I’m 15 so one year older and I haven’t had much interest with sex since I was 12, yes it’s normal c: August 19, 2021 at 11:23PM

demi or gray, most likely, along with others, it’s a spectrum. but can u specify in what way? August 19, 2021 at 11:21PM

Uh, Graysexual? August 19, 2021 at 11:21PM

My partner really enjoys it when I wear sexy makeup while giving him oral. Out of curiosity, what types of makeup seems the hottest for blowjobs? Lipgloss is my go to. Submitted August 19, 2021 at 11:00PM My partner really enjoys it when I wear sexy makeup while giving him oral. Out of curiosity, what types of makeup seems the hottest for blowjobs? Lipgloss is my go to.

Hello, my fellow Redditors of r/sex . This is gonna be a long post but I appreciate you taking the time to read this. First of all, I would like to mention that I am not seeking approval or fishing for compliments from people, I am simply looking for advice. I am an 18-year-old female, I am very beautiful and get attention from both genders no matter their age wherever I go. I'm 5'4, skinny with an hourglass figure, and rocking 30DD. I am also very kind, highly intelligent, and have a good sense of humor so many people feel like I am easy to talk to and I have been described as very likable. I know the description doesn't sound humble but I am mentioning all of this because at our age we think about appearance a lot. Now, let's get on with the story. Last week I went on vacation and stayed for 8 days. I meet up with a friend of mine and she introduced me to some of her friends. Let's call the guy Alex, he is tall, kind, extremely handsome, and funny (he is 17). W...

I (24 F) am the type who likes to play with my clit during sex but it can be kind of difficult to do that in missionary position. Is there another way I can make myself orgasm in this position? Thanks! Submitted August 19, 2021 at 11:13PM I (24 F) am the type who likes to play with my clit during sex but it can be kind of difficult to do that in missionary position. Is there another way I can make myself orgasm in this position? Thanks!

I have been having sex with a girl that seems quite intent on being in a relationship with me. She is the one that organises to meet, go on dates, messages me etc. I don’t really want a relationship with her (she’s not really my type) but I am enjoying the sex / company. I am starting to feel guilty and a bit disingenuous. I was wondering whether anyone had any advice on how I could tactfully deal with this situation? Submitted August 19, 2021 at 11:15PM I have been having sex with a girl that seems quite intent on being in a relationship with me. She is the one that organises to meet, go on dates, messages me etc. I don’t really want a relationship with her (she’s not really my type) but I am enjoying the sex / company. I am starting to feel guilty and a bit disingenuous. I was wondering whether anyone had any advice on how I could tactfully deal with this situation?

He's 16 and he's at that stage where he's starting to discover masturbation... I was going to leave him alone but I need to give him the talk now. Unfortunately he's doing things which can be dangerous. He's inserting things which can be harmful and the things he would use I'd imagine are everyday items so it is not hygienic.... He's also been stealing my clothes for reasons and I need to get him to stop but I'm not sure how I should approach this? We've never talked about this stuff and I'm just not ready? Submitted August 19, 2021 at 11:18PM He's 16 and he's at that stage where he's starting to discover masturbation... I was going to leave him alone but I need to give him the talk now.Unfortunately he's doing things which can be dangerous. He's inserting things which can be harmful and the things he would use I'd imagine are everyday items so it is not hygienic....He's also been stealing my clothes for reas...

I thought they couldn’t pee when they were hard??? he said he enjoyed the head so much he peed but idk sounds sus af right Submitted August 19, 2021 at 11:20PM I thought they couldn’t pee when they were hard??? he said he enjoyed the head so much he peed but idk sounds sus af right

Well not sure if this fits here. I am an averge looking girl 32F, curvy not like very heavy. Giving stats for reference. I feel like i dont get approached for relationships at all, all the guys I have been with want sex, just that. Nothing serious. I am a quite person dont dress slutty either. Not sure whats happening or where this is coming from? Had this guy few years back who wanted to have sex but strictly no kiss policy. I liked him so it was hurtful. What am I doing wrong? Submitted August 19, 2021 at 11:21PM Well not sure if this fits here. I am an averge looking girl 32F, curvy not like very heavy. Giving stats for reference. I feel like i dont get approached for relationships at all, all the guys I have been with want sex, just that. Nothing serious. I am a quite person dont dress slutty either. Not sure whats happening or where this is coming from? Had this guy few years back who wanted to have sex but strictly no kiss policy. I liked him so it was hurtful. What am I d...

I’m a 23 year old woman that has a body count of 35. When I grew up as a teen my mum ingrained into me I shouldn’t have sex or do anything sexual with guys if I don’t love them as they won’t be interested in me for anything else. I think from this I grew scared of sex, to the point when I experienced my first sexual experience I was petrified. It started as something that daunted me, not excited me. I had a bf when I was 16, that we would have awkward missionary sex drunk once a week. I came out of that year long relationship basically still a virgin. My next proper sexual partner was when I was 19, who I was with for 3 years. Throughout this time I could never fully relax, I found it hard to be in the moment (constantly in my head) and I felt awkward, shy and downright not sexy. During intercourse I would feel like a gremlin and hated him looking at me. Once I finished this relationship I jumped into another relationship where I experienced what being in love is. This is the best s...

It’s already been some years, but I(m29) figured I have a fetish for being heard or watched masturbating and being talked to. I kinda feel weird and perverted about it, but it is what I like. I’ve spoke with some girls I’ve been with and most of them found it pretty gross. I was wondering if this is common for girls, because since that time I am less open with it to my sexual partners. Submitted August 19, 2021 at 11:23PM It’s already been some years, but I(m29) figured I have a fetish for being heard or watched masturbating and being talked to. I kinda feel weird and perverted about it, but it is what I like.I’ve spoke with some girls I’ve been with and most of them found it pretty gross. I was wondering if this is common for girls, because since that time I am less open with it to my sexual partners.

According to physicians and research, vaginal tightness/size can’t change from sexual intercourse . That said, there was a past relationship I had when I was about 21. My partner than was very large and it took a while to be able to comfortably have sex. Even years since, I do feel like it changed me down there and I don’t feel as tight as I did before that relationship and although it makes sex a lot less painful, it’s something I now feel self conscious about ): have any other women experienced this or think that this can possibly happen ??? Submitted August 19, 2021 at 11:29PM According to physicians and research, vaginal tightness/size can’t change from sexual intercourse . That said, there was a past relationship I had when I was about 21. My partner than was very large and it took a while to be able to comfortably have sex. Even years since, I do feel like it changed me down there and I don’t feel as tight as I did before that relationship and although it makes sex a lot l...

I'm feeling a little unsure about a situation with my partner. he (23M) and I (23F) have been together for 6 months and at the beginning of our relationship we were having quite a lot of sex. we still have a lot of sex, however things in my life have changed a little: ive started antidepressants and I've also just had a lot of personal issues happen over the last two months. this has impacted my sex drive a little. I have always been a very openly sexual person in the sense that I like having sex and I'm comfortable talking about sex around my friends and partner. so communication has never been an issue for me in the past. but recently I've had a lower sex drive and I have had trouble communicating this to my partner for some reason. For example, we will be laying in bed at night and he will just start grabbing my butt, then even though I have provided no response to this he will start rubbing my clit. I don't want to have sex and for some reason I just freeze up ...

Just like the title, I (22f) was seeing this guys (24m) for about a month. He was my first (and the only person I’ve had sex with) and we would have sex about 3-4x a week, in my opinion the sex was amazing but who knows lol maybe I just think that because I’m inexperienced. I moved back home to see family and will be here for about 4 months and I miss having sex with him so much. We didn’t have much of a relationship outside of sex because I didn’t want to get attached, we would only just coordinate when to meet and where but had cute amazing conversations when we were together. With that being said, I want to text him telling him how much I miss him, his body, having sex with him, all sorts but I’m hesitant because I don’t want him to think I’m attached and a part of me thinks that’s a little too much and he would be turned off. I’m really not expecting anything back from him, I really just want to tell him haha I don’t know haha any advice? Thanks so much Submitted August 19,...

Sorry if this is nasty. Let me start off by saying I(23F) am now very sexually experienced. Before my current boyfriend, I had only given oral to one other man with an average size dick. My current boyfriend (30M) is VERY experienced and has been with a lot of women. He knows what he likes and how he likes it done but lately hasn’t been very understanding of my lack of experience. Irregardless, he is very well endowed. I don’t have measurements but it’s big. He likes getting head the best and I don’t mind giving it — but I can’t eat beforehand. If I eat even 5 hours before giving, I throw up. Without fail. On his dick. Sometimes it’s not bad and I swallow it and keep going (gross I know but don’t wanna kill the moment) Yesterday, I made the mistake of eating Taco Bell. Maybe 3 hours later I started giving him head and within the first 15 seconds I threw up. Rinsed my mouth and got back at it. 10 more seconds, it happened again and it was ruined. Nothing less sexy than someone vomiting...

I see this all the time. Personally, my partner really wants me to be happy to care for me, for me to get the pleasure i want. Thing is, being touched down there doesn't feel good/ comfortable to me. For myself I have one method of masturbating that is pretty efficient, but being touched/ touching in any other way is uncomfortable/ overstimulating so i don't like him touching me down there. Plus i get the most pleasure out of pleasuring him, I get uncomfortable with the idea that I'm a part of the sex I'm having. Also, for me there is an internal off-switch after he cums, I'm 99% of the time not in the mood after anymore because sex has been long enough and the hottest part is already over. Anyone else feel the same way? Submitted August 19, 2021 at 11:44PM I see this all the time. Personally, my partner really wants me to be happy to care for me, for me to get the pleasure i want.Thing is, being touched down there doesn't feel good/ comfortable to me....

Hi, first time poster here. My boyfriend (20M) and I (20F) of five years have waited forever to have sex and originally were planning on waiting till marriage. However, after doing everything but sex, we talked it over and decided, “why not? We’re going to marry each other, let’s enjoy it and have fun.” And I’m all for it. However, I’m so nervous about getting pregnant. I’m on low dose birth control to help regulate my periods, and we plan on using a condom and pulling out when he’s about to cum. What’s my chances of getting pregnant? Sorry if it seems silly, it’s my first time and I’m nervous and excited. We’re even going to stay in a hotel room and sleep together for the first time overnight. Submitted August 19, 2021 at 11:48PM Hi, first time poster here. My boyfriend (20M) and I (20F) of five years have waited forever to have sex and originally were planning on waiting till marriage. However, after doing everything but sex, we talked it over and decided, “why not? We’re goin...

Just wondering on how to really get a girl to orgasm, I have a bigger member (idk if that does anything) but it’s gonna be my first time with this girl and I just want to make it awesome for her, I don’t really care about getting my rocks off. Submitted August 19, 2021 at 11:52PM Just wondering on how to really get a girl to orgasm, I have a bigger member (idk if that does anything) but it’s gonna be my first time with this girl and I just want to make it awesome for her, I don’t really care about getting my rocks off.

okay so me and my boyfriend were having sex and we were using a condom. i was kind of standing up straight while we were having sex and so was he. when he finished he had it inside me for like 5 seconds maybe and when we pulled it out at the start of the condom were it starts (not the end were the little air part is) there was like white fluid kinda and i don’t know if it was just wet from me being aroused or if it was his but i don’t think his could have leaked all the way down, and before this he already cummed too so he wouldn’t have cummed a lot. i touched the white fluid and licked it and it didn’t taste like cum but when i pulled off the condom i touched close enough to the top and licked it and it tasted like cut but it could have only got there because i pulled it off. i don’t know if it was mine or could it have being his sperm? Submitted August 19, 2021 at 11:52PM okay so me and my boyfriend were having sex and we were using a condom. i was kind of standing up straight...

I'm hoping maybe someone else has a similar experience and can help me to better understand or help me to not think about or care about it as much as I do. But pretty much 24/7 I can think of nothing but sex and touching and imagining sensations, and I will masturbate 10 times or more every single day. If it's a day off, I will wake up and start thinking about fantasies with women and masturbate upwards of 20 times until I'm physically tired and ready for bed. I've been this way since I was a few years into university, and honestly it's just how I get through my life. I guess it's not as bad as a drug addiction or something because I still finished university and I work and take care of myself such as going to the gym. But I've been depressed for a long time and am getting continually more depressed because while it seems to be the only thing I can think about, it also seems like it's just not in the cards for me. I have often wondered if seeing a prof...

Would you continue to ask to touch them every few minutes? My ex tried to touch my boob and I said no and he said ‘since when am I not allowed to touch your boobs?’ Five minutes later, he asked me again if he could touch them until I said yes. Would you continue to pester them for sex and have sexual conversations with them when they clearly weren’t interested or reciprocating? Submitted August 19, 2021 at 11:54PM Would you continue to ask to touch them every few minutes? My ex tried to touch my boob and I said no and he said ‘since when am I not allowed to touch your boobs?’ Five minutes later, he asked me again if he could touch them until I said yes. Would you continue to pester them for sex and have sexual conversations with them when they clearly weren’t interested or reciprocating?

so my fwb (m) had never done any butt stuff before and recently told me he was interested in getting pegged. I suggested we start slower with a tongue or finger so I did a little bit of that last time we hooked up and since then he went ahead and got a strap on. Im down for the new experience/adventure but I have 2 main reservations and I’m hoping someone can offer some insight, particularly other women who have been in this situation. 1) we are just friends with benefits. I do care for him but I don’t love him and I’m not sure I want the vulnerability and intimacy that comes with taking his “anal virginity” (taking that phrase with a grain of salt). It would also be my first time. Am I wrong in assuming this is a lot for a casual, non romantic relationship? 2) the thought of wearing a strap on does not make me feel sexy. I’m usually quite submissive when we have sex and I’m used to being sexy in certain ways. How do I get past the weirdness of wearing a strap and having a plastic d...