So there’s this girl, we’ve been talking for about 3 weeks. We’ve gone on a few dates and then last Friday she asked me to come over and get tipsy and play video games. We proceeded to hang out and she asked me to stay the night. I ended up not leaving till Sunday night. We’ve kissed, made out (no sex), and we are physically affectionate. We always send each other good morning and good night texts. Unfortunately do you our jobs we won’t see each other all this week and next week I’m out of town for work again but managed to take some time off to take her out to eat on Monday. At what point do you ask about making this an exclusive thing. I haven’t gone on dates with anyone since her. And from the sounds of it she hasn’t either. Is it to soon to ask to be exclusive or? I haven’t dated since my 2020 and that relationship was a 6 year relationship that started in senior year of high school so I’m a bit rusty on this and have no idea what I’m doing. I’m not trying to rush it. Submitte

Hi all, I’ve been going to eat at In-N-Out burger sometime. Lately, I have been seeing this cute cashier who looks about my age. I’m interested in getting to know him better. My sister who used to work there asked her one of her old coworker who knows this cute guy if he’s in college. And he is!! 😊 The problem is I’m so shy and awkward, but I really want to ask for his number. Any advice on how to ask him? I know it might be weird because he’s working but…what’s the worst that could happen? Lol 😅 Submitted April 06, 2023 at 01:52AM Hi all, I’ve been going to eat at In-N-Out burger sometime. Lately, I have been seeing this cute cashier who looks about my age. I’m interested in getting to know him better. My sister who used to work there asked her one of her old coworker who knows this cute guy if he’s in college. And he is!! 😊The problem is I’m so shy and awkward, but I really want to ask for his number. Any advice on how to ask him? I know it might be weird because he’s work

Hey, I’m a college student at a university with a fairly skewed gender ratio and absurdly large class sizes (I.e. meeting women irl is tough). I mostly have had to resort to using tinder, but I’ve had like zero success. I’ve been told that I’m a really charismatic guy in person, and I’ve never had problems with face to face interactions, but my recent experiences have led me to think I must be decidedly less interesting in virtual conversations. I get an ok number of matches, but when I dm them, I get no response 90% of the time. I’ll usually open with some comment like “Hey, I think you look hella fine 👀” or maybe something based off their profile, and then I’ll ask if they’re free some evening Friday through Sunday. At various stages, this will fail. Sometimes they respond positively, and say they’re free, but when I try to setup a venue, like asking if they want to go grab coffee or dinner, I get no response. Other times, I just won’t get any response. From my perspective, I do

Advice, woman to woman (and also just person to person)? You deserve way better. You deserve a partner who accepts you for who you are, who celebrates your identity, cares about your feelings and needs, trusts you, and respects your personal choices! We all have bad days, but we're not out here being utterly selfish in bed and in daily life! If someone I love has big news for me, I stop and listen! I'm excited for them and want to know how I can support them! And I want that for you and everyone else in the world. So no, it's not a you problem, it's not your identity, it's not your OF. The only problem here is this guy giving you way less support and respect than you deserve. April 06, 2023 at 12:52AM

That's tomorrow? Wow. I didn't remember. Mainly because I never heard of it until now but still. We have a day for us! Too bad I can't celebrate it because my parents don't know I'm Ace because they still don't understand. But at least my dad and I grilled so the BBQ could count as something today. April 06, 2023 at 12:50AM

I (33F) recently started dating a guy my same age. We went on 2 dates so far. He told me he doesn’t text much and doesn’t have social media. I find myself initiating a conversation most of the time on text. He won’t text good morning like most guys I dated before do. When we meet there is a great connection and we talk on the phone for hours. But, I am the one who asks him to talk on the phone. Yesterday I didn’t text him all day to see if he initiated and he did text me at night to ask about my day. This is feeling very one sided. What should I do? Submitted April 06, 2023 at 12:53AM I (33F) recently started dating a guy my same age. We went on 2 dates so far. He told me he doesn’t text much and doesn’t have social media. I find myself initiating a conversation most of the time on text. He won’t text good morning like most guys I dated before do. When we meet there is a great connection and we talk on the phone for hours. But, I am the one who asks him to talk on the phone. Ye