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Are men automatically not horny after the cum? or

after i cum W20 i am still a little bit horny, if not, maybe more horny after i cum. do men feel the same? my s/o goes soft most of the time after he cums. sometimes will stay hard but at that point his dick is too sensitive to keep going. Submitted December 19, 2021 at 01:52AM after i cum W20 i am still a little bit horny, if not, maybe more horny after i cum. do men feel the same?my s/o goes soft most of the time after he cums. sometimes will stay hard but at that point his dick is too sensitive to keep going.

Married with Questions about Sexual Fulfillment and Agency

I (36M) recently had a conversation with my wife (34F), who I'm very happy with and want to stay married to because she makes me feel very loved and I love her deeply as well. We talked about our sexual fantasies and histories and it came out that she has had twice the number of sexual partners that I had, despite me not having a small number. Getting her to enjoy sex has been source of frustration for me in our relationship in the past so I was really surprised to discover this. We've been having better sex since the conversation - I've figured out a bunch of tricks to give her a half dozen to a dozen orgasms each time - but the discussion has left me with a few obsessive thoughts. My wife got to exercise a lot of sexual agency before she met me. Despite both of us having poor mental health and self image in our late teens and early 20s, as a young and hot woman she got to choose who she wanted to have sex with and how and I didn't. My sister had bullied me as a chi...

I have a neighbor that i want to ask to have oral sex, but how?

Guys I’m really bad at this. I have a neighbor that I’m pretty sure is a freak. Tons of tatts including one up and down her spine. We chatted for a while today and she gave me her number to send send me something. In a perfect world, I’d knock three ones on her door, she’d open, unzip my jeans and we’d eventually trade head. Obviously, this is not some fantasy world. I have no idea how to translate; I want to swap head somehow, but how do I go about this? Worth the weirdness of her being my neighbor? Submitted December 19, 2021 at 01:56AM Guys I’m really bad at this. I have a neighbor that I’m pretty sure is a freak. Tons of tatts including one up and down her spine. We chatted for a while today and she gave me her number to send send me something.In a perfect world, I’d knock three ones on her door, she’d open, unzip my jeans and we’d eventually trade head. Obviously, this is not some fantasy world. I have no idea how to translate; I want to swap head somehow, but how do I go ...

Mixed signals during foreplay?

My girlfriend (f25)and I (m24) are having intimacy problems. We work opposite shifts. today I came home for lunch about an hour before she had to work, and she was in bed. I get in behind her to cuddle and we start to heat things up a bit. She mentions that she isn’t wearing panties and grinds up on me a bit here and there. So far so good, but when I reach around to touch her vagina, I get no response. She doesn’t move, open her legs, or make any noises. I get on top of her and try and make out, and she says no because of her morning breath. I try do go down on her and it’s also a no. The moment was gone for me because I felt she wasn’t reciprocating and got into my head over that, but she claims I didn’t do anything to initiate in the first place and was upset that we didn’t have sex. Am I getting mixed signals? Or am I getting hung up on the little things? If your partner doesn’t want you to finger them, give them oral, make out, or make any more of their own moves after they put ou...

Average looking but can't get a Woman interested in me, I also get zero matches on tinder and also still a virgin

Im a 23 year old Irish man who has never had a girlfriend/had sex before but At times I just get fustraited cause I can never attract any women Physically Im 6'0 with ginger hair, Blue eyes, tattoes and my body type is fit (Im very into bodybuilding). I have great hygine, I wear nice fitted clothes and have a good sense of fashion, Im big into skincare etc but no women seems to find me attractive. I get zero matches on tinder, When Im at a bar or club I Never seem to get noticed and Many men just seem to look better than me. I just wish some women would give me a chance cause I know that Im not exactly good looking (Id rate myself as a 5.5) but Im very career driven, Interesting, Whitty, I have no addictions and I also want marriage/kids eventually. Im also horny as fuck Although I've been thinking of just using an escort cause I really want to experience sex. Im pretty vanila tho (I.e Id rather kiss, Touch bodies with a woman, Do a bit of oral on her, Body kisses, Be the ...

/u/Point_Brief on Have you came out as asexual to anybody?

I came out to about 5 of my friends and a few friends of a friend, but that’s it. I told some of my friends I was ace a few days after half joking that I may be ace after wondering how the hell people found some cartoon characters attractive. December 19, 2021 at 12:38AM

Hives on bottom after riding partner?

I’m a trans man, and my partner is NB with a penis. This evening when doing the do, we were going at it doggy style and finished. After cuddling I went to clean up in the bathroom and realized my bottom felt itchy and took a look in the mirror. I have hives! I have very sensitive skin and my face will break out in hives and be red after making out with my partner, but I’ve never had it happen on my genitals or bottom. Is this just the same thing, my skin just being sensitive? I’m thinking it’s just from their pubic hair but I’m also like wtf lol Submitted December 19, 2021 at 12:54AM I’m a trans man, and my partner is NB with a penis. This evening when doing the do, we were going at it doggy style and finished. After cuddling I went to clean up in the bathroom and realized my bottom felt itchy and took a look in the mirror. I have hives! I have very sensitive skin and my face will break out in hives and be red after making out with my partner, but I’ve never had it happen on my ...

How do I/we deal with my gfs gag reflex while giving a blowjob

My gf has a high sex drive, she’s up for pretty much anything, she’s rarely said no to any sexual activity, heck she’s brought up a lot of things we’ve done. The only issue is she has a really high gag reflex when giving out a blowjob. She never blew a guy before me and believed that a blowjob always involves deep throat. I’ve a decently long but very thick penis and when she tries to deep throat she just ends up feeling gagged and backs off. I never hold her head down or thrust her mouth scared she’ll gag. Also, she likes to blow me, she’s initiated the bj more times than I’ve asked for it. As a way to deal with this, I told her she doesn’t have to go in deep, I asked her to jerk the base while she plays with the head with her mouth. She still goes back to wildly deep throating and gagging herself (maybe that’s from the kind of porn she’s watched?) She would gag if I cum in her mouth without giving out a cue 10 secs in advance too, even then she might. I don’t know if some of it is p...

My friend is a junior in high school (she just turned 16) and is in a long-distance relationship with a senior who is 18. I'm concerned that this relationship could become predatory. Should I tell a school counselor or authorities about this?

Here’s some more context: They met a little over a year ago and live a 3-hour drive away from each other. My friend just turned 16 and is really naive about relationships. Although this isn’t her first relationship, I’ve noticed a few red flags about her behavior. First, she openly talks about how she wants to get back together with her ex but being with this guy is “simpler”. Second, she’s been lying to him about her parents’ profession and income. Of course, she’s not obliged to tell him these things, but he never asked, she just proactively lied to him. Third, she takes advantage of his willingness to spoil her. He’s spent thousands of dollars on gifts for her and train rides to see her and she never reciprocates with affection or effort. He is 18 years old and she’s barely 16. I’m afraid that this relationship is toxic for both of them and could be illegal. Should I anonymously tell the school or law enforcement? Submitted December 19, 2021 at 12:11AM Here’s some more conte...

/u/Melias_headwings on Hello my fellow lovely asexuals! I’m Curious to know, if you were to date someone, what kind of relationship would be ok/comfortable for you?

I answered other since I would absolutely love cuddles, but kisses are a lot more iffy for me. And definitely no sex. December 18, 2021 at 11:41PM

/u/EatingSugarYesPapa on Don't forget the biggest diaper bag full of snacks from Wal-Mart. Who else has done this? 😂

I’m not replying to OP, I’m replying to you. And you are implying that aces can’t have sex, which is entirely untrue. December 18, 2021 at 11:40PM