What to wear and how to handle anxiety.

I f21 is meeting an old fling m22 who I’ve mostly chatted with on social media and met once. We haven’t spoken in years and then he suddenly asked me on a proper date. I’ve never been on an actual date only been the side piece and a pick-me who settled I told him I would love to go but I wanted to wait two weeks so I could save up so I could pay for my share he said it was on him. We are going to randomly both of our favorite restaurant and to watch the new venom movie and I’m very shy and reserved when meeting new people I am autistic and I have social anxiety he knows I have anxiety. But how do I handle the anxiety part if I get over stimulated and what is appropriate for someone to wear on a date it’s getting cold out so I was thinking a long skirt and a sweater both in black but is that too little or too much? I’m also thinking of wearing Gucci guilty or the good girl perfume but I don’t know which one and I don’t know i don’t think I should wear heels in case we are going to walk after the movie and talk but what do I ask him what is normal to ask someone and how do I flirt with him should I compliment him? Ask him if he is sure I shouldn’t pay half or what? I don’t know the rules I like to feel like the belle of the ball but I’m so very scared so can somebody tell me the basics of dating please?

Submitted October 14, 2021 at 11:59PM

I f21 is meeting an old fling m22 who I’ve mostly chatted with on social media and met once. We haven’t spoken in years and then he suddenly asked me on a proper date. I’ve never been on an actual date only been the side piece and a pick-me who settled I told him I would love to go but I wanted to wait two weeks so I could save up so I could pay for my share he said it was on him. We are going to randomly both of our favorite restaurant and to watch the new venom movie and I’m very shy and reserved when meeting new people I am autistic and I have social anxiety he knows I have anxiety. But how do I handle the anxiety part if I get over stimulated and what is appropriate for someone to wear on a date it’s getting cold out so I was thinking a long skirt and a sweater both in black but is that too little or too much? I’m also thinking of wearing Gucci guilty or the good girl perfume but I don’t know which one and I don’t know i don’t think I should wear heels in case we are going to walk after the movie and talk but what do I ask him what is normal to ask someone and how do I flirt with him should I compliment him? Ask him if he is sure I shouldn’t pay half or what? I don’t know the rules I like to feel like the belle of the ball but I’m so very scared so can somebody tell me the basics of dating please?