents some years ago. My grandma was confusing it with celibacy and my grandpa didn't believe me... February 03, 2021 at 11:37PM

It is not ED, it was an ad, like advertising. It literally said that all man want to have sex, but some lie to themselves and say that they don't want it cause they are bad at sex February 03, 2021 at 11:35PM

You're not falling behind. You're just on a different road. You have your own destination ahead of you, waiting for you to find it. February 03, 2021 at 11:35PM

Oh my god, this is the biggest bs I've seen in a while. I very often dream that I'm the opposite gender, it's been this way since I was a little kid. And I'm a sex-repulsed aroace with zero libido. Not to mention there are countless ways to interpret such dreams in a non-sexual manner. Maybe you just have a very active imagination? Maybe you have a making of an actor within you - being able to assume identities outside of your own experience? Or... anything, really. This interpretation assumes that the person is cis, allo, and hetero. And shamelessly gives you unsolicited advice!.. February 03, 2021 at 11:34PM

They're scam robots, just block and report them February 03, 2021 at 11:29PM

I just joined this app yesterday, and I've been getting messages like this, too. I'm a guy, my profile clearly says I'm hetero and looking for women, and I have a picture of myself. But I've already had several guys from other states contact me saying things like "hey beautiful" or "hey pretty" and giving me their phone numbers, as if they think I'm a girl. One of them said he can financially support me, right off the bat in his first message. I started to wonder if there's something wrong with my profile or something. I chatted with this guy and made it clear I'm a guy not looking for other guys, to try to understand what he's after, and after an odd conversation, he finally admitted he's looking for a sugar baby. Not sure why he contacted me for that. I don't understand this app. What is going on? February 03, 2021 at 11:28PM

I had the same experience as you! I was always really open about never really getting crushes or finding people sexually attractive I honestly just thought I was picky lol. Finding out about asexuality was more of an aha moment for me but it didn’t really change anything? I’m hetroromantic and pretty neutral towards sex so I’ve never really felt the need to come out - I don’t really mind people just calling me straight so a lot of content on this sub isn’t super relatable February 03, 2021 at 11:25PM

wait I’m confused? like are they saying a consequence of experiencing erectile dysfunction is a change of interest in sex? or is it implying that if you’re not interested in sex then you must have erectile dysfunction? If it’s the first I can understand why ED would cause a lack of interest in sex because of the ainxety surrounding it I mean that arguably makes sense and the ad is obviously targeted towards people who typically want sex and have experienced a change in that desire as a result of that the sex if life line is gross tho February 03, 2021 at 11:21PM

Michael!? Why do you need a label just because you feel like a Mike? February 03, 2021 at 11:20PM

... two years? really? is that supposed to be a challenge? February 03, 2021 at 11:18PM

Sameee February 03, 2021 at 11:16PM