There's this guy at my college who I'm in a club with. He seems so interesting and genuine. The thing is I'm having a hard time trying to build a friendship (at the very least) between us because we don't get one-on-one time. I've been seeing a lot of people say that if a guy is also interested he would let you know which I guess is true.. guys who have been interested in me have dropped hints and it didn't take me too long to realize. Part of me is wondering if I should bother at all because he already has my social media accounts but has never requested to add me. And I think that's the first thing he would've done by now if he was interested right? Submitted October 15, 2021 at 01:10AM There's this guy at my college who I'm in a club with. He seems so interesting and genuine. The thing is I'm having a hard time trying to build a friendship (at the very least) between us because we don't get one-on-one time. I've been seeing ...

I’m a 21[M]. I’m not ugly by any means, but I wouldn’t call myself godly attractive, but I’m at least average or above. I’m fit, blue eyes, I smile a lot, and I dress nice. Not suit and tie but I dress in nice clothes. I keep up with my hygiene too. I mean, I’m not very tall, but I already know and have accepted some girls will have an issue with that. I’m also not into the whole casual dating thing that’s popular now. I don’t care for hookups. I’m looking for an actual, serious connection. I really want to pursue a serious relationship, but I really don’t think I’m cut out for OLD. I’ve used tinder, bumble, hinge, you name it. I’ve given it an honest shot, even paid for the premium and some boosts. Out of the 3 years I’ve been on OLD, I’ve matched with a couple people each month. I never get responses. I get it though, I’m not gonna be everybody’s cup of tea and that’s ok. I think OLD isn’t gonna lead anywhere to be honest. I didn’t limit myself to OLD either. I’m a very outgoing ...

I got stupidly drunk in front of my boyfriend, i was already very depressed but now I feel 10 times worse. I don't remember what I did but it must've been bad because he's ghosting me. I feel like something broke in me. I made him lose respect for me. I apologized and he didn't reply. I genuinely can't do this anymore, I feel so ashamed and filled with disgust with myself. Submitted October 15, 2021 at 01:15AM I got stupidly drunk in front of my boyfriend, i was already very depressed but now I feel 10 times worse. I don't remember what I did but it must've been bad because he's ghosting me. I feel like something broke in me. I made him lose respect for me. I apologized and he didn't reply. I genuinely can't do this anymore, I feel so ashamed and filled with disgust with myself.

Maybe come check out r/platonicdating ? October 15, 2021 at 12:10AM

I wish you people would stop fucking saying this. We get it. You can't CHOOSE to be poly if you're fundamentally mono, though. Most people talking about this are mono. We know people can be poly. We can't. It's not great advice when it's not applicable. October 15, 2021 at 12:04AM

I love romantic scenes but i hate sex scenes makes feel uncomfortable October 15, 2021 at 12:04AM

Yeah, right? Fuck this. juSt bE PolyAmOrOuS October 14, 2021 at 11:59PM

Yes. I don’t want to be in the same living space even. Tried it in the past and it was like a prison. Even if I ever bother with a relationship in the future, I don’t want to live together and physical contact will probably be minimal. I can’t even imagine liking someone that much to overlook all that. October 14, 2021 at 11:58PM

I've been seeing this girl for a couple months, the first two times we've had sex it's been mostly her leading since she's more experienced (I lost my virginity to her, but she doesn't know that). Last night however, I did a few things that I learned of and she seemed to react well to them so I kept doing it while we were having sex. She ended up finishing, and afterwards she told me that I was the first guy she's been with to make her cum. For reference we're both 20, but I know she's been with a few guys so I feel like she's just saying this, but I'm not sure why she would lie. Submitted October 15, 2021 at 12:20AM I've been seeing this girl for a couple months, the first two times we've had sex it's been mostly her leading since she's more experienced (I lost my virginity to her, but she doesn't know that).Last night however, I did a few things that I learned of and she seemed to react well to them so I kept doing ...

I’m 21 and a virgin and I want to know if anyone else feels like this as well. I am somewhat anxious about cumming inside even with a condom on, just in case it breaks/leaks. On top of that, I’m not sure if my condoms are fitting correctly or if they are too tight (kinda harder to roll it down after few inches + my head definitely gets somewhat compressed because of it, to get it to the very bottom id need to carefully lift the latex and stretch it with my fingers so that it fits. Any info/advice/thoughts? Submitted October 15, 2021 at 12:38AM I’m 21 and a virgin and I want to know if anyone else feels like this as well.I am somewhat anxious about cumming inside even with a condom on, just in case it breaks/leaks. On top of that, I’m not sure if my condoms are fitting correctly or if they are too tight (kinda harder to roll it down after few inches + my head definitely gets somewhat compressed because of it, to get it to the very bottom id need to carefully lift the latex and ...

What recommendations to people have for toys (fleshlights, etc.) or tools (fancy lube, etc) to help me enhance handjob experiences when I am giving them to others? Submitted October 15, 2021 at 12:43AM What recommendations to people have for toys (fleshlights, etc.) or tools (fancy lube, etc) to help me enhance handjob experiences when I am giving them to others?

I get really nervous/anxious about shots and vaccines but never got it when I was younger. Any advice? Submitted October 15, 2021 at 12:47AM I get really nervous/anxious about shots and vaccines but never got it when I was younger. Any advice?

I’m a young woman who never wants kids, but again… I’m young. Who knows what future me will want, and (unwanted) sterilization is honestly heartbreaking in many cases, and I don’t wanna hurt future me. Anyways I’ve been reading about getting my tubes tied, and reversal procedures and just wondered if anyone had any experience with that? Overall it’s just an interesting option (especially if you have the cash for it 😭). And sure it would be great if guys just got vasectomies if children where off the table for them, but they don’t so… Submitted October 15, 2021 at 12:49AM I’m a young woman who never wants kids, but again… I’m young. Who knows what future me will want, and (unwanted) sterilization is honestly heartbreaking in many cases, and I don’t wanna hurt future me.Anyways I’ve been reading about getting my tubes tied, and reversal procedures and just wondered if anyone had any experience with that? Overall it’s just an interesting option (especially if you have the cash f...

I f21 is meeting an old fling m22 who I’ve mostly chatted with on social media and met once. We haven’t spoken in years and then he suddenly asked me on a proper date. I’ve never been on an actual date only been the side piece and a pick-me who settled I told him I would love to go but I wanted to wait two weeks so I could save up so I could pay for my share he said it was on him. We are going to randomly both of our favorite restaurant and to watch the new venom movie and I’m very shy and reserved when meeting new people I am autistic and I have social anxiety he knows I have anxiety. But how do I handle the anxiety part if I get over stimulated and what is appropriate for someone to wear on a date it’s getting cold out so I was thinking a long skirt and a sweater both in black but is that too little or too much? I’m also thinking of wearing Gucci guilty or the good girl perfume but I don’t know which one and I don’t know i don’t think I should wear heels in case we are going to walk...

I’ve been seen this guy for three weeks. We had sex already. He is 38. We had sex already . A few days ago he started sexting me and texting dirty . Things like , I want you to talk dirty to me, I love to bend you over, Tell me what fo you want to do to me , I’m so hit by for your , your so wet I kinda went with it texted back too. He even texted he’d like to try anal sex, I said I’m not ready for this and he replied that we can try slowly and that he thinks I will love it … I’m not sure how I feel about this answer . Do you think all this is normal? How early in dating is sexting ok? He’s not even asking how’s my day going, what am I doing etc . Is this guy is just a horny dude that is only interested in taking care of his own needs ? Submitted October 15, 2021 at 12:00AM I’ve been seen this guy for three weeks. We had sex already. He is 38. We had sex already . A few days ago he started sexting me and texting dirty . Things like , I want you to talk dirty to me, I love to ...

So I went out with this dude, like a date and when i got home i felt nothing lol We’ve been talking for two months and it was our first time hanging out. Anyways, the next day for some reason my body was achy and like I felt tired. We didn’t do anything. But comparing to the other guy I dated, I went to sleep so well and woke up really good. Is that my body telling me I wasn’t at all interested with the first dude? Submitted October 15, 2021 at 12:03AM So I went out with this dude, like a date and when i got home i felt nothing lol We’ve been talking for two months and it was our first time hanging out. Anyways, the next day for some reason my body was achy and like I felt tired. We didn’t do anything. But comparing to the other guy I dated, I went to sleep so well and woke up really good. Is that my body telling me I wasn’t at all interested with the first dude?

[28 M and 22 F] Meet her a year ago. She admitted she liked me back in May. I told her I wasn't ready to be in a relationship yet. But we were still affectionate, lovey dovey with each other all throughout the summer. She even told me she "Didn't know she had a type in a guy before I meet you." Around 6 weeks ago, it suddenly got distant after a night where she got very drunk & intense around me and made herself vulnerable. Our contact since then has been sporadic/spaced apart. And in the last 3 weeks, our texting has been very spaced apart. Only 1 or 3 exchanges here and there a day, sometimes skipping a day or two. People told me that she hadn't lost interest, but was distancing to allow herself to move on from me in a way or to wind down the intensity. Now the last few days I've been doing a lot of thinking....And feel like I want to ask her out, because although I'm still not 100% ready, but is anybody ever 100% ready? She's wonderful. I do...

So me and this dude has been talking for 2 months and we went out on a date not too long ago. I thought everything went well, he even told me a really deep secret and we cuddled, held hands. After that day he started to distance himself little by little. He stopped calling me by the nickname he gave me and just ‘ghosted me’ he hasn’t blocked me and still biews my snap stories. Idk what I did wrong.. he is 21 im 20. Submitted October 15, 2021 at 12:06AM So me and this dude has been talking for 2 months and we went out on a date not too long ago. I thought everything went well, he even told me a really deep secret and we cuddled, held hands. After that day he started to distance himself little by little. He stopped calling me by the nickname he gave me and just ‘ghosted me’ he hasn’t blocked me and still biews my snap stories. Idk what I did wrong.. he is 21 im 20.

Hello, i (21M) have been going to this coffee shop multiple times for the past couple of weeks, the bartender/waitress(she does both) there is very cute and is around my age, i increased my visits there so she can get familiar with me, make sure she's the one who i give mt order to so we can just talk or make eye contact, she mentioned having two cats so the other day while paying i asked her what her cats name were and what not just to have a small convo with her, a couple of days later i ask her for drink suggestions and before leaving i ask her her name, which she responds to and smiles, same day i find her on instagram and give her a follow there, she accepts and follows back a day later, Now idk how to proceed, I've went twice since the instagram following but im not able to start a vonvo with her, simply because i Don't want to make her uncomfortable by atarting a convo out of nowhere during her shift, but at the same time we do make eye contact and smile, but maybe...

I have severe problems when having conversations with women I like. I don't know what SENTENCES to use and develop attraction. I know it money and looks are like the cherry on the cake but it's all about conversation. I literally don't know what to talk. I talk with them but it just gives a friend kind of a vibe. Just like normal friends would talk and I constantly fall behind and fail just by becoming the ' Friend ' . Please help me🙏. Submitted October 15, 2021 at 12:09AM I have severe problems when having conversations with women I like. I don't know what SENTENCES to use and develop attraction. I know it money and looks are like the cherry on the cake but it's all about conversation.I literally don't know what to talk. I talk with them but it just gives a friend kind of a vibe. Just like normal friends would talk and I constantly fall behind and fail just by becoming the ' Friend ' . Please help me🙏.