I'm sorry, I didn't mean to be invalidating. I don't question your experience, and I don't doubt you experienced what your experienced. Please me try again. I'll be more specific and concrete. I don't know if you identify as allo or ace now, but you seem to be saying that you were allo when you were very young. did you know you were allo at that age, or did you figure out what those feelings meant later on? i understand that you felt differently towards girls then boys. but i feel differently towards girls then boys now, and for my whole life. the thing is that i thought those feelings were sexual, but, on reflection, i think i was wrong about that. when i want to hold hands with my wife now, or even if i want to kiss her, it is not a sexual feeling in that it is not a precursor to sex. there is just a symbolism to those acts. but i had to do stuff with people before i understood that the urge that i felt after a kiss was not sexual. i had to try things to ...

How would not having this options help anyone? April 27, 2021 at 12:03AM

That's different from sexual attraction. That's romantic attraction or something like that. April 26, 2021 at 11:51PM

I keep hearing about diff aspec dating apps but none of them seem to take off. Which is frustrating, since it’s kind of hard to have an effective dating app without a solid user base April 26, 2021 at 11:50PM

Since you don't experience sexual attraction then yeah, you're still asexual. Aces can be sex positive, sex neutral, sex repulsed, or can flop between all of those depending on a number of variables for each person April 26, 2021 at 11:46PM

Yes you still are asexual. If you still like sex but aren’t sexually attracted to people, your most likely a sex-favorable ace. Wich is what you just described. Ultimately it’s up to you if you consider yourself ace April 26, 2021 at 11:42PM

As a so ace it almost hurts kinda guy, it’s not the sexualization that bothers me. It’s the objectification. Honestly I’d prefer it if everyone just didn’t care about it so much. Like people being naked or having sex shouldn’t be a big deal, but we make it a big deal and it just ruins it. Plus making it taboo just makes it worse for everyone cause then it’s hidden everywhere and slipped into everything. April 26, 2021 at 11:41PM

Yep, still asexual! April 26, 2021 at 11:41PM

I believe i am demisexual but i also think i might slightly be aromantic aswell or atleast demiromantic April 26, 2021 at 11:39PM

Thank you, you too. April 26, 2021 at 11:39PM

I fantasize about being a shapeshifter, and can also turn invisible, and going around saving animals and people from bad situations and secretly feeding homeless people by being a doggie and carrying a bag of fresh food to them. Nothing sexual about that. I have never had a sexual fantasy or dream or anything like that ever in my life! I think it’s safe to say I’m Ace! Hahaha April 26, 2021 at 11:37PM

I had a 'christian' tell me that I was going to hell for my sins...of not having sex? April 26, 2021 at 11:37PM

Friendly dinosaur in a pot! April 26, 2021 at 11:32PM

lds pan aces here too 😅 April 26, 2021 at 11:30PM

It reminds me of those weird slimy monsters from Zelda a link to the past. April 26, 2021 at 11:27PM

I mean I don’t really care how sexual society is as long as nobody is discriminated against because of sexuality April 26, 2021 at 11:16PM

OMG that’s an awesome fantasy!!! April 26, 2021 at 11:14PM

I said decent not great. Compared to the humid hot cesspool that is Florida anything is decent April 26, 2021 at 11:14PM

Christian Ace, right here. Though, I will say the youth at my church, at least some of the friend groups I hung out with, had... let’s just say colorful gossip on who did what the night before. It was uncomfortable 😐. April 26, 2021 at 11:10PM

no, in that situation, most likely not. hopefully, though, you'll find a way for things to work out in the end April 26, 2021 at 11:10PM

Ok I see Thank you for helping me with this April 26, 2021 at 11:09PM

Ok, actually, same April 26, 2021 at 11:09PM

I've never been intinate with anyone other than my husband, but that's not because I'm religious. I'm just demi-ace. April 26, 2021 at 11:09PM