i have never been in a serious relationship, i go on dates but usually never progress past a couple dates. if i let myself catch feelings, there is usually a honeymoon phase where i think everything is perfect, i tell everyone i know about it, i feel like i've met the one. then eventually i start to pick everything apart and i get extremely paranoid about the guys i am seeing. i wonder if they are seeing other women, using me for only my body and many other issues. if i voice these concerns the guys will always console me and try to kill my paranoia but no amount of consoling will ever help. it just builds and builds until eventually i ruin it. every. single. time. i'm starting to think my lack of trust in other people and general paranoia means i will never get any further than two months with someone and i am really hoping that is not the case. anyone else been through something similar and any tips on how to learn to trust the people you're with? Submitted Novem

I really want to meet girls that play PC games and express unique interests, alt styles, etc. I find most people on dating apps are pretty similar. How can I meet more? I don't drink so bars aren't viable. I am in college and have seen a few girls I'm interested in but not talked to much, if at all. Submitted November 18, 2023 at 12:15AM I really want to meet girls that play PC games and express unique interests, alt styles, etc. I find most people on dating apps are pretty similar. How can I meet more? I don't drink so bars aren't viable. I am in college and have seen a few girls I'm interested in but not talked to much, if at all.